
Do women really date average looking guys?


Sure but they don’t fuck them. I think a skill that we can all work on, both men and women, is to take rejection respectfully. What I don’t get is women dishing out what they can’t take. When I reject women and they ask me why and I tell them “I don’t find you attractive” they act like children with insults or cry about how I hurt their self-esteem. People that act like that need to see a therapist.
The hypocrisy man
Yes. But only after hitting the wall in their mid to late 30s and after they run out of all the tall, handsome, and rich men... 😂


Obviously. Most married couples I see are average looking.
The dudes have to be good looking or they're older around 30s or 40s
Well I mean I don't really see many married couples who are under 25. Typically they're 25+.
Yup that makes sense. Women my age don't date average looking guys. They usually date a guy that has other women attracted to him.
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Of course they do.
As for the numbers, it isn't the most fun answer but I suspect it is as simple as cosmetics and encouraged interests.
If for the sake of argument we assume makeup and fashion adds about a 2 on the usual scale of 10, that would more or less even the playing field.
If we also take into account that even the bible encourages women to learn about makeup and care for their looks (what with how the angels descended and taught women the art of cosmetics and then fell in love with them).
Really if we compare the time the average guy spends trying to look good and the time the average girl spends trying to look good, I am convinced girls win by a landslide. We can make it somewhat fair by adding exercise however looking good is perhaps the single largest market aimed towards women. Of course it is bound to have some sort of impact. How many of us guys even know which features our face has or what our clothes accentuate?
well you could make the argument that looks isn't all that matters for women. but on dating sites, there's really nothing else they could take into account right?
Why do people act like dating standards change from online in real life?
because they absolutely fucking do xD have you never met someone from some online platform irl and thought: "well they are nothing like they presented themself on the platform"?
you can't have the same standards in real life as you have online, as simply: you don't have the same information online than you have irl.
But you act like the standards people apply online change in real life? Standards don't just change
no. i'm saying since visuals is all they see on dating sites, none of the other stuff can matter as they swipe. cause they would have to meet to even know about those things that turn them on. it's not a different standard. it's just that you can't check all standards you may have online. online is only a certain selection. mostly visual. and if you cut out that portion of female standards, you get a skewed view of reality. just like with men by the way. i think men will also decide differently upon actually knowing the girl. cause obviously you don't happen to fall in love with every girl you swipe right... right?
Let's agree to disagree then my friend
The fact that you rely on shitty dating sites for real world statistics is beyond me.
Dating sites ain't shit, don't use them.
Its not standards are different from dating sites
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200 years ago, in the US, women wanted protection and picked a man based on his ability to protect her. Maybe 100 years ago, looks were not that important. Today, regular guys don't get any attention. Yes it sucks but not in the way you want.
Females love to say they don't do this but I've lived this my whole life being told I'm too ugly but hearing women say looks don't matter is the biggest piece of bullshit they try to spit. It's a reason I've given up on dating.
Other figure also show that women will date them in spite of that rating.
Women will just not think much of them the whole time basically and kind of be mad about it all the time.
Females are more likely to be with someone less attractive so they are more secure in a relationship. It usually is done subconscious
Yeah they do because they realize it’s personality that matters most
They sure do. They'll even marry them.
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