Do girls want to date average looking guys anymore?

[Anonymous]

Blunt and honest i feel like we're screwed

[Shy_Steve]

Girls keep saying they do, The problem is Girls only want about the top 20% of Guys so about 80% of us Guys are screwed.

I'm 37 and still single simply because I'm Shy and I don't approach people especially Girls and most Shy Girls who don't approach anyone lose their virginity by 20 or 25 at least.

[MCheetah]

Nope. Any man less than a 7 is f*cked. Call it Natural Selection.

[OlderAndWiser]

Go to the mall, have a seat in a busy corridor, and watch the couples who stroll by. How many of them look like Hollywood actors and actresses? How many of them look like normal dudes and dudettes?

Yes, people of average beauty date, and settle down into long term relationships. If that didn't happen, the majority of people would be single all of their lives.

[tatianamay]

Ludicrous.

I'd rather date a man who is 6, and has an amazing personality- someone who makes me laugh, makes me feel safe and secure, someone who is loyal and caring, than a guy who is a 9 and treats me like a piece of crap. Instead of blaming it on women, try introspecting yourself. Nice and simple. Don't listen to some bitter men on here, or you will be one of them in a few years. I'm sure you don't want that.

[Asker]

Those bitter men have experiences. But even if i had the same experiences as them, id accept it and just focus on other things in life

[tatianamay]

They are bitter now because they did not do their part, which is self-introspection. have you ever thought just maybe its your personality and not your looks?

[anylolone]

I can bet that your 6 is an 8. Remember, a 6 means he's more or less better looking than 60% of men and worst looking than 40%.

[VanillaSalt]

The problem @tatianamay is that while your point makes sense understand it’s not just him. It’s actually an extreme portion of the male population. If most men are having the same issue then it would make sense it’s women. I get the argument and it can be turned around but at the end of the day women don’t make good choices despite getting all the say. It’s women whom choose their partners not men. It’s also women whom choose when to give up sex. The only thing men can do it commit and sign paperwork.

[Asker]

@VanillaSalt Brutal truth

[Asker]

a lot of men are gaslighted and told its not their looks. And mind you they're just average looking. Not ugly

[daisy_jones]

Tbh, all of the guys I've had a crush on have been average looking because I've mainly liked them for their personality. No six pack, some weren't even that tall, average face BUT a great personality.

If a guy has a great personality (well, one that matches mine and the qualities I look for in a person, because "great personality" is subjective), he instantly becomes 10 times more attractive.

[Asker]

You're in the rare rare rare minority then. Because most women aren't like that and want the tall buff or athletic type of men with sharp jawlines

[Effably]

If you pick between a 10 and a 5, barring all else, most pick the 5.
That out of the way, when the 5 cracks a funny joke and smiles the right way he can very well become someone's 10.

Absent actual interaction dating can be hard if "average" as a guy. Having anything that stands out helps immensley.

[Effably]

I obviusly meant they pick the 10. My bad.

[ItsMeElliana]

Basically If I like you and love your personality, I would slowly just start getting adjusted with your looks and it wouldn't matter if you thought you were ugly because to me you'd be just that amazing person and id love you for the way you are

[Asker]

Eh most girls aren't like that. As a matter of fact, you're very very rare

[TheBigGuy9]

It’s a false reality online dating. There will always be someone wanting to talk. Everyday women are inundated with men to choose from. Some of them don’t even date anymore. They like the online attention and that’s good enough. That or women that are 5s are now being picky thinking they are an 8 or 9.

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Learn to love yourself first...

I'm sure you've heard that one a million times already... -But it's true, what you lack ain't "looks" (beauty, my friend, is in the eyes of the beholder) but confidence... Now, don't mistake confidence with arrogance. Learn to feel comfortable in your own body, you're sabotaging yourself and you don't even know it...

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah like the majority of the world is average and yeah more average guys have sex than above average.

You walk down the street in any town or city and the majority of people you will see are average couples walking down together.

Social media gives a completely wrong representation of life.

[Asker]

"Average guys have sex more than above average men" Any stats to back that claim?

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes the fucking obvious one.

The number of average people in the world is in the Billions.

Those above average, likely in 100,000’s

Do the maths.

There is a reason it’s termed being average, not the upper quartile etc.
It pretty much means the person in the street.
If you do not have 2heads, a deformity, etc. Then you are average.
If you happen to be like Adonis, then yeah you are above average but that is a fucking small number compared with the rest of the planet.

I don’t need stats, no one does , just fucking common sense

[Asker]

What about the stats that dating sites release showing that 80% of men are unattractive while only the top 20% are attractive? Most of those men have to be average looking

[ChrisMaster69]

How many of the total population of the planet use dating sites?

I am on about the real world, only a minuscule number use hookup sites.

You are looking at a billion people, then taking 10’000 people say and then looking at a sub set of them and saying yeah but these have this problem.

Real world not dating sites, the human race would die out if this was in anyway true 😂😂😂

[Asker]

Do people's preferences and standards online just automatically change in real life 😒

[ChrisMaster69]

No but the actual numbers increase.

As a guy looking on a dating app, you are a flat unemotional photo with some writing, unless you stand out you get flicked over.

For every girl using a dating app there are likely a million that don’t.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean those dating standards women have online don't apply to women that aren't online

[ChrisMaster69]

Walk outside during the day tomorrow and look down any town or city street, those are average people dating each other, it’s how real life is.
I’m an average (single dad so likely below average) guy dating a definitely above average girl.
Dating site not used, she asked me.

[Asker]

I do and in my reality i see women only dating a specific kind of guy. Tall athletic buff build with a sharp jawline. This is my experience and its neither wrong or right. Same with your experience. It's neither wrong or right

[Blackcupcake]

you’re screwed because of that attitude, just saying….

[tatianamay]

Savage 😂

[Blackcupcake]

lmfao he’s playing the victim!

[Asker]

I didn't say anything besides asking if women to date average men any more. How is that playing the victim?

[Blackcupcake]

“…I feel like we’re screwed”

[Asker]

Doesn't mean im acting like a victim cupcake

[Blackcupcake]

sure thing anon…. we’ll say so

[Asker]

Okay

[tatianamay]

Bruh, you are playing the victim card. If you want to score a date with a girl you like, then dress better, give yourself a good haircut, hit the gym. Do anything that'll make you feel more confident. Trust me, I would rather date a guy who's average and has a good sense of humor, and someone who's confident, than someone who is insecure. Girls dig confidence!

[Asker]

I guess men can't say anything without it being regarded as a victim mentality

[Blackcupcake]

lmfao

[Blackcupcake]

see!! playing the victim😂

[Asker]

Do you hold this same enegery when a beings up something about men that she doesn't like?

[Asker]

@tatianamay Yeah but we have to encourage men to do it for themselves. Not for women. That's why i think most dudes dont go through with hitting the gym because they feel they have to do it for women

[disgustingweebtrash]

@Asker no she'll say how men are bad, there's no moral consistency

[AlexanderAnttila]

Come on, there's more to the dating scene than looks.

[Asker]

It starts with looks. a lot of people don't get past that first part

[AlexanderAnttila]

Looks can give a good start but it can never finish it.

[Asker]

Yeah i know but again some don't even get past the first part

[serious]

Depends on how much importance a woman gives to personality aspect as compared to physical beauty aspect.

[KrakenAttackin]

After she has had a 100 yards of Chad cock run through her, has a few kids, and realizes the cock carousel won't pay the bills; than she will want you.

The question is:. Will you want her?

[Janessa2021]

Yes what is this average man have going for himself and what's his character like? Is my question

[Asker]

What does the average women have going for her but can still be successful compared to average men

[Janessa2021]

Don't answer my question with a question cuz its not a valid response

[Asker]

He has qualities. But women want an upgrade of those qualities

[sheila_may]

Actually for me looks is just a plus on the list but what matters the most is the guys personality. Let's say you have a great looks but if you're personality sucks it's a NO.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sheila_may. I hope what you are saying is true because many, many, young women say this but don't mean it.

[sheila_may]

Well i bet those young women is now crying for choosing quantity over quality.

[KrakenAttackin]

@sheila_may They are, these are the women posting "are there any real men left", "where have all the good men gone", and "all I want is a real man".

[sheila_may]

Well that's their pov based on their experience being with the guy so some women posting that and you know men also post that kind of statement, so what can say about those men?

[Ashleywinters967]

So what makes a guy “average” every woman has their preferences.

[anylolone]

If less than about half of the guys you see aren't dating material, then you don't wanna date average looking guys.

[Asker]

@anylolone Yup agree

[anylolone]

Them: "So, you think half of the women you see are good enough for dating/fucking?"
Me: "Appearance wise I have to think so, if I want to not be arrogant to think I'm evidentially above average and you still think my standards are too high and a good other chunk to be at least tolerable."
Them: "But they aren't all datable then, so what's the difference?"
Me: "All the difference. I can put all selection pressure in compatibility grounds which is why you envy my relationships."

[CaliSixx]

Ayy, I ain't putting anyone down

[Gwenhwyfar]

A lot of girls don’t have any other options

[Asker]

They do compared to guys

[Hangry06]

No one likes "average "

[Asker]

Life's a mean bitch

[Hangry06]

Mean=average= boring

[Asker]

Makes no sense

[Hangry06]

Average Anons will not understand. It's okey

[Asker]

Okay

[boggboss]

I would class myself as as average

[Fuentes]

Then get better self improve

[Anonymous]

No, humanity is done for thankfully

[disgustingweebtrash]

It's over

[Asker]

I know 💀