Did I come off as desperate in sending the last 2 messages?
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(25-29)
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If he did lose interest there could be a million reasons why (many not having anything to do with you) try not to tell yourself a story about what it means or think that it’s you. I always over analyze these situations myself but I just push forward and keep telling myself not to assign meaning to it. I know it sucks but keep pushing forward and hype yourself up a little!
No not at all lol, why would u feel thats desperate? Because he didn't reply?
Trust me you weren't
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I see. He completely ignored the text and its been a day. He hasn't done this before. He used to text within hours at most. For context, he's 27 and I'm 20. Should I move on?
I would, but I don't really get the sense that he wants to see me. He is basically ignoring me for 2 days now and could care less that the sport event was canceled. I appreciate your input though
Guys can be dense or scared to go for it. Stop overthinking and just message/flirt a little bit. If he still doesn't bite then yeah id back off then. But i think its very casual convo so far so why should he think otherwise?
Absolutely not, i find it pretty normal, no worries really , chill : )
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Thanks. I just wonder at what point he lost interest. We talked on the phone a couple days ago for hours and he kept complimenting me and mentioning how he wants a girl to enter his life. He was always attending stuff I invited him to. He would initiate calls. But recently, I was the one to initiate a call/text. Now he's closed off. He's a friend who I've only got to talking these last few months. Do you think something I did caused him to lose interest that quick?
i would delete him, he could have said like “it was nice seeing you too” but he didn’t. looking at the texts he’s not interested and there’s probably another girl. stop texting him now, you’re wasting your time.
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Think you posted an earlier version of this. Yes I’d move on and see if he comes back. Maybe he will maybe he won’t men are weird
Thanks for the input. He ended up not responding and its been a day. I wonder at what point he lost interest. We talked on the phone a couple days ago for hours and he kept complimenting me and mentioning how he wants a girl to enter his life, offering to give me food over the phone. He was always attending stuff I invited him to. I asked on a date once, he went and said he enjoyed it. He invited me to his sport game once. Now he's closed off. I was the last to initiate the last call and texts. He's a friend who I got to talking to these recent months. He's ignoring now.
No, we met in person through mutual friends. He's the type to get a lot of attention from girls, he's attractive and several years younger. I'm late twenties, he's early twenties
I think he isn't too.. I just wonder st what point he lost interest. We talked ok the phone a couple days ago for hours and he kept complimenting me and mentioning how he wants a girl to enter his life. He was always attending stuff I invited him to. Now he's closed off. Do you think I came across as desperate in the recent text?
Thanks. I just wonder at what point he lost interest. We talked ok the phone a couple days ago for hours and he kept complimenting me and mentioning how he wants a girl to enter his life. He was always attending stuff I invited him to. He would initiate calls. But recently, I was the one to initiate a call/text. Now he's closed off. He's a friend who I've only got to talking these last few months. Do you think something I did caused him to lose interest that quick?
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