Am I petty for not answering my ex friends messages?

[Anonymous]

So I’m going to make this as short as possible but me and him met at a festival last year. We vibed very well and we even went to a camping festival together. The experience between the two events was extremely different and I ended up not liking him after the second event. He was very condescending towards me and made me feel crazy whenever I even just spoke. He used to pick at me because I was overweight and basically used to tell me it was unhealthy (fine) , but it seems like he would get condescending if I didn’t take his advice. He always had a “I’m always right” attitude. 7 months past by, we haven’t spoken , he removed me off of Instagram. He then saw I dropped weight and has been nonstop hitting me up. I decided to give him a chance texting wise, but he still comes off very condescending and seems like he only hit me up now because he thinks I’m hot after the weight loss. I am no longer interested in this friendship as a lot of time has gone by and seems like his friendship is conditional. Am I petty for ignoring him?

[KrakenAttackin]

So he banged you on a camping trip, than dumped you, now he wants a holler back and you don't want it. Fine.

[Asker]

Nope, we never had sex and we were just friends. Nice assumption though

[lorenzomichael]

No.
Fuck him, I wouldn't text him back. If he didn't like it, he can go fuck himself.

[Asker]

Yeah at this point he’s just trying to convince me to be his friend even though he should’ve been a better friend. Not sure why he’s trying after 7 months have gone by

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah it's too late for that bullshit. Move on girl your better off..

[In_Trance]

kind of

[Asker]

As much as I do want to reply, I just see the friendship one sided. It’s almost pointless to drag on a friendship where I pretend like I want to hang with him when in reality I don’t want to

[In_Trance]

So move on to something else and leave this alone

[Asker]

Well my question was if I am being petty for not replying

[In_Trance]

yes, you are, kind of

[Asker]

Why is that? I already told him I don’t like his vibes. At this point it’s him convincing me why I should continue to talk to him even though he should’ve been a better friend the first time around

[In_Trance]

If you don't like his vibes then move on.
You're making this complicated

[Asker]

You are making the question being asked complicated lol