Is it okay or right for me to ask my boyfriend to stop looking at girls who look at him?

[Anonymous]

Especially when I'm right there noticing everything

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I'm in limbo because my mom AND therapist say "he's just looking" my mom has said my uncle who has been married for over 30 years "looks" as well even inform of his wife..

[ChrisMaster69]

There is a thing called respect and within a relationship both should show respect to the other.

you can ask him, how much he listens I don’t know.

i am sure you checking out other guys would be commented on quickly.

when or if you do bring it up be polite and non confrontational with him.

[Anonymous]

Having insecurities like worrying about your guy looking at other girls will eventually result in the guy breaking up with the girl

Take Jason Momoa the actor look at how much of a flirt he is he has even posted videos of himself where you can clearly see he is naked yet despite his flirting and posting such videos online and calling Emilia Clarke wifey he still remains faithful and very happily married to Lisa Lisa is the only woman Jason wants

Like Lisa gives him so much freedom because she knows she has nothing to worry about

[Opinion Owner]

At the end of the day I look at it like this they are like fish in a pond it’s ok to look but it’s not ok to touch if he isn’t touching the girls why you stressing about him looking at them he is with you isn’t he He didn’t ask those girls to be his girlfriend he asked you to be his girlfriend if you really think that the girls are trying to take this guy away from you than you clearly don’t have any trust in him and having zero trust why bothering wasting anyone’s time getting into a relationship with them if you can’t trust your man

[PrettyPriya]

Yeah, I mean it is one thing to notice someone, but if he is staring, that is disrespectful. I'm sensing since you are noticing it, it is much more than a glance.

[Asker]

I think so.. when a girl is starring at him hard core he glances at her. Which is dumb. Like she's knows we are together. He SHOULD be ignoring her but no.
he's also a good looking guy and for the past 8 years no one wanted him until he's with me... it's annoying I don't know what to do

[PrettyPriya]

Really something you will have to bring up to him. Do it in a polite and non-confrontational way, but get your point across that it upsets you and wish he would be more mindful.

[Ninani]

You sure can ask. It's up to him how he responds and up to you whether you accept his response.

[Wise4myage]

Yes it is, because he’s being disrespectful.

[Asker]

He apologized to me for looking at other girls (if he does) he never remembers what girl I'm talking about. I want to leave him because of this. Maybe he'll learn. But he's damn there a giod guy I don't know what do you think

[Wise4myage]

He knows how you feel so if he can’t stop than why stay?

[Asker]

He always denies him looking at girls. Maybe he's gaslighting me. I don't know. I've brought it up to him several times. And the last time was the LAST time. So... next time he does it I think I'm done

[Wise4myage]

He denies it? Lol. That’s BS.

[Asker]

Yea. Exactly. But after we went back and forth he says if I see him doing it he's sorry. He apologized. But... that apology dont mean shit to me if he keeps doing it. He hasn't so far but it's like these girls try really hard to take him from me. So I can't trust what hed do if I'm not around.

[Anonymous]

He should know this on his own

[Asker]

He used to never do this...☹

[lycanthrope3]

Then to be fair you can not look at any guys

[Hangry06]

I think no.

[IncognitoBandito]

He should show more discretion

[Asker]

He kind of does... but I'm always watching him and other girls so it's not that easy for him to get away with. Is his behavior a deal breaker. What if your girlfriend watched other handsome men around you?