Let me explain I am totally okay with him having female friend as I know half the population consists of females. And I’m comfortable with him speaking to other females as he has other girls that are his friends that I have ZERO concerns with their friendship. But this female friend in specific is a newer friendship that started shortly before him and I got together - So roughly 2 years of friendship. When they became friends she had a long term boyfriend but about 6 months into our relationship her and her boyfriend broke up.
She has been constantly snapping him on Snapchat and messaging things about her daily life, or her home life, or her love life, or any of her problems during the day. She also makes playful remarks to him such as “do you think I’m ugly” etc. They use to hang out before my boyfriend and I got together but they stopped once he got into a relationship with me. This girl has also avoided any advances to be introduced to me or to get to know me as a person. I trust my boyfriend and I don’t feel that my boyfriend has been flirtatious in return to these messages but he is a very nice guy who is a little oblivious to these things, but I can’t deny that it doesn't bother me that he’s giving so much attention to another women on a daily to every other day basis. I don’t know how to best handle this situation.. I don’t want to restrict his friendships but I also don’t want to be walked all over on. So I’m asking do I have a reason to feel concern? and what would you do if you were in my situation?
She has been constantly snapping him on Snapchat and messaging things about her daily life, or her home life, or her love life, or any of her problems during the day. She also makes playful remarks to him such as “do you think I’m ugly” etc. They use to hang out before my boyfriend and I got together but they stopped once he got into a relationship with me. This girl has also avoided any advances to be introduced to me or to get to know me as a person. I trust my boyfriend and I don’t feel that my boyfriend has been flirtatious in return to these messages but he is a very nice guy who is a little oblivious to these things, but I can’t deny that it doesn't bother me that he’s giving so much attention to another women on a daily to every other day basis. I don’t know how to best handle this situation.. I don’t want to restrict his friendships but I also don’t want to be walked all over on. So I’m asking do I have a reason to feel concern? and what would you do if you were in my situation?
