Why did my friend tell me to stop speaking to a guy she was dating?

[Anonymous]

I went out with both my friend the other night to have drinks. One of my friends went to the bathroom and then my other friend told me that she was speaking to this guy she met through online dating and was seeing him. She told me that he mentioned me and that he also matched with me on online dating and was interested in me, and she showed me a picture of the guy and asked me if I’d been speaking to him. I said I’d never spoken to him before ever and that I’d deleted all my online dating apps. I told her it would probably have been another girl in the same area with my name. Then she proceeded to tell me that I shouldn’t speak to him as he was already obsessed with a girl called Gemma, and that I would be wasting my time speaking with him.

When I got home after meeting up with her she then sent me a photo of him as a private message and I had to keep convincing her that I’d never spoken to him

why did she bring this up and tell me to stop speaking to a guy she was seeing who I had nothing to do with?

[_Maya_]

Sorry but this doesn't make a whole lot of sense. I will point to this part of the post.

" Then she proceeded to tell me that I shouldn’t speak to him as he was already obsessed with a girl called Gemma"

If he is obsessed with a girl but dating your friend wouldn't your friend who is dating the guy be more upset about Gemma? Why would she be pointing out some other girl that he is obsessed with and then her worry about you that had nothing to do with him? That makes absolutely no sense in my mind unless I am missing something. She should be worried that she is dating a guy that is obsessed with a girl that is not her. I think that is the bigger problem.

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