Do I have a right to hate my mom?

[Lokiloli99]

I grew up with a mentally ill mom. She always used to beat me and play mindgames, curse at me and then make me laugh. I hated her growing up and still do. Her jealousy still continues..

[Spookydood]

Do you have the right? I'd say yes. Should you? I'd say no.
The best thing you can do is get away from her. Put that part of your life behind you entirely. Break contact entirely if you can.

[boggboss]

Yeah u can although it's better to become indiffernt

[PoopyPoop]

Waste of your time and energy. I don't know about rights. I probably have the right to burn my own house down if I wanted. Still a huge waste of time and energy either way.

[PoopyPoop]

I don't understand what rights mean anyway. It's like people say they have a right to live. Well, I can kill them. They say they have a right to own property. I can steal it. No one has any rights as I see it. They have risks vs. rewards.

[ballweevil]

i dont know, hate is big word, maybe just distant from her, she is still your mother just put distance between you two, and just try to not make same mistakes as her

[Anonymous]

My mom has always been a mean bitch and now she's just a mean old bitch. You're not wrong, she will never change, a lot of women should never have kids.

[LegendaryIcon]

And yet your relationship with your man, is also bit toxic as well. Isn't that interesting?

[Wise4myage]

You sure do, but you see a therapist about this.

[Lokiloli99]

I did . didn't work

[Wise4myage]

Try again or look into joining a support group.