Does my mom hate me?

Question

So me and my mom got into a fight over a phone she payed for. Because of that she took my phone but not only my phone but also my tv my airpods and my alexa. I use my alexa as a alarm clock because all she does is complain about me not waking up for school. I originally wasn't allowed to leave my room unless I was going to the bathroom or to eat. Taking away my phone is not just a oh okay. But it is my way of communicating with my friends who have graduated, friends at school, to get help with my school work, school updates, etc. I cannot sign up for things because she took my phone. So I got my friends phone to use and as of today she caught me with it and told me to give it to her. I didn't at first so her friend said call cps and dont waste your time. She then pulled out her phone and started recording me saying "You are grounded and not supposed to be on any electronic." and she kept saying it until I put it down. Then she recorded me throwing away the trash after she asked me to. Now im not allowed to leave my room. I hate it here and I feel like she doesn't care about my feelings at all. I cannot use my airpods for the classes I need them in I cannot sign up for things i need in the future because she took my phone. I cannot access my social security either. It sucks here. She took the phone that she has no right to take. Two phones that she didn't pay for. An andriod that I have and an Iphone that I have.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

. well what did you do to piss her off.

So your mom is a single mom doing her best to raise you.. and help you to become the best you can become.. . and you don't or can't see how hard it is to do.. expressly if the daughter has a mouth. On her and has a your not the boss of me attitude.. who can be mean with her words to her mother..

Your mom knows you know right from wrong.. and she sees her daughter turning it to someone else.. because some how she feels intitled..

And I'm sure she has said to you please help me by doing the right things.. don't make me become this person. Because you make it so I can't trust you... ..

You know you could be able to do just about any thing you wanted. But you made it so you can.. because no respect. And no trust. .

When you earn it you get it...

So you take from her so she takes from you..
It her way and right now the only way she knows

But one day she will be unstressed and get to think about it. And maybe she will say I could have done it different.. if it was me I would take anything from you. . I might not even disaplen you. Or make you stay in your room..

But what I would do is give you more responsibility . If you want to be that person then prove it. If you can't prove it. Then your wrong for acting and treating her the way you do. .

And we both know you already know that.. so prove to her who you really are.. is she right in the things she says or are you a big enough person to say that you are wrong. Hug her and tell her you love her and you will do better.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

The punishment is temporary, I know being without these conveniences is a new and unpleasant experience for you and of course no one is happy to be punished but there are other ways to occupy your time. Head by your school’s library before you leave, see if you can’t check out a book or two so you have a way to entertain yourself, I can offer a few recommendations depending on what shows or youtubers/streamers you like.

Just remember your punishment is temporary, you’ll get these things back after enough time. Your mom will obviously allow you to have these things in the event of an emergency, which isn’t now. You can wait it out and you’ll be alright

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Another fake story? What person under 18 gets any kind of Social Security? Your mother could, from disability or something, but you still couldn't access that. Only she could. You can come up with a better story than this.