Would you date a very sweet girl with average looks and average credentials?

[jennifer_bloom]

I would

I would not

[Slayerrrrrrr]

I only date those types of girls 🙂

[PositiveNote]

My favorite type girl!

[Price511]

Averageness in looks and career is something I have no qualms with in a relationship, I'm more focused on the romantic aspect of it rather than anything else. Someone sweet, someone genuine, someone kind, and someone caring... That's what I value.

Looks and career credentials are supplementary and are nice additions, but it isn't my main focus. Granted, ugliness can deter me a bit, but this is a hypothetical about an average person so I won't exactly elaborate.

But to answer your question, yes, I would.

[Fireguy17]

there is more to a person that just their physical looks.
Personality is way more important than how they look.
We change as we get older, and i have seen plenty of people that used to be really hot and now, time was not their best friend.
Beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[Miristheiss]

What do you mean with the "average credentials" line?
I'm guessing you mean... job, career, salary, positions, titles, degrees... etc.
I think that is stuff women want in men but wrongly assume men care about that stuff when looking for a partner.

Men don't go around thinking... oh she's so pretty, I'm so attracted to her, she has such a wonderful personality, our values line up so nicely and she is crazy about me... BUT... she only makes 35,000 a year and isn't a president or vice president at her company... I only date girls who make 70,000 or more... I'm cutting this girl loose and I'll keep looking.

[TrueConfection]

That's exactly what I always thought. 😂 Are you sure you're not alone?

[t-8900]

easily. I dont care what her job is as long as it's honest work. If we're both struggling we'll struggle together and become stronger for it. You can live frugally and get by.

[t-8900]

@jennifer_bloom question a bit unrelated but how do you view what the bible says about interactions with your parents and in laws once you are married? Seems like you are supposed to keep your distance for the health of your own marriage. thoughts?

[jennifer_bloom]

It depends on how the in laws treat you and whether they accept you as the spouse of their child.

[t-8900]

My dad said one of the key reason his marriage failed was because the inlaws became too involved. Wasn't there something on the bible about giving the newly Weds their space? I could be wrong on it

[Sam2021]

damn daniel

[jennifer_bloom]

What I mean is - sometimes getting the parents involved is a good thing - I have two friends whose mother in-laws paid for their house downpayment and than babysat their kids for free when the husband and wife were too busy working to care for them.

[djmzes]

Simple

I would and did it

[ChrisMaster69]

Not sure what the hell credentials are.

i am fairly sure I would get slapped if I walked up to a girl and said ‘hey baby wanna show me your credential’

Average looks is fine

the thing is very sweet would be really bad for me.

[Friendlyexperienced]

I'm that as guy and have dated women like this and opposite, as well as other variations.

[Enygma]

Definitely. As long as her personality and behavior are caring, kind and attractive

[Teaku94]

Looks ain't everything! If she reflects the love of Christ then I'm on board.

[Redstang88]

Looks get your attention but personality keeps you interested, and don’t give a fuck about “credentials”

[BrosephBrostar]

Honestly, I think that's all most men are asking for. It's certainly all I'm asking for.

[dreamstar72]

And this was why I married my lovely beautiful sweet wife

[Ironic_Method]

Potentially, if she can cook, plays games, and is good in bed.

[boxxie2002]

Would get to know them, like anyone does.
Normally people's personalities make them more attractive

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I hope people out there do or I may be screwed in trying to find someone to date lmao

Also, I totally would date a woman like that.

[Cubus]

"Average look" is quite subjective, but I think I would, if she was really sweet and kind.

[anylolone]

Would you date a very sweet guy who's average in looks and credentials?

[Jayplays900]

Yup..!

The question is if she would date a guy with average looks and credentials.

[Notfabricated11]

If the chemistry is there I see no problem with doing so.

[Guido]

Sure, there is nothing wrong with average. That covers most people.