If a girl had an amazing personality, a nice body, but an average looking face, would you date her?

[Anonymous]

What I mean by average face is not strikingly beautiful, but cute nonetheless

[ZjJaja]

i believe in treating people with respect regardless of their physical appearance. the invisible qualities make all the difference in the world. you may see a great striptease as the most desirable possession... in reality she doesn't see much worth in you or herself beyond an idol that can attract cult like followers. meanwhile all the people you consider average may very well be light years ahead in life enjoying a comfortable living and children and beautiful memories.

everyone feels drawn to some characteristic and that may be facial features or eyes or the nature of their character... it's anyone's right to choose their one for whatever reason that may be... but if ignore so much for the sake of a rating system... it might burn you and she may not be satisfied if you cannot handle ALL of her qualities and characteristics because that is what she is offering you and that will all bleed into your own mind and body. she might destroy you.

[Matt21]

We all have our own ideas of what beauty looks like and we're always our own worst critics. Chances are that others find you stunning :)

To answer your question though, I would absolutely date someone who I perceived to be as you described. Honestly though I find that when you love a woman's personality it influences their attractiveness on the outside as well.

[Asker]

Thanks for the kind thoughts. :) I thought your answer was very informative. It helped me understand the male perspective. The person I'm talking to now told me he finds me attractive and I'm guessing it's mainly because of my personality because I'm not a perfect 10 looker. So I can connect the dots to your comment. :)

[Matt21]

Honestly my girlfriend is so beautiful inside and out I just have stopped comparing her to other girls because I know she's in a league of her own. Our memories and shared experiences make her even more beautiful then she was then the day we first met (which was already really gorgeous)

A girl that I might have seen as similar level of attractiveness before we met simply wouldn't stand a chance against her now.

[Pinay_ako]

hell yes if the chemistry is mutual and undeniable.

[ohshee]

Then I would say you have it all because an amazing personality a nice body average looking face all equals beautiful Within yes I would definitely date you remember this we all wear this rubber mask that makes us what we look like but the truth is the beauty is within I know a lot of girls that we're beautiful mask but when they open their mouth and their words and their attitude come out it just makes that mask so ugly I can tell you right now I would rather date you any day anytime any place then somebody that has a beautiful mask and ugly inside

[Cosytoasty]

Probably not, i dont have a problem being single so i tend to wait it out for the perfect girl who has all three (or as close as possible). The compromise out of these three would be the gym girl body, i don’t mind too much as long as she’s European slim/average.

[Asker]

So basically if she was an average body (a little more meat) but had an attractive face, then you would deem that as dating material?

[Asker]

Appreciate your honesty by the way

[Cosytoasty]

Combined with that amazing personality yeah. Although there are far more factors than just these three.

My fiancé is exactly that, she’s very attractive for a girl you see In real life and has a healthy slim non-gym going body, but even she’s no 9 or a 10 ... it would be ridiculous to think she’s as attractive as some models.

[freakyzeaky]

I prefer cute actually. Attitude, personality, character, values, sexual chemistry, and compatibility, commonalities, these all matter more than exceptionally gorgeous looks.

I would much rather be in a relationship with an intelligent, kinky, and enthusiastic cute woman than a drop-dead gorgeous airhead who has the sexual expressions of a piece of plywood.

[Compodulator]

Answer a question in return: why not?
We're assuming she's interested, in this scenario.
So, for no apparent reason, a girl with amazing personality, yet average face... I don't know, teleports to me or something and declares she wants to date. What's the issue?

[poopedmypantsagain]

Yes I would but because of the personalty factor.. I do not look for a woman to have a nice body or even good looks to approach her, but if we spoke due to maybe a smile, or chance meeting or something directed my way the personalty is what would get the ball rolling a lot, looks are only skin deep as the saying goes.. and if she liked me well all the better, take care now

[Bas96]

I sure would date her. Nobody is a perfect ten. Your description does perfectly match what I'm looking for in a girl. In fact, your description is almost like the way I am. Although I'm myself not really satisfied with my looks, but hey it still works.

[MrOracle]

https://i.imgur.com/sgp7Bq3.jpg

That describes a few of the women I have dated in that past, and had outside circumstances not interfered, I might still be with them today.

[PlsWork]

That's completely determined by society. a face you think is average might be like a goddess to me and vice versa. But other than that, I really value a girl's face, more than body. But let's predetermine that there's a face that we all find average and a body / person we all find nice / amazing. I probably wouldn't date her, if I was interested in dating.

[maestrodematimaticas]

You are going to get the opinion of a man who is largely looking through life through the rearview mirror and not the windshield. If I could impress anything on a young person it would be to slide looks WAAY down on your priority scale when looking for a LTR. But some insist on that trophy wife. I accidentally ended up with one but her looks aren't why I married her.

[bobair]

Long term all faces turn old... but personality easily over rides natures decline.

Trust me.. in a long term relationship it pays to be with a woman who's your best friend and not just some temporary side piece.

Personality always wins.

[Syndit980]

I look mostly at personality so I don't usually look to much at if they are super "hot" but I guess everyone's different but if you like her and even if you only thinks she's cute give it a try and see if it works, you don't wanna pass up a good opportunity to meet some that might end up being your world

[4149TL]

It depends what you mean by average looking face as it will always be subjective to every guy.

Like I have a strong attraction to women who have a linear shape face and quite a promiment nose, now some men might not like those features but in terms of your question.

I would date her for sure if she had everything you mentioned and I was attracted to her certainly.

[theycallmeford]

Looks should not matter to a real man but, if she has an amazing personality and a nice body then it doesn't matter if she dog ugly in the face. Men have this saying " this chick has a butterface". What that means is everything is hot but her face. So the answer to your question is absolutely.

[CaliTransplant]

Certainly. A good personality makes up for a lot. The same way that a lot of people put up with crap for a pretty face and a good body. Eventually, gravity affects everyone. A good personality will still be there when it does.

[ChapizCholo]

Of course, cute girls are well, cute! And a nice body to boot? Oh and if she has pretty feet/toes, I'm putty in her hands 😊

[JohnnyYourBoy]

Yes, I'm not saying looks don't matter but when you think is perfect probably doesn't exist. 2/3 will become a 3/3 over time.

[LionBill]

Yes but if your asking this because your looking for hope. Dont get too cocky.

[Asker]

Lol savage

[Anonymous]

Well, any girl can enhance her appearance by makeup, good clothes, taking care of hair and excellent hygiene.
Then looks is merely a sub part of it, so yes why not.

[Germanium]

Yeah. If the personality clicks well together and interests, things should be great!

[winterfox10]

Yes, definitely! I love a pretty face, but that nice body will keep me coming back for more every time.