i believe in treating people with respect regardless of their physical appearance. the invisible qualities make all the difference in the world. you may see a great striptease as the most desirable possession... in reality she doesn't see much worth in you or herself beyond an idol that can attract cult like followers. meanwhile all the people you consider average may very well be light years ahead in life enjoying a comfortable living and children and beautiful memories.
everyone feels drawn to some characteristic and that may be facial features or eyes or the nature of their character... it's anyone's right to choose their one for whatever reason that may be... but if ignore so much for the sake of a rating system... it might burn you and she may not be satisfied if you cannot handle ALL of her qualities and characteristics because that is what she is offering you and that will all bleed into your own mind and body. she might destroy you.00 Reply
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We all have our own ideas of what beauty looks like and we're always our own worst critics. Chances are that others find you stunning :)
To answer your question though, I would absolutely date someone who I perceived to be as you described. Honestly though I find that when you love a woman's personality it influences their attractiveness on the outside as well.12 Reply
Asker+1 yThanks for the kind thoughts. :) I thought your answer was very informative. It helped me understand the male perspective. The person I'm talking to now told me he finds me attractive and I'm guessing it's mainly because of my personality because I'm not a perfect 10 looker. So I can connect the dots to your comment. :)
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Honestly my girlfriend is so beautiful inside and out I just have stopped comparing her to other girls because I know she's in a league of her own. Our memories and shared experiences make her even more beautiful then she was then the day we first met (which was already really gorgeous)
A girl that I might have seen as similar level of attractiveness before we met simply wouldn't stand a chance against her now.
769 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. hell yes if the chemistry is mutual and undeniable.
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1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Then I would say you have it all because an amazing personality a nice body average looking face all equals beautiful Within yes I would definitely date you remember this we all wear this rubber mask that makes us what we look like but the truth is the beauty is within I know a lot of girls that we're beautiful mask but when they open their mouth and their words and their attitude come out it just makes that mask so ugly I can tell you right now I would rather date you any day anytime any place then somebody that has a beautiful mask and ugly inside
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+1 yProbably not, i dont have a problem being single so i tend to wait it out for the perfect girl who has all three (or as close as possible). The compromise out of these three would be the gym girl body, i don’t mind too much as long as she’s European slim/average.
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Asker+1 ySo basically if she was an average body (a little more meat) but had an attractive face, then you would deem that as dating material?
Asker+1 yAppreciate your honesty by the way
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Combined with that amazing personality yeah. Although there are far more factors than just these three.
My fiancé is exactly that, she’s very attractive for a girl you see In real life and has a healthy slim non-gym going body, but even she’s no 9 or a 10 ... it would be ridiculous to think she’s as attractive as some models.
+1 yI prefer cute actually. Attitude, personality, character, values, sexual chemistry, and compatibility, commonalities, these all matter more than exceptionally gorgeous looks.
I would much rather be in a relationship with an intelligent, kinky, and enthusiastic cute woman than a drop-dead gorgeous airhead who has the sexual expressions of a piece of plywood.10 Reply
+1 yAnswer a question in return: why not?
We're assuming she's interested, in this scenario.
So, for no apparent reason, a girl with amazing personality, yet average face... I don't know, teleports to me or something and declares she wants to date. What's the issue?00 Reply
+1 yYes I would but because of the personalty factor.. I do not look for a woman to have a nice body or even good looks to approach her, but if we spoke due to maybe a smile, or chance meeting or something directed my way the personalty is what would get the ball rolling a lot, looks are only skin deep as the saying goes.. and if she liked me well all the better, take care now
00 ReplyI sure would date her. Nobody is a perfect ten. Your description does perfectly match what I'm looking for in a girl. In fact, your description is almost like the way I am. Although I'm myself not really satisfied with my looks, but hey it still works.
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That describes a few of the women I have dated in that past, and had outside circumstances not interfered, I might still be with them today.00 ReplyThat's completely determined by society. a face you think is average might be like a goddess to me and vice versa. But other than that, I really value a girl's face, more than body. But let's predetermine that there's a face that we all find average and a body / person we all find nice / amazing. I probably wouldn't date her, if I was interested in dating.
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+1 yYou are going to get the opinion of a man who is largely looking through life through the rearview mirror and not the windshield. If I could impress anything on a young person it would be to slide looks WAAY down on your priority scale when looking for a LTR. But some insist on that trophy wife. I accidentally ended up with one but her looks aren't why I married her.
00 ReplyLong term all faces turn old... but personality easily over rides natures decline.
Trust me.. in a long term relationship it pays to be with a woman who's your best friend and not just some temporary side piece.
Personality always wins.10 ReplyI look mostly at personality so I don't usually look to much at if they are super "hot" but I guess everyone's different but if you like her and even if you only thinks she's cute give it a try and see if it works, you don't wanna pass up a good opportunity to meet some that might end up being your world
00 ReplyIt depends what you mean by average looking face as it will always be subjective to every guy.
Like I have a strong attraction to women who have a linear shape face and quite a promiment nose, now some men might not like those features but in terms of your question.
I would date her for sure if she had everything you mentioned and I was attracted to her certainly.00 Reply
+1 yLooks should not matter to a real man but, if she has an amazing personality and a nice body then it doesn't matter if she dog ugly in the face. Men have this saying " this chick has a butterface". What that means is everything is hot but her face. So the answer to your question is absolutely.
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+1 yCertainly. A good personality makes up for a lot. The same way that a lot of people put up with crap for a pretty face and a good body. Eventually, gravity affects everyone. A good personality will still be there when it does.
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+1 yOf course, cute girls are well, cute! And a nice body to boot? Oh and if she has pretty feet/toes, I'm putty in her hands 😊
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+1 yYes, I'm not saying looks don't matter but when you think is perfect probably doesn't exist. 2/3 will become a 3/3 over time.
00 ReplyYes but if your asking this because your looking for hope. Dont get too cocky.
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Asker+1 yLol savage
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWell, any girl can enhance her appearance by makeup, good clothes, taking care of hair and excellent hygiene.
Then looks is merely a sub part of it, so yes why not.00 ReplyYeah. If the personality clicks well together and interests, things should be great!
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+1 yYes, definitely! I love a pretty face, but that nice body will keep me coming back for more every time.
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+1 yNo reason not to!
I'm not that shallow when it comes to appearance, a little fat, a little skinny, it's fine with me! There can be beauty found in all forms!00 Reply
+1 yYes, i would date her. I like girls with a pleasant personality
that means so much to me.00 ReplyI have always strived to date really "hot" looking women... most of the time they have turned out to be a disappointment. So sure, it would be rewarding to be out on a fun date rather than a stuffy one.
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+1 yUh, yeah! Anyone who turns his face up to a girl just for an average face is honestly a jerk. The inside is most important, and the outside is a bonus, so even a good body alone is a blessing in my opinion.
00 Reply315 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Dating wouldn't be a problem. But, being in a relationship can be an issue (not because of her face but, other issues).
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+1 yYes. I actually know a girl like this. She's nice and modest. Has an hourglass frame with d cups but a very plain face. I'd still love to date her
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+1 yI am a breasts man. I have dated women that I thought had a horrible, face, body and personality, but had fantastic large breasts.
00 ReplySure! I would always go for a lovely personality girl! 😄
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Cool. So I'm just curious, would you consider yourself somewhat attractive?
920 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. The physical is such a small part of a real relationship. its the whole package that make a woman attractive.
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+1 yYes. Looks are something, and average doesn't necessarily mean bad. The average female face is at least somewhat attractive.
00 ReplyIn a heartbeat if she liked me. Women never do though
00 ReplyWhat kind of shallow cunt wouldn't unless Ur just not eachothers type
10 ReplyThat really depends on people's definition of average.
I would call a 7 average, but also dateable.00 ReplyDefinitely looks ain't everything but personality is a must
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+1 yYeah, I'd date her. Her having an amazing personality sounds amazing, but what do you mean by a nice body?
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+1 yyeah in all honesty all that really puts me over is girls being properly over weight and/or not making an effort.
00 ReplyYe I would. Looks are good, but a good personality is better. Remenber, you can't have everything in this life. Compromises have to be made.
00 ReplyI'll date her if my interests matching her. Everyone having different interests.
00 ReplyOf course, amazing personality is all that really matters.
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+1 yI wpuld definitely goo for it as long as she not a seriel killer ❤
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+1 ySure! Personality is the most important factor for long-term happiness anyway.
00 Reply4.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Most girls like that = thot but if she ain't one, i would
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+1 yYes I'd date her cuz honestly looks fade over time but generally a personality doesn't
00 ReplyPersonality doesn't matter behavior and manners matter
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+1 yYes , but if I was sure about my feelings, if not but still liked her then friends with benefits
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+1 yYes ofcourse... bcoz personally I love a girl by he's heart not by his face
00 ReplyYes if get along nicely it doesn't matter how she looks, I date her
00 ReplyObviouslyyy... face is fade by time... but personality will be always there..
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYes, in my opinion strikingly beautiful is cute to me :)
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yProbably not. Want better, why would I settle for less
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Asker+1 yYou are probably someone who knows he is attractive and can get with someone who is a standout?
Opinion Owner+1 ySome girls say I’m a 6/7/8. I’m also from a very wealthy background... this gives me way more confidence.
Asker+1 yOh interesting. I've noticed that confident guys I've been into seem to play the field more and steer away from commitment. These same confident guys would know that they are good looking
Opinion Owner+1 yWell I want to have kids and get married once. I’m all for having fun while I’m under 20.
Asker+1 yYeah I could see where you're coming from. I think a lot of guys at that age would prefer to explore
Yes for sure if not selfish & careless
00 ReplyWhy wouldn't you? If the personality is there
00 ReplyWithout a doubt. 100% yes i would. Where is she?
00 ReplySure! Relationship type.
00 Replypersonality always wins if looks are ok.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Personality > all else.
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+1 yabsolutely no questions no hesitation
00 Replyyup as long as we have a proper connection
00 ReplyYeah because looks aren't everything
10 Replyyes, i want that girl for date
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