It would be an orange flag, proceed with caution... Just like with anything else that is "unusual" when you first get to know someone. About on par with someone saying they were home schooled. You wouldn't automatically think that made them weird, but it would make you keep your eyes open for other little things just to be sure.
For all they know, it could be you're the perfect catch because your next boyfriend gets to be your first in so many things, and that would be amazing for him and you both.
Or, alternatively, you could be kind of hard to get along with because you're so insecure.
If you were just saving yourself for marriage or serious love, or whatever, that's different... But if you're paranoid and low self esteem, sometimes that's a downer and would push people away.
In any case, work on pushing through your shyness to at least do what you WANT to do, because you only have a limited number of years to find a really good romantic partner before your options start dwindling fast, and if you think you're having a hard time now, by the time you're 30 you'll feel like it's become impossible.
Do your best to find some inner strength and persue what you know you need in life to be happy, because unfortunately we aren't given forever to get things figured out.
I am a 19 years old guy, and have never (for real) kissed a girl. Don't worry, it's nothing abnormal.
this is a green flag. essentially means you wouldn't cheat, every guy likes that
No, guys aren’t bothered by that at all, and you shouldn’t be Self-conscious about it.
It might be slight red flag as some of women go on sex marathon with every man they can hold on to after first time getting it later in life...
As long as you intend to keep it with me while we together I would not mind...
Yes, absolutely. You'd have to make contact with at least 20 male mouths before I'd consider it. *sarcasm*
I was 3 weeks shy of 25 before I got my first kiss!
It is what it is. I don’t think there should be any reason as to why someone would see that as a red flag
Not a red flag for me; in fact, this is an asset as far as I'm concerned. If we were compatible, yes, I'd date.
More shocking for a girl to be like this compared to a guy since girls don't have to do the pursuing or hitting on the other sex if you get what I'm saying
It wouldn't be red flag 4 me. I'm also really shy and insecure. :)
But I figured out, that I don't want 2 kiss nor do any sexual things (asexual).
Nothing wrong with being shy. I was always shy and never dated in my high school years, and very little in my early 20's.
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