Is it a red flag if a guy pulls a sexual move the first time you kiss him?

[Anonymous]

We were kissing then we may have started making out without me realizing it but was it reasonable for him to pull a sexual move since we were making out or is it a red flag?

[DryGermanGuy]

„A wink from a pretty girl at a party results rarely in climax, Karl. But a man is a fool not to push a suggestion as far as it will go.“
- Col. Max Radl, The Eagle Has Landed

[OfMiceandMen]

Sorry, I am a little confused, is the sexual move the moving from kissing into the making out part, or did he do something else?

[Asker]

He started touching my butt and boobs and it seemed like he wanted to do more than that too

[OfMiceandMen]

I see, then yes it is a total red flag and I hope you stopped him in his tracks. He shouldn't be trying to push the envelope like that, especially on the first kiss. The first kiss is meant to be memorable, something you both remember without the boob and butt groping. He should have had a little bit of class and not got carried away.

[noemiii]

Yes, red flag.

[strateguy632]

yes. a kiss is kiss not more

[tasqueen]

This is good move