Men, is this a normal question for a guy to ask right after he kissed you for a first time?

[Anonymous]

Hi,

I'm a complete idiot when it comes to dating.

I had a first date with a guy I met on a dating app. We went for drinks.

It went well, we had a good conversation and loads in common.

In the end it was raining, we were hiding in a doorway, I called for a taxi. While we were waiting for it arrive he leaned in and kissed me. I kissed him back but then leaned back. He asked when it is ok to kiss to which I replied - "usually not on a first date. Until I get to know a person better"

He then immediately asked if I had a lot of dates from the OLD app.

He seemed to like me. I don't think this behaviour is bad per se but it was interesting WHY he would ask about how busy is my dating life immediately after I leaned back?

Any men here know why?

Don't think it's bad, just interested...

I am in my early 30s, he's in his late 30s

[DishLady]

Since your "app" people I presume that you're both awkward. So he was just being his usual awkward self in terms of the timing. But yeah, he needs to know your body count if he's going to take things further. No sense risking an STD.

[Truthatanycost]

He wants to know if you have a rotation of men (like many women do nowadays). The timing of the question may or may not be related.

[thearchjoker]

You leaned back so he thought you weren't interested thus leading to the question

[Asker]

I am interested though. It was just a little too fast

[thearchjoker]

You leaning back + "usually not on a first date. Until I get to know a person better" combined to led to think about your previous dates.

[MasterKS]

Low confidence!