Guys, do you pay attention to how much a girl eats on a date?

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jshm2 · Accepted Answer

My God! Girls can eat?

Come kiddo, if a guy is bitching about your eating at a date, then there isn't going to be a second one, is there?

I mean, unless you had to be rolled into the venue due to your weight, it's not really something you need discuss, other than menu options. But as an old guy that been around the block a few times my weirdest food date was in Mexico.

She recommended a new place, and the food turned out to be shit. She apologised and instead offered her place and a BBQ. We went to the market, got meat, charcoals and sauces, and had a blast at her place.

Moral being, if it's going to work out then it's going to work out. Just be open and honest in these things.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I pay attention only to make sure she is eating what she wants and not trying to manipulate my impression of her.

TrueConfection · Accepted Answer

I'm not a guy, but I would like to just say this;

If you are paying attention to how much she eats or drinks, keep it to yourself. I was on a date (21 or 22 years old). I don't eat much and I rarely drank. I had 1 drink on the date. He told me, "You're a cheap date!" I was really offended. Needless to say, I did NOT want to prove him right and did not go home with him.

Sarahr123 · Accepted Answer

I have never been on a “date” but if I were with a boy I like I’d just drink coffee or have a cold drink. I would be too busy focussing on the beauty of the guy to worry about eating food. I worship the guys I like/crush on. I can’t see past them.

t-8900 · Answer

No. As someone who does Keto for instance I know some people just eat one or two big meals a day. She can eat a lot once a day and be eating more than me at the dinner table. Honestly wouldn't bother me. I'd probably cheer her on and raise a glass to her LOL

genericname85 · Answer

i don't really. but i notice, when she's eating like hamster size portions and claims she's full. i don't like that. it seems fake to me. if she really digs in and eats a lot, i notice that positively :D cause that seems like she's not putting on a show for me but just having a good time.

ItsMeElliana · Answer

I don't know about guys, but im hungy looking at that delicious pizza right there..
also I'm skinny and like have a tiny stomach, but if i see something i like a lot i won't not finish it off until my tum tum is full

jaybee281 · Answer

I do notice it if she barely eats anything - But I know that it's just so she doesn't look like a barbarian - as if like I didn't know she eats with both hands and feet when at home

devilish-cutie · Answer

guys always say to me to eat more cause i dont eat as much, cause im small! they just dont get im the perfect girlfriend as they would always have extra food tnx to me

Eric6666 · Answer

I pay attention but a girl eating too much does not make me concerned. A girl who eats too little does, and makes me question whether she has a healthy life style or she is too picky.

RobT312 · Answer

Hhahaaa yes! I love athletic women that actually eat because they exercise / take care of themselves vs. dieting pigeons. Makes eating together more fun!

AviatorTom · Answer

Hell no, that would be extremely ungentlemanly. I do pay attention, though, to how much she's costing me, though I don't say anything to her about it.

NetSapien · Answer

Only if she's not enjoying herself. Otherwise, I prefer she feels comfortable enough to eat as much as she wants.

Kaneki05 · Answer

That would be a odd thing to focus or care about unless she has a eating disorder?  So no. Unless if that.

RawIronhide · Answer

Yes, well I notice everything. Particularly someone's eating habits sometimes because it indicates how comfortable they are around you.

MCheetah · Answer

That girl isn't really going to eat that pizza. So fake and unattractive. I want a girl to just be real on a date.

DonkeyDan · Answer

Not really although I do take note of how she eats, hate sloppy eaters, close your damn mouth when you chew 😂

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope  although we do take piss out of each other if eat too much or order a lot then can’t eat it.

Jay3344 · Answer

Yes, but I give kudos to girls who are in shape and really eat. If they’re too skinny and they don’t eat or they’re fat and they over eat I’m probably going to use deductive reasoning and come to some conclusions.

HighValue · Answer

I only pay attention to if she is a vegetarian/vegan and if she drinks alcohol. As long as neither of those things apply then she's good to me.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Only if it's somewhat out of the line

jamesgoldman · Answer

Nah, when I was still dating it was my restaurant days where I ate 5,000 calories day I'd get something like a couple of pizzas and a portion of dough balls for myself maybe a dessert as well

cookiecrusher · Answer

Yes, i'm already calculating the monthly food bill, as if we would live together.

Don't really care honestly, if she keeps her body nice then i trust her to make the right calls when to eat like a fatty and when to burn it off.

SheSugarcoat · Answer

Depends. If anal is a possibility I usually eat nothing, only drinks. They notice tho

DaveJord · Answer

I think everyone pays attention to everything on a date.

hahahmm · Answer

Depends on if she looks like a hippo or is she fit. If you stay fit while eating a lot, who cares.

OddBeMe · Answer

My wife sucked down 1.5 lbs of crab legs on our first date. Bought the engagement ring the next day.

exitseven · Answer

hahahaha that is a great question. I do not remember anyone who was a particularly big eater. I did date somebody who could drink me under the table.

SunnySensei · Answer

I don't think it matters Miss, how much the girl eats as long as she is having fun and we both have the money to pay for it.😅😅

Romulus8817 · Answer

No. Why would you?  Let the girl eat and quit being a weird dick.

Mangospacho · Answer

Yes. I do a mental calculation of how much her food costs and how much of it she ate and also how expensive the food is and if the number is high enough, that’s how I know she’ll give me sex later.

Wester1967 · Answer

If she's eating Italian, I'll ask her to marry me. Otherwise I don't really care.

beernbacon69 · Answer

No not really, unless she isn't eating at all and then I would wonder why and probably ask her if she wanted something else to eat.

notwoke · Answer

yes, I don't want a woman who is going to get fat 10 or 20 years down the road since this is SOOO common in the USA. More importantly - check out mom. This is what you are actually buying

Fireguy17 · Answer

I think so, not going out of my way to count the fork fulls.

JakeS00 · Answer

If she is doing eating a lot in an unhealthy way to cope.

Anonymous · Answer

Gosh I eat so little though it’s not cute 😭 My future spouse better not judge me for eating like a mouse 😂 left overs WILL definitely make it to the fridge.

888theGreat · Answer

You gots to know whether you will be needing another job, so yes

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

I personally do not care because most of the women I date are in the same boat as me which is bodybuilding and fitness.

Anonymous · Answer

Not consciously, but if it stands out as out of the ordinary I'm sure (like anyone) I'll notice. Notice and caring about it can be different also.

Seangreen · Answer

Only if I think she's not going to eat all of it so i can get the rest

DamnSam · Answer

Yes, but like, does she like it? The amount itself plays no role for me...

Slayerrrrrrr · Answer

Yeee, I be like dang girl, you weren't lying one bit😂

Neilbud · Answer

Unless it's over the top not really. It's actually nice to see a girl who seems normal and down to earth.

Me_I_guess · Answer

i dont care unless they eat like 4 serves or nothing at all. id prefer they ate lots because it means they aren't too worried about their body type and/ or they exercise.

Soleil8000 · Answer

Not at all. Gluten free helps with no farting afterwards.

zagor · Answer

Only if it is way out of the ordinary in either direction.

Better_off_here · Answer

if she likes to eat i do find that a good thing, it is much better than her like eating a salad and telling me she full.

Waldoe · Answer

No I do not care, I have no idea what she did during the day, and she might be starving...

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

I do, yes, and the more she eats, the more turned OFF I get

Nick473 · Answer

no not really and i would hope she eats a healthy portion

LegendaryIcon · Answer

I don't care how much you eat, AS LONG AS IT"S NOT OFF MY PLATE

Hadesheim · Answer

What? No not really I don't see why I would do that.

dolemite89 · Answer

i’m impressed if she can eat close to how much i can lol

Anonymous · Answer

Nope...  And she’s paying for her own ass anyways so it don’t matter to me.

WhateverUouWant · Answer

No, I just like seeing them happy, once in a while we could be working out together

Texas_guy · Answer

I don’t. I would hope she eats as much as she wants to

Anonymous · Answer

some do some don't. me personally i wouldn't give a shit

ElizaPam · Answer

Yes we're cows if we survive

NamerOfStars · Answer

Unless it's particularly noteworthy, no.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, it's not like I'm paying for what she ordered.

loveslongnails · Answer

Only if she's eating too much.

jasco · Answer

if its a very large portion. but otherwise nah

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No lol. That's her business, not mine.

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