I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 2 years now.
Out of the 2 years, we've been in a LDR for almost 1.5 years. At the beginning, we used to talk all day long, specially when I traveled. That lasted for almost 7 months. Even when she was at work she'd call and we'd communicate. Sometimes it was taxing, but I was okay with that. After a year in the relationship, we nearly stopped calling each other because she was busy. We only texted. For me it was kinda normal. I'd ask her to make something time to talk, and she responds. However, for the past 4 months, she became really busy with work that I could only say good morning, good night, how are you. Even when I returned back in July, I only managed to see her for 5 times. My dad passed away and she couldn't be there for me. I called her when it happened. Then she kept in touch texting. I told her I really want to see her, she said yes, but she couldn't make time for me. I fully trust her, and I have no issues with that. I know that she has a lot of responsibility towards her family. I truly do. And I always help her out. But recently, she even stopped responding to my texts, and she replies super late. Sometimes after a couple of days. It really pisses me off. Last I heard from her was 8 days ago. But I know texting her doesn't work cause she never respond. Even if she does, it would be the most simple answer. Like there os no conversation. It really breaks my heart to see how connected we were in the past, and what we became now. I really love her, and I know she loves me. Should I keep texting her and asking about her wellbeing? Or should stay the way I am abd hopes she texts me? I'm really shocked that she hasn't said a thing in 8 days. It is driving me crazy.
Out of the 2 years, we've been in a LDR for almost 1.5 years. At the beginning, we used to talk all day long, specially when I traveled. That lasted for almost 7 months. Even when she was at work she'd call and we'd communicate. Sometimes it was taxing, but I was okay with that. After a year in the relationship, we nearly stopped calling each other because she was busy. We only texted. For me it was kinda normal. I'd ask her to make something time to talk, and she responds. However, for the past 4 months, she became really busy with work that I could only say good morning, good night, how are you. Even when I returned back in July, I only managed to see her for 5 times. My dad passed away and she couldn't be there for me. I called her when it happened. Then she kept in touch texting. I told her I really want to see her, she said yes, but she couldn't make time for me. I fully trust her, and I have no issues with that. I know that she has a lot of responsibility towards her family. I truly do. And I always help her out. But recently, she even stopped responding to my texts, and she replies super late. Sometimes after a couple of days. It really pisses me off. Last I heard from her was 8 days ago. But I know texting her doesn't work cause she never respond. Even if she does, it would be the most simple answer. Like there os no conversation. It really breaks my heart to see how connected we were in the past, and what we became now. I really love her, and I know she loves me. Should I keep texting her and asking about her wellbeing? Or should stay the way I am abd hopes she texts me? I'm really shocked that she hasn't said a thing in 8 days. It is driving me crazy.
