Should I enter a relationship with a girl who has body count higher than me?

[Anonymous]

I have feelings for a girl and she is also interested in me
But
She had more number of past relationships than me
And higher body count than me

Should I enter a relationship with her or just leave her?

Updates

+1 y

If yes then why should I enter in a relationship with her If no then what's the reason to leave her!!!

[btbc92]

If you can't make your own decisions, do not date. It's as simple as that. I personally cannot date a person who had sex before marriage, especially when I did not. It is not fair to me. However, you never enter into a relationship you cannot handle. But if you chose to in knowing that, then you cannot blame her afterward.

[tatianamay]

Yes, go for it.

Past is past. She cannot go back and change it. Just because a person has a higher body count does not mean that they are a bad person. Compatibility, trust and communication is very important.

[tatianamay]

"I have feelings for a girl and she is also interested in me"

You answered your own question. You like her, she likes you back. Pursue her.

[Asker]

Feelings doesn't mean Fully interested in relationship

[tatianamay]

What does your intuition tell you? Yay or nay?

[tatianamay]

What exactky is stopping you from dating her?

[Asker]

Her past is stopping me

" The more number of people a person has been with, the less compatible that person becomes for a relationship "

[tatianamay]

Do you think you guys are compatible? Like if you had not known about her past relationships, woukd you have considered a relationship with her?

[Asker]

In the above reply I mentioned " person " it's for both men and women

If I don't know her past, I wouldn't enter in a relationship

B4 u get into a relationship
Get to know everything about that person
Or else

It will create differences in future and problems and breakup

[tatianamay]

Okay, so then dont enter into a relationship with her if her past is that much of a hindrance to you.

[tatianamay]

Dont lead her on, wish her luck and find someone else

[Asker]

Hmmm.

[tatianamay]

Lol, im serious. You seem fickle. You either want to date her or you dont. If you are having doubts about this now, its best not to pursue a relationship with her

[Asker]

What I feel is I should go on to have a Higher body count than her and then go for a relationship with her

Simple

[tatianamay]

Ahh, i get it.

You are scared of being inexperienced in bed...

[Asker]

I'm not inexperienced

[Asker]

I just have less experience than her both in sex and relationship

And I hate it

[tatianamay]

This ain't a competition. You either like her or you dont

[AviatorTom]

If body counting is your thing, then forget about her. Find a girl with a count lower than you, or go on a spree and increase your body count.

Is body count really that important? To most guys, it's not. In fact, it could be a plus in that she has a lot of experience, and can teach you a few things. ;-)

[007kingifrit]

maybe? if its too high that might be a sign of emotional disorders but higher than you isn't implicitly a problem

[Anonymous]

Honestly you like the girl and she has more experience. Tends for an amazing sex life. doesn't mean she will be any less loyal or committed to YOU. Talk to her about this maybe, tell her how you feel if you can work this out you guys can get through anything. Good luck

[Asker]

Sex Life is one thing
What about the relationship life?

Her past is stopping me

" The more number of people a person has been with, the less compatible that person becomes for a relationship "

[Opinion Owner]

The relationship determines comparability, communication and trust, understanding..

Now Answer me something,

How in the world does having more sex partners make them less compatible with the other person?
Please give me an example

[Opinion Owner]

Like dont count sex partners what's something else

[Asker]

The more number of people a person has been with means
Number of RELATIONSHIPS
not SEX

[Opinion Owner]

So what's wrong with that?

[Opinion Owner]

Why are you so scared of that?

[Asker]

And u are just trying to manipulate me that I'm afraid

I may even accept open relationships up to a limit
But I hate serial monogamy

What if I'm just another man in her list

[Opinion Owner]

You aren't another man in her list if there is COMMUNICATION about monogamy. And if you are open to an open relationship then what's this post even about? To me you sound very afraid. And I would never manipulate someone I'm sincerely trying to help. I apologize if it came out that way that's bizzar to me. Anyhow, I want you to have a conversation WITH HER only and tell her how you feel. Again, relationships are about trust and good communication, okay?

[Asker]

Back in a day Relationships WAS about trust and communication

Today it's all cancel culture, divorce in the name of women empowerment and serial monogamy

[Opinion Owner]

You can't stop yourself before the actual moment is going to happen. You sound too cautious. Just be free and enjoy life

[tzdc21]

Well if it's just about her having more relationship than you then that's not a sign that you need to get away from her. Now, if you're talking about your body count limit, that's another story. If you have a body count limit and she surpasses that limit for you then you are well within your right to not date her.

[Anonymous]

Go for it. This is not a competition. Everyone has a past but not everyone is honest about their past. She is honest and reliable and you like her. There is no reason to leave her if you love someone go for it. You had experience too you are not inexperienced. You can easily understand that past is past. If you love her and she loves you there is nothing to think about.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Whatever number she tells you, multiply it by at least 5.

[MotorcycleMan]

Everyone has a past. Let it go.

[Hangry06]

You seem insecure asking this question. So don't

[Asker]

" Insecure " this is just a shaming tactic

And I'm not going to fall for it

[Hangry06]

Not shaming. Saying the truth

[Asker]

This is not insecurity
This is one of the care I take for my future

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.

[Asker]

Yes means what?

Should I go for her or leave her?

[BarryLiverstone]

I answered your question. I said yes, go for it

[Asker]

Okk, any specific reason to go for her?

[BarryLiverstone]

You like her