My boyfriend told me that he will leave me if I don't take birth control pills. What can I do? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend told me that he will leave me if I don't take birth control pills

molonski2 · Answer

Get an IUD , you dont want to fall pregnant , you can't have decent sex any other way.

exitseven · Answer

Tell him your decision and stick to it. If he wants to go, that is his decision. It also means he is a selfish jerk.

TexasRed95 · Answer

It's your body it affects not his. He can put a condom on. Just based on that he doesn't sound like a good guy.

Sam2021 · Answer

leave him. You dont have to use birth control if you dont want to its your choice. Makes perfect sense, set your boundaries. he can use protection, birth control isn't safe anyway.

TheFlak38 · Answer

this is the bitch who likes to trap men with children and marriage, expect her to come back here on gag whining in a few years about how she has three kids with three different men.

Neilbud · Answer

Birth control is not a reason to dump someone. This is about control and it's wrong. A condom could be considered meeting on the middle, but if he won't talk to you about it and consider your side. Dodge the bullet and move on.

Waldoe · Answer

it's a tough choice, condoms make sex 90% less pleasurable for the man... Like taking a shower while fully dressed, "What's the Point?" Pleasure comes from flesh on flesh, not from being plastic wrapped... Give him permission to fuck others... ?

darkcloud1945 · Answer

Tell him if he does no wear a condom at the same time you are on the pill you will leave him. See how he like to be told about his birthcontrol options AND if he does not wear one leave him. Who is he to tell what to do for birth control

Miristheiss · Answer

Well, work it out.  What form of birth control are you currently using?

AviatorTom · Answer

Is there some reason you don't want to take the pills? He obviously isn't ready to be a parent.

RasmusAiken · Answer

He's threatening to leave you over BC? Solution: Leave him.

DamnSam · Answer

Wtf, you're in your late 20s.. Stand up and tell him if he don't chop his balls of the story is over...

Sarahr123 · Answer

It’s your choice if you don’t want to. Those pills can be very harmful. Stick with condoms.

Moose304 · Answer

Let him leave! I know many ladies that the pill makes them ill. If a man can't see this he is not worth keeping around!

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Do what feels right for you. Consult your physician for birth control options/alternatives. More than the pill exists.

Subarugirl · Answer

Show him the list of side effects and risks then hand him some condoms. If he doesn’t like it than dump his ass.

razzmatazz009 · Answer

WTF you talking about. Let him go! There's a lot of men like myself who would appreciate having a girlfriend to have sex with

Ceslovas · Answer

If he don't want to have strong healthy happy kids in a future then do what he told you. p. s. he will drop you anyways sooner or later-sorry, but you will remember my word.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

You sound stupid for a person between the ages of 25-30. You sound like an insecure, stupid, naive, 12 year old

CTOswald · Answer

Tell him there's new research, then hand him one and say "You first!"

Hulk30 · Answer

i'd leave him birth control interferes with the natural functionin of ya body if i was fuckin ya i'd just make sure we used protection i want kids myself in that situation if any accidents happened id just take care of my fatherly responsibilities

Heartache0405 · Answer

Either take the pills or break up. At least he's giving you the choice. I'd just leave

Surely · Answer

Tell him that he needs to get cut instead and see his reaction to that.  I know that you want children later. So that wouldn’t be an option.

whosDmann · Answer

I hate to tell you , but if he can threaten u now and u give in , that will be ur whole life.. time to kick him to the curb..

Juan_Curious · Answer

Tell him that you 'll be the one to leave him the next time he won't bring condoms with him

libsaretards · Answer

If he tries to force a decision on you then he loves himself more than you.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

Dump him. He should be wearing condoms with spermicide as well

johnsilf · Answer

Leave him! We must not set up such a lousy demands and threats! It a disgusting in my honest opinion!

Soleil8000 · Answer

I'd dump him. You either marry to have a baby or you are being abused. Does he work for a pharmaceutical company? Or in medicine?

Girly500 · Answer

No! don't do it. If he loves u then he should respect your decision. Love ya girly, just stand strong!

rosesaredead · Answer

Well, if you want to be safe you should take the pills but he can't force you to do anything. And if he wants to leave, let him leave. There will be better people along the road.

Anonymous · Answer

If he treats you like this now, things will only get worse as time passes. He needs to find himself someone that will obey his orders.

bannacookies · Answer

Seems very selfish and if he doesn't let you do what you want with your body leave him.

Riddler1412 · Answer

Very simple. Say you don't want to take the pills. If he gets mad, leave him first.

Ironic_Method · Answer

Then decide if your autonomy over your body is worth keeping this guy around.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

You either take them or you break up. It's not that complicated to understand.

Anonymous · Answer

RED FLAG leave that piece of shit, and get a better man

Shyguy206 · Answer

If you want kids badly and he doesn't respect that then leave his ass. His ass ain't worth it.

WowwGirl · Answer

If a guy doesn't want a baby with you after three years he never will.

bighairy1 · Answer

1. Take birth control pills.  2. Find another boyfriend

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

Let him go. He feels that he would be trapped if you became pregnant.

Steve1071 · Answer

Tell him to get a vasectomy. Turn the tables on him.

EaterPeter · Answer

Let me guess. You don't want to take birth control, am I right?

Shawn411 · Answer

Tell him you'll leave him if he doesn't wear a condom then 2 can play this game baby 😏

Fuentes · Answer

I would leave you, your not going to force babies onto me i don't care what you want.

rebeliouse · Answer

leave him first simples what a douch bag the guy is

nawtee_me · Answer

if you don't want to then let him go, that it not his decision to make for you...

kennedy_ · Answer

He shouldn’t tell you what to do. Its your body, not his

Tstrbrainer · Answer

It is his preference, if you are uncomfortable, leave him

Anonymous · Answer

He should use condom. If he refused that, make him take these pills

Calgarydirty69 · Answer

well, are YOU ready to support/raise a child? NO, you should be on birthcontrol anyways

dustybiker · Answer

It’s your body. Ultimatums are a big sign.

MzAsh · Answer

Hold the door open open for him and let him go.

Anonymous · Answer

Get a boyfriend will wait until marriage like gentlemen do

SnakeBoop · Answer

why wouldn't you be taking birth control?

Hangry06 · Answer

Well choose between having kids or a boyfriend

Agape93 · Answer

Then leave him. Find a better guy.

bubblesonu · Answer

Leave him. You guys should date other people

lilaccc · Answer

you should go and love yourself (:

Need_A_Break · Answer

Leavr him that's a red flag

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