I’ve never been with someone so forward in my life. Worried I might ruin it?

[Anonymous]

laughing. It was perfect. I felt so at ease with her. I think our chemistry is really high, highest I’ve ever had.

It’s just I’m worried I’ll screw it up somehow.

[Anonymous]

Anything is possible, you could screw it up but if she is super forward then your safe most likely.

What do you mean forward though, the kind where a guy is slowly moving his hand up your skirt and she just lets it happen or the kind where she says, Hey lets just go in the other room and get it on?

[Asker]

As in on our first date she legit told me “I think you should kiss me”

[alleon]

Ohh you’re the guy that was hanging out drinking with a girl and she went to the bathroom then came back and said that right?

[Asker]

@alleon yes!

[alleon]

When’s the last time you hung out with her?

[Asker]

@alleon Last Tuesday. I spent the night at hers.

[alleon]

That’s nice 😊

[Opinion Owner]

You just have to go with it, you might screw it up... relationships are so easy to mess up, you might not. Gotta take that chance if you want. It can be easier when someone says things like that though, your not left guessing.

[Lifelive96]

Woww it was very great even reading it. I hope you have many good times again. What you think is just a fear and it is in your head. Be in the moment and see how lucky you are. Don’t let fears haunt you. Even you feel this fear, live it.

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry so much. Enjoy the moment. Enjoy their company.


If you can screw something up then it is not meant to be.


If it is meant to be then whatever you do, you can’t screw it up. It will work out anyway.

[Anonymous]

doesn't matter enjoy it while you can before she eventually does a 180 and drops you for another guy. Just remember it’s temporary.

[Asker]

If you have a mentality like that, no wonder you think it’s only temporary…

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t say I didn’t warn you. You will find out the hard way.

[Asker]

Coward for posting this in anon

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao and you posted your whole thread in anon so what does that make you? Hypocrite

[melanieeeB]

If it's right with her and she feels the same, you won't mess ut up.. don't worry and just be you

[dustybiker]

One rule. Be genuine. Sounds like any bullshite will be transparent. No two. Relax. Be happy.

[Anonymous]

What’s she like?

[Asker]

She’s really good. The first date was a bit awkward at the start, but I think we have genuine chemistry together. I really enjoy her company. She’s definitely quite different to what I go for usually, but in a very good way. She’s quite intimate too, which is great, and she doesn’t seem afraid to go for what she wants.

[Opinion Owner]

What makes her different from your usual picks and what do you mean she’s quite intimate?

[Asker]

Sorry, what I meant was affectionate.

Like we laying in her bed Wednesday morning and she kind of pulled me, wanting me to rest my head on her lap so she could caress me.

[Opinion Owner]

Awe so you spend nights together

[Asker]

Well, she’s much more forward then any other girl I’ve been with or had things with.

She’s really down to Earth, really interesting, and quite funny too.

On top of all that, she makes me feel good.

[Opinion Owner]

What type do you usually go for?

[Asker]

The quiet and reserved types, mostly. She’s a lot more outgoing. I’ve been told by plenty of people that I’m pretty laid back, but inside I’m quite anxious.

[Opinion Owner]

What makes her more outgoing than the precious reserved types? Like what’s she into that they weren’t?

[Asker]

Well the fact that she made the first move for the kiss. Shy and structured girls wouldn’t do that, in my experience.

It’s hard to really describe, but dating her seems more relaxed.

I’m planning on asking her out tomorrow for next week. Something fun.

[Opinion Owner]

Why wait to ask her out? Why not now lol

[Asker]

It’s late, and I’d rather do it tomorrow.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok. So how have you played your part in the relationship so far?

[Asker]

What relationship? We’ve been on one date?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m the comments on this question you said you spent the night at her place and you made a post about this a while ago it seems so I figured you e been out more than once?