Have you ever met someone you didn’t expect to get far?

Question

You didn’t expect you’d like them more and more as you get to know them… They actually feel the same?

jengeorge26 · Accepted Answer

Yes, sometimes it will work out for the best

Literalbillionaire17 · Accepted Answer

Yeah😂

Kabluie · Answer

Back in college, there was one incoming university freshman that I didn't think was going to be anymore than maybe a one night stand or fuck buddy, changed my life.

I was taking summer classes up at school. We first got to meet during their campus orientation weekend, it's where they have to spend two nights in the dorms. I arrived, she opened the door and was still brushing her teeth. Her roommate wasn't there so that helped. I felt there was something comfortable with this girl immediately letting me see her not 100% from the get-go. We got to hang around campus, eventually drove to my apartment, had roommates but we have our private rooms. We undressed each other and had sex. Unfortunately we couldn't do it all night kind of thing. I had to get her back to her dorm lol. The intrigue continued for a few more months until she'd be back permanently when Fall classes start. We'd go on dates, and finally have the all-night sex, it was a great year, no reason to lock down to being exclusive when it's your first year college and we always kept each other in our lives even past graduation because intimacy we shared from get-go. That good friend you can sleep with.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

There's almost nobody you spend more time thinking about than someone you genuinely dislike.

And since the foundation of a relationship is a sense of familiarity, you might find that over time, the qualities you disliked weren't quite what you thought they were. They might have been that person's best traits.

Because you really understand eachother, you now have a connection which is rare and special.

MTC29 · Answer

Yes, with my SO, who moved into our community a little over a year ago. She is tall, blonde and very good looking, so she caught my eye. We chatted a few times and then I asked her out to lunch, after which things moved at lightspeed. The woman knows what she wants, and she doesn't play games.

RavVid · Answer

Not really. There have been girls I initially fancied but decided not to pursue and it developed along friendship lines instead - gal pals I like to say to distinguish. Some of those friendships became very close and too valuable to allow sexual interest to disrupt. I do known they had similar thoughts as they said so much later on.

Not quite what you are asking but I guess it would be if we had got drunk and jumped each other.

AviatorTom · Answer

Back in my single 20s, there was a woman in our group who disliked me... she said I was too nerdy... and I thought she was a bit ditzy. Over the next year, we got to know each other, started dating, got married, had 3 kids and amicably divorced after 20+ years.

I guess that means the answer to this question is YES.

Wubs3000 · Answer

yeah my partner I had liked before but stopped liking them because I was told they were lesbian... Eventually we talked in a friendgroup and hit it off as friends with great chemistry but I didn't think I had a chance. Then 2 weeks later we were in a relationship and it happened very fast.

Not complaining though I love them but was a bit jarring at first

exitseven · Answer

I met a girl freshman year in college. She was just average looking but I thought she was cute. We hung out together sometimes. She had a boyfriend who went to a different school about an hour away. I used to let this kid sleep in my room when he would come to visit. The more i got to know this girl the more I started to have feelings for her. Finally she broke up with this other guy and we got together. we were together for 4 years.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Like didn’t expect to go anywhere? Many times.

Highschool my friends older sister. Normally a bitch to us all the time. Snobby and belittling. One night we had a party and she complimented my shirt. Next thing I know we’re going at it. Entire time I was like wtf is happening right now.

qwert1234 · Answer

Me: Hello Her: Ew. Oh wait that is the opposite. 2 out of my 4 ex's I had zero expectations and for some reason, they are the 2 best relationships I had.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I once first texted a girl on an online dating site with a really cheesy horny up line with no expectations (like a joke out of boredom), she actually replied and I tried keeping that facade but at some point I was like "Now what... I didn't expect to get that far" and we just stopped texting and never met. Was in highschool then

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I'm relieved whenever I get anywhere with a woman. Most of my life, I've been pushed around or pushed away. Treated like I'm freaking Quasimodo. Any time I catch a break from that, is a surprise, but I'll take it.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

I met contrary, they were telling me, they are the best, in this and that... but turn out to be like an Apple! Beautiful from Outside, Rotten from Inside...
About the picture... question? Show me... Eve suit! 😈😈😈🤣

Stollje · Answer

Yes, those are probably the strongest relationships cause you went to war and then fell in love

Luopio27 · Answer

Yeah, a waitres who I noticed only after she drew a heart on my teceit after many many times of serving me.

beebella · Answer

Yeah, but I don't think they really felt the same way.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, this girl from my work that I'm currently talking to.

The very first day we met she seemed so serious, boring, snobby and a loner. I was like, "There is no way I'm gonna get along with this girl."

Now we tell eachother our darkest secrets and have made plans to hang out.

So first impressions don't mean shit.

Still-alive · Answer

Yeah i suppose in the past there was this one person im thinking of. Nowadays i feel like I've gotten pretty good at identifying who i can easily mesh with or not based on maybe one or two meetings. You just kinda know.

JaxiCats · Answer

Actually yea when my boyfriend told me he was into me (like 2-3 years ago I wasn’t exactly interested) and now I don’t want him out of my life

Fuentes · Answer

Lol if a chick sent me nudes it won't make me like her more

Manuel2 · Answer

I never forget how this woman got me to fuck her. I was suffering a deep depression and she

globetrotter22 · Answer

I had that happen a few days ago. Almost felt too good to be true. Worry that I “jumped” on it though.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Not, really but I usually don't have expectations of people, but rather just go with the flow of what they seem to want from me.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I have no expectations when it comes to women. I've found it's the best way to be.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Well I have never met a woman who actually wanted to let me see pictures like that of herself. You left me wondering if they do exist.

MrPickles13 · Answer

Yeah it's happened, I never expected to get very far with one person I met. But we ended up talking for a while.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I've shared nudes with only a partner so but no face shot cuz the internet never forgets

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeaah definitely haha It's a nice turn tho

ElementoP · Answer

It usually the opposite for me. I always think it'll go further than it does. Like past "hello" at least

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, myself... lol

Phoenix98 · Answer

On more then one occasion lol.

AsaKyo · Answer

Yes, it's happened lmao

Sparkie460 · Answer

I felt that way with all the women I've been with.

Andres77 · Answer

Immm…🙄

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Pretty much every one of them.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Yes... I'm I'm that exact scenario now 😁

Xtendable · Answer

Haha yess

worldscolide · Answer

Almost every leftist I have ever met.

Amur8711 · Answer

Yep 😅😅

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