POLL- Is a guy your boyfriend if you never meet his family?

[Sugar100]

I’m 24 and I never met a guys family. I never been to family parties, baby showers, bdays with a guy next to me. I never ate at a restraunt have a guy next to me and my family. One guy I’m dating weekly since January never asked me to meet his family or mom. I don't know where he lives, never been in his home. Holidays I’ll be alone in my house. 😔 I see girls date men for years but they meet parents since day 1. I never have taken pics with a boyfriend either.

Yes

No

[Leggoddess]

It's ok not to meet his family in the first few weeks.

During the first few months it's normal to meet some or all of his family.

Ask him to meet his family

[Sugar100]

It’s one year , but ik him 6 years already.

[Wise4myage]

No, and why haven't you called him out on this?
I would also question if he's married or has a girl friend, because not inviting you over is very suspect.

[Sugar100]

I haven’t found right time call him out. 😔I would rather just find other guy be distant from him. Or tell him I’m going to meet a guys parents next weekend? See how he reacts?

[Wise4myage]

I say just ignore him.

[Sugar100]

I don’t get y he need live with mom and I can’t meet his family

[Sugar100]

Thanksgiving chritmas he’ll tell family he hav no girlfriend? 🙁

[Wise4myage]

Very suspicious

[Sugar100]

Why suspicious?

[Wise4myage]

Because he no reason to not let u meet his family.

[exitseven]

He could be. I never brought girls around to meet my dysfunctional family. Only when I was going to marry somebody I could not put it off any longer.

[Sugar100]

I see girls being a new boyfriend every month ti partner alike it’s not serious? Or girls age 15 bring guy like nothing?

[Sugar100]

My family threaten me say if they don’t meet they guy it means he’s not ur boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I can’t go spend Thanksgiving or Christmas with family as they go to married brothers wife’s home and I’ll be girl alone while everyone is with their boyfriend. I feel anxiety. I want be happy girl with man next to me in these holidays

[Sugar100]

If I go alone with fmaily I’ll look single

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Joshua0213]

Well depends how long you know each other. First 6 months no chance she is meeting my parents. I want to know it will go somewhere before I show you my parents

[Sugar100]

This guy I see never let me meet his mom. It’s one year n we do nothing

[Sugar100]

I live alone , nothing exciting happen

[Sugar100]

I had bday dinner wuth family at restraunt no boyfriend next to me

[Sugar100]

Holidays I hav no boyfriend with me i won’t be at bfs house holidays

[Joshua0213]

Ask him to come then? He's not just going to ask you if its with your parents

[Sugar100]

I want be at a guys house holidays be with his family

[Anonymous]

You are not his girlfriend if you've been dating since January and haven't done any of these things with him.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes.