If I work hard and improve myself, do you think I will get a woman without a romantic past?

[Inthecraphole]

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I seek a woman that has never had her first love or a boyfriend before.

If I work hard and lose the weight and advance in my career, do you think I can get a woman like that?

I cannot do anything about my height. I am 5'6" in height.

Yes

No

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[Tyrael]

There's no guarantees. You'll certainly increase your chances of getting a girlfriend, but you're severely limiting your options by insisting they not have a romantic past. Honestly at your age and the girls of your age range are highly unlikely to have not been with someone.

[Inthecraphole]

She can be younger, like 20-22ish

[ShadezMcgee]

Your first mistake is working on yourself to get a woman.

Work on yourself to better yourself and make yourself a life you love and can be happy with minus the woman.

[Anonymous]

I think you are too old to find that.. unless you do not mind a woman who is not very into romance or sex. Would either way be very unlikely. But working on getting a healthy body and career is still awesome and worthwhile, so good idea to do that :)

[Inthecraphole]

If I can't find that I rather just die an early death then. No point of living if I am going to be all alone, especially when my parents are no longer here one day.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, life can be about so much else than romantic love. Yes, like family, and good friends can also feel like family :)

[Anonymous]

I think you also need to improve on your dating criteria while you’re at it, compromise a little bit more. Like for example, it’s okay if the girl has dated 1 guy before in college (so not in her youth)

[Inthecraphole]

College age is still youth. It is before someone enters their professional, real adulthood lives.

[Opinion Owner]

Then that’s impossible. Good luck.

[Curmudgeon]

The answer is: you MIGHT. But even if you do not, you will be better off for doing so. So, DO, if not for her sake, then for your own.

[cookiecrusher]

Churches and such would be your best bet, also dating from another country.

Women these days have really cheapened themselves, a lot of guys want low or no bodycounts for a wife, while most women give sex away like candy on Halloween.

[Anonymous]

I think your looking to be a pedophile. There arnt many girls that haven't fallen in love before. Gross

[Inthecraphole]

She can be 18-22ish. A crush is fine as long as she wasn't close to the guy. But anything more than that I don't know if I can handle.

[Opinion Owner]

Why? It doesn’t mean she will go back to him

[Inthecraphole]

It is many things. One, the hypothetical situation where she can reunite with someone from her youth and it be a sweeter, more desirable outcome, even if she chooses to remain with me. Two, there is that saying you never forget your first love. There is a reason for that. Three, I don't want to give my heart for the first time to a woman if she is not doing the same in return. Four, you never quite love like you do the first time.

[Opinion Owner]

I see where your coming from but the first love is often a learning lesson and woman will still give there heart to you. It might not be the first time but if they love you than they care about you. So it doesn’t matter if she loved someone in the past. She will want you and no one else.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't seem possible and it's getting harder to find someone nice these days and I guess you already know you're in the crap hole. lol