I want a woman without a romantic past. What are my options at this point?

[MissingAWoman]

I am 27, almost 28, and I never had a real girlfriend. I am a frontend software engineer that makes good money. I work remote from home, so I spend a lot of my time alone.

I am seeking a woman that has the same inexperience as I am. I am wanting a woman that has never had a boyfriend or a close romantic bond with a guy before, especially from her youth. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

I came very close one time to getting that. Two years ago, I met this girl online. We hit it off and talked every day. She never had a boyfriend or even a male friend before she met me. She was also a virgin, a devout Catholic, and homeschooled with 6 other younger siblings. Sadly, shortly after her 18th birthday, she rejected me upon meeting in person. She eventually met another guy who she married and got to be her first everything. I am still devistated about it till this day. I want to find another woman like her when we first met.

I am starting to think I may have to look for a wife abroad, like over in Asia like Vietnam or Thailand to find what I am looking for.

Still a chance

Hardly any chance

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[sheikalana]

At your age is going to be almost impossible to find someone with no previous romantic relationshops.

[MissingAWoman]

Even if I go for younger women?

[sheikalana]

Perhaps if you date someone in their early 20s.

[MissingAWoman]

Yes, that is ok. Like I said, I just want a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship.

[LazerBean]

Before I vote, why did she reject you after meeting you?

[MissingAWoman]

Her mother claims she always wanted a taller guy. Plus, the deal breaker was I come off my medications and convert to Catholicism. I was hesitant about coming off medications.

[LazerBean]

Ah okay that makes sense.

[MissingAWoman]

Also, I am not the most attractive guy and I am socially awkward.

[LazerBean]

Are you planning on waiting till marriage and do you watch porn?

[MissingAWoman]

I am willing to wait until marriage. I don't watch porn anymore.

I will say that I did lose my virginity at age 20 to a 16 year old girl during a weekend fling who I never saw again after that. She didn't want to pursue anything romantically. I barely knew her either.

I never actually made love to a woman or had a real romantic relationship.

[MissingAWoman]

... she does not have to be a virgin. As long as she never had a romantic bond before.

[MissingAWoman]

Are you going to tell me my answer?

[LazerBean]

I'd say it's possible, but not likely. Especially since "romantic bond" is something that many people define in different ways.

[MissingAWoman]

Do you think I still have an opportunity?

[LazerBean]

Like I said, it's possible. But not likely.

[MissingAWoman]

Do you think my chances would increase if I look overseas?

[LazerBean]

Yeah, but 80% they are into you for a green card and money.

[MissingAWoman]

Then where shall I go to find the love of my life then?

[LazerBean]

I don't know bro

[joeldalton]

your options are to change your requirements.

[MissingAWoman]

It is only fair to want a woman with the same inexperience as me. I cannot lower my standards.

[joeldalton]

Then you’re gonna have a bad time, chief.

[MissingAWoman]

Why is that? There are billions of women in this world. I cannot find one that meets what I am looking for?

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

It isn't A, B, or C. There is no chance.

[MissingAWoman]

Why do you say that?

[RuthlessAggression]

I want a woman, not some teachers pet