Should I return to university at age 27 to find a young woman without a romantic past?

[Inthecraphole]

I just don't know where to meet women, especially good women who are marriage material.

I want one without a romantic past, meaning she never had a first love or a boyfriend. I never had a real girlfriend myself, so I want me and her to be each other's first loves.

Yes

No

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[Aerissa_Jade]

Do whatever you want, but your requirements will limit you to a very small pool of potentials. We all have something called a potential dating pool. Our life choices can reduce it, in many cases once reduced there is no way to increase it because you can't change your past. You can increase it by reducing obstacles you yourself put in the way, such as wanting someone with no romantic past.

Things like having children, or in your case wanting someone with no romantic past. While that is your idealized version, it severely limits your potential dating pool.

If your serious not being single, you should make choices that you have control over to increase your potential dating pool.

Either way good luck finding that needle in a haystack, be it at college or anywhere else.

[bubbles328]

Going to university just to meet a girl is a lot of effort and creepy. Try meeting elsewhere

[Inthecraphole]

Where else do I meet single women that are marriage material?

[bubbles328]

Work or pick up a hobby and go to meetings about it. Do something productive rather than go to uni to do a course you’re not interested in

[Inthecraphole]

I don't know... what hobbies can I pick up to find average or decently attractive girls that have never had a first love or boyfriend?

[sensible27]

There would be a reason they haven't had a crush or a love, even if you found someone are you certain they'll like you back

Have you never liked a girl before?

[Redstang88]

Well strictly speaking, if you’ve liked girls before, aren’t you breaking your own requirements? Just something to think on….

[Inthecraphole]

I've never had a real girlfriend before. And there are no girls I have ever known where it would be a sweeter, more desirable outcome if they were to be with me.

[Redstang88]

I’m not surprised, but that’s not the only requirement you keep obsessing over

[kyleelyn199723]

Your questions regarding is topic is starting to become absurd.

[Inthecraphole]

Because it is a major worry and fear of mine that I will never find her. I had 2 very close calls, but both failed immediately.

[kyleelyn199723]

That’s your issue, not anyone else’s. Your need to guilt others to feel bad for you is actually annoying

[Inthecraphole]

I am legitimately worried. I worry about this every day. I am hoping I can find a woman like this.

[kyleelyn199723]

Your worrying is quite annoying. Maybe if you spent less time complaining to strangers on gag, you would have a better chance? I don't know

[sensible27]

On an odd note, he isn't actually bothering people he's just asking questions which make him feel concerned. Yes, the questions are a bit odd but if you don't wanna help, whats the point

[kyleelyn199723]

@sensible27 he has been asking the same question over and over again since I have started GAG which was about 6-8 months ago.

[sensible27]

Wait, I came across this a weak ago I think

[kyleelyn199723]

You definitely did because it was asked last week, probably multiple times a week. Not sure if this guy is a troll or just a guy that wants sympathy from people on a weekly basis

[Ms_Vanderquack]

They are all spending their time with men who are actually worth it.

[Inthecraphole]

I am not worth it?

[Ms_Vanderquack]

The fact that you have to ask should be enough for you to have your answer to that one.

[noohair]

You are obsessed with this "past" crap and you are missing out because of your own obsession with being inadequate. Get some psychotherapy first.

[bamesjond0069]

University is too old. Tbh only really ugly or weird girls haven't been in love or had sex after 19 max.

[Anonymous]

I think you're going to have to look for younger than college if you expect a woman not to have a past these days. Lol

[doopayo]

That’s not what schools for

[Msputiton]

That is the worst idea i ever heard