Planning on traveling to Poland to find a woman without a romantic past... what should I expect?

[MissingAWoman]

I am going to get a passport when I get my next paycheck. I want to plan for a trip later this year or sometime early next year. This is going to be a solo trip, as I hardly have any friends.

I am going to seek a potential wife. I want a woman without a romantic past where we can be each other's first loves.

I'd like to know what to expect, for example, the culture, whether or not Polish women will be interested in me, what should my attire be, and how should I arrange my overall trip?

Bonus if you are from Poland yourself and can guide me.

I never been internationally before, so I am nervous.

[bean2k21]

A friend of mine has a Polish lover. She's a millionaire and send him money constantly. Has to fly over there to see him. He drinks a lot and has it pretty rough over there. But they're totally in love. Probably if you just send her money you'll be gold.

[MissingAWoman]

That is how you get caught up in money scams

[bean2k21]

It's not a scam if they're actually your lover.

[MissingAWoman]

I don't want to be blindly sending money to women overseas in foreign countries.

[Guy13]

Have you thought about seeing what the USA Embassy has to say about Poland? It’s part of the general Ukrainian conflict zone…

[MissingAWoman]

I am willing to take risks to a certain extent to find the love of my life and the future mom of my children.

[Guy13]

Alright. Be safe over there,

[KatherineJ]

Well, I guess the first suggestion I have is for you to learn Polish.

[MissingAWoman]

Can I learn some basic, minimal Polish and get by? I am 25 percent Polish, and my dad is 50% Polish. I thought a lot of Polish women speak English?

[KatherineJ]

@missingawoman dude, I don’t know. I mean you expect to show up in Krakow and find a girl when you don’t even speak her language? That seems kind of crazy to me. But then you have to ask yourself: “Is a Polish girl going to leave everything familiar to her for a dude that she barely knows”? I mean if you are talking about a mail order bride it would be different. If you are having a hard time finding a girl here, what makes you think it’s going to be any easier with Polish girls? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MissingAWoman]

I don't know. I am just seeking a woman where we can be each other's first loves, which I know is almost impossible here in the US. I have read that Polish girls are very traditional and value family and their marriages. I am highly considering finding my wife overseas. I just don't know the best approaches yet.

[KatherineJ]

@missingawoman so just for the sake of getting it out there, just how long do you expect it to take to find a girl, fall in love, and commit to each other? I would say that you had better learn Polish, find a job in Poland, and move there. It’s not something that you can do in a few weeks. As far as Polish girls being more conservative, I don’t know. But it might have something to do with them being brought up in the Catholic Church? So if you aren’t Catholic, you’ll probably need to convert too.

[Anonymous]

You won't find unromantic pasts there not since the fall of the iron curtain/Berlin wall

[MissingAWoman]

How do you know?

[Anonymous]

You should expect to come back home empty handed.

[MissingAWoman]

Why do you say that?

[In_Trance]

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