Guys, Is it a turn off if a girl don’t have a good relationship or aren’t close to her family?

[bobalife]

The end of my year is making me disconnected with my family due to family dilemmas.

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Thanks everyone for all your inputs. I was kind of insecure and worried about it. But your responses helped me feel a little better. I know each individual have their own take and values to it, which I understand and respect.

[ohshee]

Every family has dilemmas it's how you all get through it together it makes your family stronger
For me no it's not a turn off at all I would be curious the reason why though to be honest with you if my family and I were going through something I don't care what it is if they needed something I would be there for them this is a moment of time that you're going through after this moment passes there will be another moment and then another moment but it's how you survive how you get through how you thrive getting through that moment it makes you all stronger bigger and better and more wiser so yeah it doesn't turn me off I was just be curious and I would back your play whatever it is

[ReneD13]

I wouldn't definitively say it's a bad thing or a turn off. I would want to know the back story though like what factors or events lead to the current situation, that story would be the basis of whether or not the bad relationship was a red flag for me.

[Hellraiser1984]

No, how about the opposite. My "family" is nuts abusive and violent. I'm not. If I met you and if you would talk to me I would feel relived it's not just me. I'd offer you advice and support but I'd like the same from you. It just that when a woman hears a guy came from an abusive environment she assumes he is too.

[The_Maphio]

Personally, I'd see it as a plus. Overly attached families or her being too attached to hers can be a massive headache. Even if it's not nice to not have a good relationship with one's own family, it's not such a bad thing once they leave the nest.

[Fireguy17]

it really would depend on the circumstances as to why she doesn't have a good relationship with them
Family dynamics can be tough.

[FilmGuy93]

She doesn't have to be close with her family, but I would prefer that she doesn't have a negative relationship with them.

[MrCommodore]

No not really, it wouldn't matter if the bond with the girl is strong.

[Ironic_Method]

Nah. I'm not close to my family and am all the better for it. I have my own now and that's all I need.

[Dchrls78104]

It would depend on why she doesn't get on well with her family.

[Cowboy6666]

Not really, as long as you are closed to me, and passionate about me, that's what matters for me :)

[noohair]

Family can be complicated. It is what it is, and it is hard to fix or change.

[TheAfrikan]

It is good for her to habe a healthy relationship with her family.

[msc545]

It depends on a lot of things.

[jasco]

No i understand.

[crmoore]

Not necessarily

[EaterPeter]

Yes and no

[shortster]

Not really.

[Hulk30]

not at all