Why do girls prefer white guys even after 2020 happened?

[Anonymous]

We have a new worker at the workplace who is a white guy. All the girls are talking about him and how cute he is. I am honestly jealous and tired of girls only liking white guys. These are Asians and white girls by the way. He even has the stereotypical white guy name as Justin and acts all cool and stuff. Why? Just why?

[curlyfritas]

White guys freak me out the most honestly. They're just super foreign to me not to mention the historical context with them.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

historical context?

[curlyfritas]

Racist white people inflicting major pain and suffering on a mass scale to POC, specifically black/African people? And it's still around today in a way.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Is that particularly unique to White people?

[curlyfritas]

Is what particular to white people?

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Everything you just attributed to white people
is that particularly unique to them in a historical context?

[curlyfritas]

The fact of the matter is that its all a fact. Whats your point and what does it have to do with me not being eager to mess with them? I see you decided to zoom in only on the historical part of my response and the not "they're just foreign to me" bit. So it makes me feel you're trying to troll and start something stupid here and I'm here to tell you, dont even keep trying...

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Not at all, but your emotional response to me being inquisitive suggests great discomfort, or perhaps a recognition of what direction you immediately went.
I merely asked what you meant by a historical context, and how that is particularly unique to White people.
Not to mention, what sort of relevance it could have on your perceptions? Which would have been my next question, if you were capable of answering the first... which so far you have been incapable.

[curlyfritas]

If my response was emotional then so was yours. Therefore whats your point in even saying that? Are you being sexist right now? Some people's inquisitions are tasteful and palatable, others like yours for example are not and so? And I dont have to make it particularly unique to white people for me to have a reason to not want to date them as much if ever again. That's what you're missing whether on purpose or not. I never cared to make the stuff they did and do now unique to them, that one is on you. Relevance? Its part of my OPINION on someone else's forum asking why are girls into white men... what relevance is my comment on the matter to YOU? lmao, that is the real mystery here. Why are you bothered?

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Haha, I only asked for you to expand on what your meant by a historical context, and how that is unique to White people. You seem to be the one taking it down an emotional direction.. as if I have slighted you in some way.

[curlyfritas]

You asked "Is that..." not "hows that..." anywho a person with the slightest common sense in my opinion can answer that if they really cared to know. Hell, there's even google that you could've used before you decided to pester me.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Sure, and anyone who studied history would know it is not unique to White people.
However, my question was pointed towards you..
For the basis of my question was to understand YOUR position

[PeterQuillsAlive]

My suggestion is when people you questions to better understand what you mean
don't immediately go on the offensive assuming someone is out to get you.. or troll you.. or attack you.. or something silly.

My question was specifically pointed towards understanding your post.
so I could better grasp what exactly you are trying to say

Because as you so eloquently put it.. researching is quite easy
and yes, white people are not particularly unique in their brutality.. if anything they spent most of their history being the ones under attack (even the term slave, comes from the slavic people which were often imported to the Muslim world)

So, this was my attempt to better understand your position on how the historical context influences your personal preferences.
not a critique of your historical ignorance.

[curlyfritas]

And you still didn't answer why does me finding them nervewrecking bothered you enough to interrogate me on the matter. My position is exactly what I stated in my original response. Thats it. Not what you're messaging me about, not how you twisted my words up. At this point I'd suggest you'd read it again.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Yes, as you said they are super foreign, and the historical context.
So.. I understand the foreign aspect.
However, I am attempting to understand what you mean by historical context.. and how it applies to your preferences.

[curlyfritas]

Historical ignorance? I stated nothing but facts in regards to white people doing the harm they did and still do now... oh the amount of gaslighting going on here.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Yes, you do have a great deal of historical ignorance.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

but once again, as I stated
its not your historical ignorance that made me comment
It was to better understand how your perceptions of that have any relevance on your personal preferences.

[curlyfritas]

And the fact that I even stated a fact like that led you into an aroused captain save a hoe state on me, as if I said something wrong. Lol it's interesting.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

"captain saved a hoe state"
interesting..

No, once again, it was me attempting to understand how your historical ignorance applies to your personal preferences.
as I stated
1. What is unique to what White people did in the past.. to any other group?
and
2. How does that play a role in 2021 in your dating preferences?

[curlyfritas]

As do you but carry on, on your high horse. But if you say what I said about white people doing what they did is historical ignorance? you're the ignorant, stupid and I might even say bigoted one.

[curlyfritas]

In the past? ah you're one of those.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

No, I stated your perceptions that White people are unique in their actions.. would be ignorance.
and ultimately how would it play any role in your current perceptions?

Why would for example
a White slaver from Germany 200 years ago.. play a role on your dating a White man today?
Could I then hold the perception that an African slaver from the 1800s, could then play a role in my not wanting to date Black people?

[curlyfritas]

That was your perception. I never said no such thing. What you think I said is error on your part lol. Dont put that on me.

[curlyfritas]

Idgaf who you want to date. Nor do I care to pester you about it, thats another difference between you and I.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Precisely, and so if it is an error on my part in understanding
then how does a historical context play a role in current preferences?
which is my initial question.

[curlyfritas]

You know a lot of things people do and feel is based on past things? It doesn't make it less important or relevant as you're trying to make it out to it. Especially if its still ongoing in a way. And at this point if you would've led with that question and not that other bs I would've probably answered you but now you lost that type of respect from me.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

I did lead with that question
you decided to go down an emotional path immediately

go through our conversation, and look at your responses.

[curlyfritas]

Your understanding of the word Initial is very flawed. That was not your Initial question. The proof is in black and white at the very beginning of this thread. Go look at it.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Yes lets look
"historical context?"
"Is that particularly unique to White people?"
"Everything you just attributed to white people
is that particularly unique to them in a historical context?"
"Not at all, but your emotional response to me being inquisitive suggests great discomfort, or perhaps a recognition of what direction you immediately went.
I merely asked what you meant by a historical context, and how that is particularly unique to White people.
Not to mention, what sort of relevance it could have on your perceptions? Which would have been my next question, if you were capable of answering the first... which so far you have been incapable."

[curlyfritas]

Also I just told you I'm not caring to elaborate anything to you anymore. Like I said reread and pray you understand. So at this point you're just here going back and forth over... damn near nothing. And my food is almost here so I won't be here for long.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Well, I will await you actually answering my question I suppose if you want.

[curlyfritas]

So you sorta have 2 options, "historical context?" Or "is that particularly unique to white people?" Neither is "How does a historical context play a role in current preferences?". In which you lied, that wasn't your initial question.

[curlyfritas]

I don't want. I never wanted you here to begin with aha.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

as I stated multiple times
1. I attempted to understand what you meant by historical context... for "white history" is not particularly unique
and
2. how that historical context plays a role in your current preferences.

This has been my attempt the entire conversation
I care little about your historical ignorance, but merely wanted to better understand it.. so I could better grasp the position you were coming from
and I also wanted to better understand how such a concept could apply to racial preferences in modern dating.

thats it
and I've repeated that several times in this conversation.

[curlyfritas]

Oh my, you're goal post moving

[curlyfritas]

Oh ok well you failed at whatever you were aiming to get. Can move along.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Yes, my initial question was literally
"historical context?"

LITERALLY meaning
what do you mean by this?
how does this play a role

in a question you posted on that is labeled "why do girls prefer white guys even after 2020 happened?"
where you answered "white guys freak me out the most honestly, They're just super foreign to me not to mention the historical context with them."

My FIRST reply to you was quite literally HOW does historical play a role?

[PeterQuillsAlive]

You replied with a racist white people inflicting pain and mass suffering on POC

So I asked if it was unique to white people?
For I was attempting to understand the historical context argument from you...
Because its either
1. Whites are unique in such a thing... and therefore historical context plays a role in how you see certain race (which is not only ignorant of history, but also slightly racist)
or
2. There was something beyond this which I wasn't grasping

THEREFORE.. I attempted to better understand your position
if it was 1. Ignorance of history (which could be forgiven) or 2. just a general excuse because of more modern movements

[curlyfritas]

That wasn't your first reply. there's a difference. Im not repeating myself. The next time you said something dumb and or false, ill just say bye lol.

[curlyfritas]

Say*

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Which honestly so far the only reply I have received on the topic has been
"its my opinion" basically
or
"I dont want to answer that"

Okay sure?
but once again, its not really an answer
especially in a public forum, where people (like myself) are bound to be inquisitive about topics

[PeterQuillsAlive]

1. Yes, it as quite literally my initial reply to your post here
it was "historical context?"
my attempt to understand WHAT you meant by it.
2. You are more than welcome to leave if you want haha
I was just merely trying to understand your positions.. and see where you were coming from
you decided to get defensive..

[curlyfritas]

Me not being quick to date white people is an opinion? I guess, dating is dabbling a lot into subjective matters such as preferences anyways whether the reasons behind them are logical, reasonable, etc or not. People may be bound to, doesn't mean they're right to or even should. And what have you been especially right now? Defensive. The audacity lol.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Not at all defensive
This is me attempting to reiterate what I am asking you.

Which is simply how a historical context applies to dating in 2021

[curlyfritas]

You are being defensive and quite irate. You can be all that while reiterating. Ok. Idc how many more times you repeat or ask again, you're getting nothing much from me. Let this be a lesson for you on how to better communicate efficiently to strangers.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Right.

[curlyfritas]

Yeah go white knight for racist white people somewhere else. And no I dont want to chat with you or be friends, stop inviting me to your questions. you're close to getting blocked. I only have so much patience.

[PeterQuillsAlive]

Ah so you are racist got it.
could have just said so and saved the trouble

[curlyfritas]

The self projection is strong with you on that one. If hating a racist person who decides to negate the wrong doings of a racist group of people instantly with the wrong doing of other groups racist people is racist now, then sure call me racist. I can't stand those people. Like talk about accountability before trying to talk about other people needing to take accountability.

[Anonymous]

speak for yourself...

[Opinion Owner]

i've had bad experiences with white guys.

[Rob596]

Just work on yourself. If you feel like you’re not good enough for any girl, work on improving yourself. Like for me, for example. I started going every single day to the gym for a month now because I’ve never been happy with my body (even though I have a six pack, but it’s not as developed as I would like it to be). Or work on your personality. Like I’ve always been shy with girls my whole life. I always thought, “Well, if this girl really liked me, she would come talk to me.” I never got far with that mindset, so now I talk to every single girl and introduce myself, or randomly come talk to them to combat this. Or if you feel like you’re not that attractive, learn how to wear clothes that compliment your features. Like for me, I have hundreds of clothes, and half I don’t even wear because they don’t look that good on me. I see some guys wear the same thing every single day, and they’re always single, so if you’re like that, start learning. Or you can even get a different haircut. Find one that suits you the best. Go to a barbershop, and tell them what haircut they think would look the best on you. Or start working on your personal hygiene. I even got a compliment from this married woman from one of my two jobs yesterday because she said I always smell good. And keep in mind I go to this job after working my first job in the morning, then going to the gym. Sometimes don’t have time to shower before I get to my second job, but since I have such good hygiene, and I wear like three different colognes (but I don’t overwhelm people with too much cologne), I can still get compliments. Things like this will improve your chances with women. But first, work on that jealousy because you should be confident in yourself. If a girl doesn’t like you, she just wasn’t right for you. But also take a hard look at yourself, and see why they might not like you from their perspective. Work on your flaws.

[Rob596]

I’m not white either by the way (I’m actually Mexican), but I get girls. It’s just how you carry yourself.

[jaybee281]

So this dude is as white as I am and has the same haircut I have and you're complaining he acts cool which actually means he's confident in non jealous English - well of course they're gonna like him - And back to your white guy preference question - that's life my friend it's natural for them to like us more - Wow I realized is that what people think of when they think about white privilege? Because I'd be pissed too if I wasn't white so I guess I finally understand now (by the way most of this is ain't serious so anyone other than the asker please don't start with white supremacy shit, love you all, except the asker)

[t-8900]

Life isn't fair, I is what it is. But maybe in it's unfairness you'll find a girl who feels like th same. See people with you mentality fail to realize the problem is you. Why are you bitching about white girls prefering white boys? That's called in group preference. Most people in every race and culture have this. Hence why we hav different physical traits. I missed the part about why you only want a white girl and not someone of another background. Soubda like a fetish so stop thinking with your dick and get a clue. There are hotties in ever color. And if you are not hot then why do you expect hot? Why not settle for average or someone in your own looks bracket? Or why not actually gain some respect for through merit. Is it his really for long term? If not then stop complaining it's not a big deal. Everyone is so goddamn entitled these daysm the porn Industry f*cked your mind my guy. He back to reality

[Phoenix98]

What does 2020 have to do with anything?

Also the girls think he's attractive because he fits their preferences or he is just in general better looking and has better genetics.

That's life man there are gonna be guys more attractive then you or more confident or in general more of something you don't got. It's like that for everyone.

And it could be also that he's just got a better personality or more confidence both of which play a part in attraction. It could also be he's comfortable with himself and likes himself for who he is, something that again plays a part in attraction.

[MCheetah]

Why are you posting his picture online without his permission? I get people have insecurities and all, but this is some super petty, small-dick bullsh*t you're doing. You're bordering incel territory with this and need to cut it out. Find some things of your own to be proud of and forget women! Chasing female validation won't make YOU happy. Nor will putting other guys on blast, on the internet, like a petty bitch chick in high school. Especially as a 25-29 year old "grown-ass" man.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Race really doesn't matter to me, looks, personality and a whole slew of other things matter more. I've dated guys of virtually every race I can think of. I try to think of us all as the human race.

There is likely something more to it, maybe he just comes across as more confident, friendly or something. Can't say without really comparing him to others there.

[AnggieGirl]

Well if it came down to a white guy and an Asian guy and I had to pick, I’d choose the white guy. Not because I’m racist or because this or that; but because that’s simply my preference when it comes to a guy. Especially if he’s more chill and not acting out indirectly

[Neosporin]

Aw man Asians guys for the win jk I know it’s game over for us haha

[Hulk30]

im not sure if it's just em likin him ya gotta understand that some women are hypergamous and due to white supremacy materalistic Asian and white women see alotta white guy as an economic come up that's what your missin so if ya up grade your game you'll be cool here's the top 10 youtube men's fitness channels a game and some money channels as well Kali Muscle Buff Dudes Strength Camp Offical Barstarzz Physiques of Greatness Athlean-X Scott Herman Fitness Ct Fletcher Motivation Twin Muscle Workout scooby 1961 Omarlsuf Insane Home Fat Loss Steve Cook Candito Training HQ sceiencebasedsixpack. com rom wills money matters locario motivation day job bail out plan savage finance franchise tag practical thinker dave ramsey betterment boss bookofalpharonomy.-dr. boa

[ItsMeElliana]

Not everyone has the same taste, some people prefer other kinds of guys, but ngl, id desire him too, but he kinda looks like a heartbreaker to me. I'd not love him, it would just be desire.
but honestly If I were a guy there, I'd honestly not care. even if he's getting all the attention, I'd rather focus on myself.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Agreed

[MoodyJazz]

Personally, race doesn't really matter to me. I've dated a couple Asians, a white guy, and currently talking to a brown dude. I'm sorry to say this but if you're interesting enough people would be more or less attracted to you. Sure there are racists, but it's 2021 now and not everything is based around race.

[MoodyJazz]

If it helps, this guy in the picture isn't hot, kind of off-putting actually. Looks like an egotistical jerk (shhh). It just depends on the person and their preferences.

[FatCat2022]

@MoodyJazz what is your race?

[Anonymous]

Because that’s their preference, big deal. What happened in 2020 that would turn them off and change their preferences in guys?
If that’s him in the pic, he’s cute, he looks like a model. I’d flock to him as well. But with your attitude, I’d stay away.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, no. Not all white guys are racist. Your own racism is showing 🙃

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

But why? White guys are racist lol

[Opinion Owner]

He's sexy and so my type

[Asker]

White guys are boring lol

[Opinion Owner]

Idc I would ride him all day

[Ekke118]

They aren't racist. You are, by calling them all racist and boring (talking to the question asker)
Are girls supposed to pity you? They can sniff out some of your attitude, and you just reek...

[Neosporin]

Lol girls are so funny

[Anonymous]

All girls aren’t like that lol. White guys can be attractive, but I don’t prefer them over my own race. One of my friends feels the same way you do. I know it sucks. She’s noticed that Black guys in her city mostly like White girls. Hopefully you find someone soon. 👍🍀

[kyleelyn199723]

Why do you care what the girls at your job talk about? Do your work and mind your business. Men that get jealous like this are weird

[Asker]

I liked one of them but not after I found out she’s obsessed with white guys. She has a Harry styles sticker in her car

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker your jealousy is intensely weird.

[Hellraiser1984]

Racist against white people? It's all about looks attitude and wealth. White women go after black guys all the time. Life sucks dating sucks and always will. Women can be very shallow but will never admit to it as they are supposed to be angels and men are supposed to be beasts.

[legalboxers]

.
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How did your 1/6 stunt go?
Build what wall?
Lock Whom Up?
What was rigged?
Is Russia Listening?
Laptop? What Laptop?

[Alwayreckles93]

Maybe it's their type or he is new and that is why they're talking about him. Why people always gotta make everything about race?

[Asker]

Because you white people started this

[Alwayreckles93]

OMG are you being serious now? We started this? Excuse me I am tired of people always bringing up race or white people this white people bad. I am tired of it.

[Asker]

If you’re tired of it, imagine how I feel as a black man?

[Smiley_face101]

Speaking for myself its hard for me to be attracted to any POC. I dont think attraction is a choice in that metter...

[Gwenhwyfar]

Some white guys are hot. Some aren’t. Same with any race.

[007kingifrit]

after 2020? i hope you're not under the delusion anything important happened in 2020. people were bored so they looked for an excuse to riot... that's it. they didn't care why. they weren't fighting for a cause. they were bored from lockdown.