Do white girls even prefer white guys anymore? Why does it seem they generally prefer other races as of late?

[Anonymous]

Not saying it is necessarily a bad thing but I guess it is a bit sad/disappointing to see that white girls and white women nowadays generally prefer dating other races over white guys.
Why? Not because white girls would belong to white guys or anything but its sad when you see people not having any pride in their heritage, culture, history, traditions.
What I am trying to say its even though white girls love men from other races to death, they will never be part of those races, cultures, heritage or those groups in general but I guess that doesn't bother them too much... as long as the guy looks exotic and is not white... they are cool.
What do you think?

[TisforTori]

That second to last sentence literally made me go wtf. Yes there are people I personally consider gross, who date other ethnicity’s just because they are a different color. I think that’s wrong because we as people are soooo much more than our ethnicity. But there are many good people both men and women. Who know when they search for a partner they are looking at who a person is. Not who their ancestors were or their skin tone and bone structure. Not looking for a partner to be similar looking or different. But seeing how a person treats themselves, others. What their values and interests are. To see their character which has zero to do with their ethnicity. We don’t need to marry our own ethnicities to be proud of culture and accomplishments made by people of that same color. That I think would be obvious to anyone. I wish we would worry less about things like race in our communities. When it is one if the least important things to have concern in. It’s great to learn about things that are different from us, customs etc. But I don’t think their should be this idea that we can’t relate, since we know that’s false. People from everywhere in this world can find just how similar we are as human beings no matter where we came from. Look for a woman who’s search for a partner doesn’t start or end with their ethnicity. You’ll be happy ( I hope) to have a an unbiased individual who cares who you are instead of your skin tone and where your family has from.

[Asker]

I wonder what will you say when traits like fair skin blue eyes or natural color hair will become extinct... you probably won't care psycho liberal that you are

[TisforTori]

I’m crazy because instead of skin tone and family background I care about the mind and actions of a person? Very interesting. by the way blue eyes, blonde hair and fair skin exist in other ethnicities than Caucasian.

[Asker]

Its rare... no more white people = the end of the world

[Asker]

Outta pure curiosity what race of guys do you generally see white girls dating? Also since you are a white girl with a very interesting personality what race is your fiance?

[TisforTori]

.. I hope as you age you open your mind past this narrow box. The worlds a beautiful place please don’t cut yourself off from it just because you don’t understand it yet.

[Asker]

Can you answer my last 2 questions?

[TisforTori]

Yes absolutely. I’ve got a variety of friends from different backgrounds. I also work in childcare and so meet hundreds of children’s parents. Majority I’ve seen date the ethnicity they are themselves. But increasingly over the years I’ve had more children of mixed backgrounds. Not more than the children of one ethnicity but more than before. My fiancé is white. I didn’t pick him because of his coloring or who his ancestors were. In face as a pair we are quite the odd couple. Opposites attract as they say. That being an example that we as people vary in our beliefs, our sense of humor, intelligence, kindness, temper etc I have no issue with someone having a preference in partners. But I simply am baffled that anyone in this day and age where we have been able to see more than ever how alike we all are and that our differences aren’t defined by our melanin but by our minds and the actions we take. That anyone could still fear something like people loving past just race to each other’s..

[TisforTori]

Hearts. Why anyone would be upset by this. And choose to think that these people only get to know these other people because of someone looking “exotic and not white”. I hope people don’t judge you on your skin color but on how you think and what you do. The way it’s meant to be. I hope you don’t segregate yourself because you think you cannot appreciate your culture and accomplishments if you happen to love someone who’s ancestors hail from a different piece of earth than yours did.

[Asker]

So the vast majority of white girls you see are with white guys?

[TisforTori]

Yes they are. As are the majority of Latino men with Latino women. Asian women with Asian men. Black women with black men. But there of course are couples made up of two different ethnicities too.

[Asker]

Fuck the exceptions

[TisforTori]

Fuck racism. I hope you open your heart and mind there’s a lot more to know than the current set of things you’ve chosen

[lilaqua]

This is just your warped reality and not real life. White men date outside their race more frequently than white women.

[jacquesvol]

Double standards: if standards are good, double standards must be double good.

[lilaqua]

@jacquesvol wot

[jacquesvol]

@lilaqua racists must have double standards to survive among their friends

[lilaqua]

@jacquesvol alright?

[Asker]

I doubt... rarely do I see white men with other races. White men generally prefer white girls and women

[lilaqua]

Look at the data please.

[Asker]

White women date way more outside their race than white men do it... its statistically proven. Im curious though how many white women do you see with white men and how many with other races?

[lilaqua]

Where is your data?

[lilaqua]

www.pewsocialtrends.org/.../

[EmperorOfRome]

Lilaqua, don't waste your time with him. "He" is a bot. Same questions, same writing patterns, it seems like he has even automatic answers.

[jacquesvol]

@EmperorOfRome you wish

[EmperorOfRome]

@jacquesvol Back off, Jacques.

[jacquesvol]

@EmperorOfRome Are you feeling uneasy? :D

[EmperorOfRome]

@jacquesvol This conversation is not about you, Jacques. Buzz off.

[jacquesvol]

The Emperor said so

[RolandCuthbert]

@jacquesvol Haha! That was hilarious!

[Anonymous]

It probably seems so because a lot of women, especially leftists, say they prefer black men on the internet. When you look at statistics however white people in general are the least likely to marry a person of another race:

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So no it doesn't fit the reality.
With white women being slightly less likely than white men to intermarry:
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And even when they do marry a black guy for example statistically they're 200% more likely to divorce than if they married a white guy:

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And when they rated attractiveness of different races of men on okcupid white men got the highest score:

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[Opinion Owner]

Okcupid: cdn-images-1.medium.com/.../...5blIPVL7XK-h5lw.png

[RolandCuthbert]

Haha! "White" women dating "Black" men is a "leftist" conspiracy?

Have you ever been to Russia? It isn't a popular joint with the brothas. . .

:D

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

I never said that, what I mean is that Western leftists are more supportive of things like multiculturalism, "diversity" etc.

[RolandCuthbert]

Oh, you said this;

"especially leftists, say they prefer black men on the internet."

That women who prefer "Black" men are "leftists".

Dude, that is hilarious. I have been to Russia several times. And that lefty commit country is not very inviting to African immigrants.

www.latimes.com/.../...fricans-20141102-story.html

"African immigrants describe hell on earth in Russia.""

The thing that is hilarious about you conspiracy guys is that "communism" was born in Europe. Not in Africa, America, Asia, Australia, etc.

"White" people created the concept. And its like you guys are so busy following the guy in front of you, you have not stopped to wonder where your ideology came from. . . or where is it going to. This man was born in Germany. He created the "communist manifesto". And I would bet he hated "Black" men twice as much as any crazed racist today.

www.biography.com/.../karl-marx-9401219-1-402.jpg

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

I don't disagree with anything you just said, I think you've misunderstood what I'm trying to say and you're reading too much into it. The Western left are the ones who are more about multiculturalism, diversity etc. In your American elections for example, which side was more in favour of these things? The left - Hillary supporters? Or the right - Trump supporters?

[RolandCuthbert]

Why ask me a question we both know the answers to?

The fact is communism is a charge commonly thrown at the "left". I just find that the whole concept of multiculturalism is supposed to be leftist and communist. . . frankly hilarious. Because every attempt at implementing communism has proven to be intolerant not just of certain races. . . but even specific to certain cultures. And if you think that is not true, just look at the Soviet Union.

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

I know that, but I'm talking about the West. Like you just said we both know which side is more supportive of that, that's all I'm saying.

[RolandCuthbert]

It doesn't matter if you call it "West", "East" or "South". Every implementation of communism always crosses the lines of racism, nationalism, or whatever "ism" you want to attach to ethnic conflict. In Cuba, it is decidedly nationalistic. Every European democracy is socialized in some manner and they are all still heavily nationalistic. Was Brexit an anomaly? Please.

This weird stereotyping isn't an attempt to actually understand the political economic structure of communism. None of the of the people making these charges care about that. It is just a strategy used to win a political argument. You call something communist and that makes it go away.

In reality, communism as practiced and muliti-culturalism have very little to do with each other.

[Opinion Owner]

@RolandCuthbert

I'm not sure what you're arguing against here, I already agreed with you on communism. I never mentioned communism in my response, I said "leftists" as in left-leaning people in the West as I made the example of Hillary supporters being more interested in multiculturalism and Trump supporters being more against it, and it seems like we agreed on that. How then is it a weird stereotype? I mean sure some right-wingers might be all for it too, but generally more right-wingers are not and more left-wingers are - here in the West. And we're in the West, which is why I'm talking about the West.

As for Brexit, again who do you think were more likely to vote for Brexit? More leftists voted to remain, more right-wingers voted to leave:

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Would it be a weird stereotype then to say that right-wingers were more likely to vote "out" and the left more likely to vote "in"?

[RolandCuthbert]

You are calling people leftists or communist without acknowledging factual evidence. And if you wish to believe in mythology that is your choice.

But communists. . . who have actually implemented communism are far from being leftists. And you can try to split up the UK if you wish. But, it is a socialized democracy. Have you ever been to Europe? By American standards it is basically a communist state.

Because governments see themselves as being protectors of the citizens of the nation. Of course, this is all about what the citizens believe. So like one of the things I have to deal with is a standard in my field called GDPR. It is a privacy regulation protecting European citizens. I was made aware of this by the British Consul in my country.

No such law would ever be passed in America. Because we have been made to believe, companies cannot be held responsible. In Europe, a company can be sued up to a percentage of its revenue over exposing customer data!

[RolandCuthbert]

Its like you guys get confused with bright colors and excited debate. Rather than looking at simple cold hard facts. Communism is a political economic system. Marx never made commentary about social or ethnic strife. And because he did not, people who implement communism still do so based upon their weird ethnic or racial beliefs. That's why communism as practiced is far from being multicultural or non-"racist".

And if you look at the actual policies called communist, like subsidized healthcare, workers rights, welfare, etc. any analysis of the West, America being the exception, yields the truth that the vast majority of democracies in the West are socialized democracies.

Or. . ."leftist".

[Daniel3035]

? What do you mean? The number of couples i've seen of white guys and girls together are like 95% +. I've only ever seen white girls with white guys and very few other races tbh. I would know as well i'm a brownish tan guy and to me i'm saying what you are only the other way round colourwise.

[ellesnow21]

What, no! I personally prefer guys of my own race, white guys. I like guys from different backgrounds. But white guys everytime!

[LegendOfGAG]

Just because they ain’t like you, doesn’t mean they automatically hate all whites.

[Patrickjv]

No. You have two options. A waifu pillow or a third world green card wife.

[Random_Guy_Online]

I feel like the media is painting the picture that people form interracial relationships more than what happens in real life. Like in movies, advertising, etc.

[Anonymous]

You know they prefer black guys?

Generalize much there blue anon?

[Asker]

Thats what they date

[Opinion Owner]

who's "they"?

Because of all my white girlfriend, one dates a guy that is half black/white, and all of the others are dating white guys.

[Asker]

And how many friends are we talking about

[Opinion Owner]

a dozen or so

[Asker]

Hmmmm sounds unlikely... but okay. Here white girls are not into white guys at all

[Opinion Owner]

sounds like a social trendy thing to be "cool" to me. Never seen that other than just an occasional mixed couple, but it's not often.

[Asker]

Hopefully... I really prefer white girls but Im losing hope slowly

[Anonymous]

Believing that most white girls don't like white men isn't normal. But on METH it is.
Meth, not even once.

[Anonymous]

I thought I was imagining this but white girls don’t like me either, I don’t know if they just prefer darker guys but I don’t attract them it seems. Yet black girls and Latinas seem to like me

[Mac4kayla]

Once you go black you never go back lol

[Timdambaugh]

True story lol

[Asker]

Is it true though?

[Timdambaugh]

That depends. For sex... yes
But when it comes to meeting the right person, race is unimportant

[Mac4kayla]

Lmao I don't know never been with a black dude. I guess some people have a preference. I don't personally have race I favor or want more than the other, nor did I date someone just because of their race

[Asker]

What race do you generally see white girls dating?

[Timdambaugh]

I don't think there's generally a preference. I see it all here. It's a very diverse city

[Mac4kayla]

It's diverse where I live, people be with hispanics, mexicans, natives, white, latino, whites. I can't say I see white chicks with mostly white dude because every where I go I see another white chick with a different race

[Asker]

Do you see white guys dating other races as much aa white girls?

[Asker]

Then tell me what do you see white girls dating more? White black hispanic etc

[Mac4kayla]

It's hard to tell, I don't see why it matters

[Asker]

Try an answer tho? Pls

[Mac4kayla]

Fine white girls like black dick more than white dick

[Asker]

And last question... do you see white guys dating other races as much as white girls?

[Mac4kayla]

I don't know...

[NovissimumVirorum]

Oh God! Not another one of these questions today 🙄

[NovissimumVirorum]

Yeah... this isn’t true in reality. You seem to be suffering from a confirmation bias

[Chanel1981]

They like white guys fine, just not you.

[MlleCake]

You're experiencing confirmation bias.

[Asker]

What is your experience like? What did you notice?

[EmmaMary]

What planet do you come from?

[Asker]

Earth... what is it like where you live?

[EmmaMary]

Well I certainly don't know of any such cases, although I guess there must be a few, far and between.

[Asker]

Well what do you generally see white girls dating?

[EmmaMary]

White guys. Just like I'm doing with my fiancé.

[Kitten967]

Never met a white girl who prefers black guys.

[Repa33]

Nice to meet you haha

[Kitten967]

Lol nice to meet you too

[Asker]

Most of the ones I know only like black guys

[Kitten967]

Maybe it's to do with where you live? In my town there aren't many black guys so girls prefer white guys, most girls I've spoke to dont find people of a different race attractive

[Asker]

Well here us diverse very diverse and all girls love black guys. Only some Asian girls like white guys

[Kitten967]

Ah ok

[Asker]

Yeah it sucks for white guys

[Repa33]

Not all girls do

[Kitten967]

Does where you live

[Asker]

Usa Texas

[Kitten967]

I wasn't asking where you live but ok lol

[cherryphi82]

I do

[RolandCuthbert]

He is back. . and this time. . . new and improved!

[Tututwerl09]

Might be the area you live in

[Asker]

What is it like where you live?

[Tututwerl09]

I'm moving around a lot but there are a few white girls who like white guy and few white girls who like black guys

[Asker]

What race do you generally see white girls dating? Like what do white girls date more than anything else?

[Tututwerl09]

Other White people but on instagram and twitter I see a lot of white girls with black guy's but they are rich

[Asker]

And last question.. do you see white guys dating other races as much as white girls?

[Tututwerl09]

I do see them but it's not a lot

[Repa33]

It depends on the individual

[Asker]

Well in general what race do you generally see white girls dating?

[Repa33]

White dudes

[Asker]

And you? What do you generally like?

[Repa33]

Im more attracted to black guys overall, but im still attracted to and would date other races

[vishna]

Please stop, troll smarter not harder

[cherryphi82]

Cry me a fucking river...

[ghostqueen]

Stop spamming this question.