Okay thank you!
I was sort of in your predicament when I was in 14, liked a girl who was 16. Honestly wait until you are 16 at least. You'll have mentally matured massively by then too, not saying you are immature, but you're young and quite vulnerable because of that. Best of luck, know it's painful liking someone that much, but keep safe!
Thank you, but it's ok he rejected me. Either way I might like someone older in the future again so this advice is helpful. Thank you!
Don't worry about the rejection. You'll grow up and in another few years will meet someone who will really like you. No problem, wish you all the best things in the world my friend!
You're right, and he rejected me so it's all good now. I'm actually happy he did!
Good :) I am sure you will find someone
I hope so, thank you!
Thank you! Actually he's not, he's a very nice guy even my mom likes him.
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Yeah you're right, it's ok though he doesn't like me so I guess God has better plans.
Thank you, I will try my best. ❤️
Thank you, but he is a really nice guy. Even my mom likes him a lot.
If your parents know about the relationship then there is no problem at all because even if he would want to hurt you then also he couldn't as your parents will be at your back. I think if your parents like him then he must be really a good person not pretending to be good. If you wish you can have a relationship then no one will stop you go ahead but inform your parents about everything. Do everything under their eyes only. Don't hide anything. If he isn't comfortable with your parents knowing about the relationship that means it is a red flag. But the way you describe him on top of that your mom also likes him it means he is safe. All left is to confess! But concentrate on your studies too. Don't forget everything for a relationship because relationships can happen later but there is no second chance for study. So if you want to stay in a relationship with him then ensure these things:•Tell your parents about the relationship and if they aren't happy then don't do a relationship know because they think of your good only. But in the end when you are at least 16 you can always have it. •Concentrate on your studies too as relationship can be happened later but studies can't. If you ensure these things then yes you can have a safe relationship.
Okay thank you so much!
Your welcome. I hope it was helpful
Well life goes on. You always have someone better next time 😊
I will, thanks!
That’s fucking disgusting. Imagine having sex with your pet. This is terrible advice
@Dinosaursandanime65 i don't think that was what he meant but I get what you mean.
This is hella dumb. You treat 14 years old like 5 years old. Like I get Asker is young, but they are in the midst of puberty and their emotions are valid. Just because it may not be a good situation doesn't mean you should invalidate them, when you were 14, you were prolly tryna get with every girl you saw
Having a crush on animals as a human is like everyone simped over Jojo characters
@Deathly_Pheonix THANK YOU SO MUCH! You're literally the first adult who's ACTUALLY understanding.
I would never do the deed outside marriage
Right. I personally don't want anything sexual but he probably does so I'll stay away from him.
And what do I do if he likes me back?
You do Nothing you’re not 18
It's so frustrating AHHHHG
Easier said than done
Just Ash part of yourself
Learn not to care about some things in certain times.
I will try, thank you.
It’s not too hard. Just feel it. This will require your face to stay in a blank expression though. Not permanently, just for when you need or want
No, it's because he's smart, he's kind, he's respectful towards others, me and him have a log in common, similar backgrounds and plans for the future, same opinions about a lot of things, my mom likes him, he's not dry and he's handsome.
great! just don't get over your head and preggers
Ok thank you!
Don’t get hung up on crushes. I’ve been there. We placed them on pedestals like celebs and they will alway let you down. Honestly he probably did you a favor.
Yes you're right. I also think he did me a favor! I'm actually happy that he rejected me.
He would only disappoint even worse than you are now.
I already follow him and I don't want him because of sex.
I won't but he doesn't like me so it's all good haha.
I'm too shy and I did before, I told him that I liked him before but not anymore. It's a lie though 🥲😭
Life is all about taking chances & if you want something go for it & if it doesn’t work out move forward.
Okay I will be careful.
But they are so immature and rude
Yeah, I hear you. Well just be careful dating older guys, because they might be out to abuse you sexually.
He already knows, I told him I liked him before but that I don't anymore. He's very smart though, I think he knows I still like him.
Thank you I will <3
It's easier said than done
That's a long time though.
Not really. It just seems like a long time because you are young.