You wait until you are 16, at the age of consent to do anything about it. You are under the age of consent and a minor. This lad is at the cusp of being a legal adult and over the age of consent. I know you like this boy, but at the end of the day if anything happened between you two, he would be committing a serious crime as you are under 16, and that will stay with him for the rest of his life. You should also think about yourself being potentially manipulated by someone 3 years older than you, being 14. Keep yourself safe and wait until you reach the age of consent.
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In reality the gap is not a issue like in a couple years it would be a 19 with 16.
But the major problem with it is more the way grades work. Like over here a 14 and 17 would be year 9 with someone who is in collage which yeah not good.
Now someone in year 11 is not something anyone blinks at. That would indeed be seen normal by anyone here.
So yeah really have to wait until your in last year of school really to be with this guy.
It's a long time though and if he does leave school or already has then he will find someone most likely of his age at work, collage or wherever he is. So this crush won't really work out realistically
Be friends, but wait until your older. Also don't invest solely into him, it will break your heart if/when he gets with someone else older.
Keep your options open for now, someone closer to your age. Learn, grow and get experience. When your 16 or 18 if your still friends that would be the time to make a move.
Talk to him and see where it goes... if he’s nice and you get along and hang out a bit and decide you want to date him, then do it ! 3 years age difference is no big deal at all. But make sure it is safe to hang around him.. don’t want him to end up being a weirdo
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Honestly. That is okay, it happens. We can't help you we like. But do understand that at a young age, the gap is too much and woth him being 17, he likely is looking for sex more, and I'm not saying you aren't ready, but age of consent in most places is 16 or 18, and if you aren't ready, he may try to push you to do things you dont want to do unfortunately.
Maybe this time, it's better to window shop than actually going for it. Look but dont touch, kinda dealThey’re way too old, just keep it as a crush. Trust me Any guy that age that goes for girls your age is bad news and will just try to use you
Be friends for now and wait till you at least turn 16. This age gap is close yet not very safe.
Be careful. Guys at this age are immature and care mostly about sex.
When i was 12 i dated a 16yo guy. Best to do is just talk but never do the deed
You're too young to have a crush on anything other than your stuffed animals and your doggy or kitty kat. And do your homework !
Wait until you're older.
17 year old guys might be wanting a sexual relationship also.
At 14 you are way to young for that.- u
That’s completely natural but you can’t do anything about it you’re not even 18 years old
So close and yet so far. It’s only value is to your foe.
Be scientific about it. What are the traits you like? Is it because he’s your brothers friend?
Get used for sex. That's all it would be
Just go for it you’re both kids. Don’t have sex tho
If you like someone tell them, take a chance.
Tell him
Date somebody your own age or a year older.
Follow him on instagram but don't have sex with him until u are 18
Be careful is the best answer I can give
get over it
Talk to him
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