An 18 year old has a crush on me, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

She likes me even though I'm almost 30.

[hahahmm]

I would ignore. It's like you're a fisherman and you catch a 3 inch fish. You toss it back.

As a man, I learned to never go after a female just because she shows interest in me. Oh, no. What matters is does she meet ALL of my requirements. Period. This is also why when one of the finest looking women on earth was heavy hitting on me, I ignored her since I was loyal to my woman. I control me. Not other's actions.

[Asker]

Well, I am attracted to her.

[hahahmm]

There's billions of women in this world who you are attracted to. It's just that this one seems like low hanging fruit.. easy to get. And if she is an in-law or child of a friend... don't even think about it. That's all I can say.

[Asker]

Maybe you're but to be honest, I do feel a connection beyond physical attraction.

[Asker]

*right

[hahahmm]

Checkout my mytakes on being a better man. Not telling you what to do BUT if you want to take control of your life, something to think about why you do what you do. I know why I do the things I do. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks. If I do go out with her, I intend to be 100 percent respectful of her and not take advantage because I'm older.

[hahahmm]

Just remember.. she could say she 100% agrees with you now. Then 5+ years from now she changes her mind. Around 99% of the people on earth will either not believe you or doubt your side of the story. She will basically own you & be able to destroy your career/reputation anytime she wants. Want to bet whatever you have built in life on her whim/feelings/opinions changing over time: go ahead. But I have noticed that the more of a life a guy builds up the more aware he is of the potential downsides. It's why a lot of guys don't notice hot women at work anymore. Not worth it at all.

[Levin]

I don't know?

Enjoy yourself?

Have some fun?

Have lots of lovely sexy time together?

[Levin]

You need me to tell you that? Don't you have any hormones?

[Asker]

I was wondering if it was appropriate, I've never been with someone so young.

[Levin]

Appropriate to who?

Where do you live?

You live in the US? They'll probably call you a paedo for dating an 18yo there.

I don't see anything immoral in it. It's not immoral if it comes from a good place, feels right, and you respect her.

It's immoral if you treat her poorly. But ffs, enjoy your youth, don't take these opportunities for granted.

[Asker]

I live in the US.

[Levin]

I'm sorry to hear that.

Go get that sweet fresh pussy.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Tbh, it is an odd age gap, but if you like her too, go for it. She is of legal age, anyways. 😅

[Asker]

Lol. I thought it was an odd age gap too, but I do like her.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Then go for it. lol

[Asker]

28 and 18.
I asked her out and she said yes.

[Asker]

We work together and she had recently turned 18, she was obviously flirting with me once and kept mentioning she turned 18. Lol

[SweetJoyGirl]

Well, good luck! 💜

[Anonymous]

are you both adults? yes.

does she like you? yes.

do you like her? if yes, then go for it. if no, then do nothing

there. problem solved

[FunkyMonkee]

She's legal, go for it. Mom & dad were 10 years apart. Jerry Lewis was twice as old as his last wife. She was in her 30's.

[Anonymous]

So what, is she hot? She is of legal age in every country.

My cousin was 34 when he married an 18 years old girl.

[Asker]

Smoking hot.

[Juxtapose]

She's of legal age, try and see if she's mature and maybe you can have a long-term relationship.

[Wiredone]

You're both legal age. These days young girls like older men. Go for it

[Staximus]

If she's not a psycho, go for it. You only live once.

[BobbieBoy666]

Go for it dude I did I was 24 going on 25 and she was 18. 💕

[jahaims]

Why are you interacting with an 18 year old in a way that welcomes a crush

[Asker]

We work together.

[bobby_bush_eater]

If you're almost 30 you should have good judgement by now...

[OtterMan68]

Tell her if she still feels this way at 21, you'll talk.

[lightbulb27]

marry her and live happily ever after.

[Cheerfull009]

She consider you experienced , so you enjoy tight pussy

[supercutebutt]

It's time to make sweet love.

[noohair]

Yikes... I wish I had such problems.

[Asker]

For some reason where I live, dating women before their 20 is frowned upon and even treated as creepy.

[noohair]

Well, I am 70 and I would never try anything like that. But the ego must feel good. It was my weird humor in play.

[Asker]

Lol. My ego does feel good right now.

[Ladsin2]

Is there grass on the turf?

[Jmmmfi4]

SO WHATS THE PROBLEM?

[Asker]

I didn't know if it was appropriate

[Jmmmfi4]

THEN DON'T FUCK HER. PROBLEM SOLVED.

[Asker]

Calm down

[SweetJoyGirl]

He always uses caps. No worries, you get used to it. 😂

[Asker]

@SweetJoyGirl Oh, thanks! LOL
So, what do you think?

[SweetJoyGirl]

About the girl? 🤔

[Asker]

@SweetJoyGirl Yes.

[Asker]

I've wanted a girl opinion on this.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Tbh, it is an odd age gap, but if you like her too, go for it. She is of legal age, anyways.