What should I do with my crush?

Question

I have a crush on one of my coworker, he is definitely out of my
league. I'm in love for the first time in my life, I never been in a relationship before which makes it harder. Im not very
attractive enough to approach him I don't know what to do. Should I forget him (but how) or make a move? I know this is a stupid question but I can't even focus on my work, he's messing with my mind!

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

I am not one for office romance. So many bad things can happen. With your boss? Even worse in my opinion. Let's just say everything is fine and then you find out he cheated on you. You are absolutely livid.

How is that going to work out at the office? Do you think he will still treat you the same? Is it going to get uncomfortable? Are you going to quit if it does? Etc, etc.

You can see why this could be a disaster and not advisable. I know this isn't what you are going to want to hear but probably something worth thinking about. There are just too many negatives. Lastly, what if he doesn't actually like you back.

All the things I just mentioned could still happen if he rejects you.

collie22 · Accepted Answer

usually my crushes are one sided and nothing happens

IJhonnyI · Accepted Answer

Look pure honesty don't let the fear of rejection stop you from going for it because it's one of 3 options, either 1. you never figure it out and stay wondering what could've been 2. You get rejected or 3. You get what you wanted all along no matter what you fear go for it because nothing is worse then option 1 because if you choose option 1 you literally never will have a chance because you never even attempted to go for it 💯

Nawlins34 · Accepted Answer

You have to make a move, because if he's not interested at least you can process that and move on, ya know?

If you never try, not knowing is going to tear you up.

For for the sake of your peace, ask him and see where it goes.