What should I do when my crush has a girlfriend?

[nichole1111]

Today I found out that the guy I have a huge crush on has a girlfriend! I just found out today and I don't know what to do anymore.Please help me

[Maddygirl]

Keep flirting the same I guess if he fliers with you then you have a chance just don't act awakard or different. Keep in mind though if you do pursue him and he leaves his girlfriend for you, he may do the same to you one day with another girl, also stealing people's bfs comes with a bad reputation so make sure he is worth it before you act on your crush

[ziva123]

How would you feel if your boyfriend did that to you? Kept flirting with people who had a crush?

[Maddygirl]

I wouldn't have a boyfriend who wasn't committed to me, or at least I would just flirt with other guys and not care. My boyfriend talks to other girls I don't care I trust him and I don't get jealous easily

[ziva123]

I'm in the same situation, but basically, you're giving her advice on keeping going with a guy who's clearly taken :P I don't mind my guys flirting either, what I would mind is girls with a crush on him keeping flirting with him, and trying, like your "stealing ppls bfs comes with a bad rep, so makes sure before you act on it" comment.. come on.

[Maddygirl]

Well if it's meant to be it's meant to be, sometimes you realize the right person isn't always the one you're dating. If the guy in question loves his girlfriend he'll stay with her, if not his girlfriend either isn't the right girl or he is a bad boyfriend and she will be better off without him

[MrsJones7]

you just gave the WORST advice ever

[Maddygirl]

Live a little. If she's the right one for him he'll do something a little harmless flirting is okay

[MrsJones7]

well even though it sounds hard to do so, you have to move on and get over him by just simply avoiding him. He's off limits. I'm sorry that he's not single and available for you but you just have to leave him alone to protect your heart

[YobootyStank]

Dont do anything

respect the fact that he has a girlfriend, I hate girls like that, they know a man has a girl yet they still want to pursue him, that's being a homewrecker, you can still be friends though :/

[themastaplan]

homewrecker? he has a GF, he isn't a married man...its his final decision what happens when it comes to two females...shes just there, the only "homewrecker" that would be guilty is HIM if he decided to make more out of what he has...

[YobootyStank]

still, in a relationship means "back the hell off my man"

[themastaplan]

the ones that are worth dating usually are already in the relationship...and no it doesnt, only if someone has a wedding ring on their finger are they truly taken...

im not trying to be a d***, I'm being real...unless she has said "yes I'll marry you" then its all game to anyone...just like the old saying - don't hate the player, hate the game...guys and girls get hit on all the time when in relationships, its up to the person IN the relationship to decide how loyal they are

[secondbestkiller]

Usually just best to get over him while he has a girlfriend.

[ziva123]

Sorry, but if he has a GF, he will not be interrested in you. Spare yourself the pain and move on.

[DebiPie]

What can you do? Keep looking, he has a girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Move your crush to another awesome guy who happens to be single.

[Kimme]

Tell him how you really feel about him, but don't make it awkward for him now that he has a girlfriend, go on with your life and find someone else if you don't hav a chance with him anymore..?

[7121uc]

arent you too old to be using the word "crush"

[trippsy25]

a crush is a crush is a crush, no matter what age you are. its a word that has a meaning therfore if used correctly its fine. right?

[7121uc]

but that's a word the little kids use. An adult should use the word "love interest"

[Maddygirl]

Love interest? Haha who cares what you call it, all of the words are the same, don't be so stuck up

[7121uc]

ok, but crush sounds so childish.

[imnotsorry]

I agree, it's weird for someone of her age to use the term "crush" lol I was thinking the same thing.

[Anonymous]

move on..remember there are plenty of fish in the sea :)

[ib799]

bp might disagree...

[skittledittle]

LOL!

[bel42]

just forget about him.

[justplayin]

get over him.

[FrancoBattiato]

Move on

[imnotsorry]

Nothing.

[Ezmotts]

Give up and move on.

[halogod44]

on to the next!