I am disappointed that my crush has a girlfriend what should I do?

[Shannon18]

I have started to like a guy and he has showed a lot of signs of liking me back. I did not act on this as I was suspicious as to why there is a girl always around him. I found out Saturday that she's his girl. I don't get it. He flirts with me and gets all nervous and when he's with her he can't take his eyes off me. He don't look at her the way he looks at me. I can see she's a bit of a trashy girl and I'm a good girl. I keep thinking maybe he just has sex with her. He does not seem affectionate and he does not seem like he's attracted to her. I can see a mile off that she likes him from the way she follows him and links his arm. He looks like he just goes along with it. I felt a connection when I spoke to him. He was nervous and I was too. On Saturday I got my sister to talk to him and he said that me and him are just friends. He also said that he thinks I'm nice and that he likes me. She then asked is that girl your girl? He replied yes and my sister said then why are you talking to my sister. He said OK I won't. If he wanted me would he have said I want to be with her. I'm really crushed about this. I feel like we would be good together. She sees him stare at me. An he only speaks to me when she's not around. Help please?

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He made me start to like him and now I have to watch him with this girl. They live on my road.

[chocolatelipstick]

You can't do anything.

I mean you could straight up tell him you like him and sabotage his current relationship. But who's to say he won't start to like someone better and then leave you for someone new...

Get your mind off his relationship with her and find a guy that's single. Or spend your time waiting for his relationship to crumble.

[Shannon18]

I want to tell him but I'm thinking if he knew he may hurt the other girl. I'm not evil. I'm a nice person and I would hate that to happen to me. Yes I have thought about that also if he can flirt with me while he is with someone. He can for sure do the same. But the difference is I would bin him. Whereas the other girl Is very stupid. No time to wait. Lifes too short. Thanks for what you said. A lot of people have said this. You are so right.

[icanbme]

not every guy dumps all females he knows when he gets a girlfriend. and in many relationships there's often a "look don't touch" rule that said if you think he's being flirty he's not worth it, you don't want him to flirt with girls after if he ever did get into a relationship with you.

[Shannon18]

What do you mean not every guy dumps all females he knows wen he gets a girl? An yes valid point. I'm upset because I've never had a boyfriend and every guy I like chooses someone else over me. An other guy just want sex.

[icanbme]

it was hard to tell from your post if he was being friendly vs flirty, to some girls there's no difference. hey I'm there too, and I've found it's better to wait and see what happens.

[Shannon18]

I get what you mean. Well he waved at me, said hello to me. Kept asking me questions. Constantly stared and looked away when his girl was around. When she wasn't around he would approach me and come real close. He told his close mate about me as when I was walking home. He was facing the wall. His mate was facing forward and his mate nudged him to look up and he did and then quickly looked away. He never told me he liked me. Maybe he didn't want me to know. As it is clear he wasn't going to act.

[AndyWes]

Well, if you like him, keep an eye on him. A lot of relationships crash and burn, everyone's seen a couple go from hugging and kissing to proclaiming how glad they are to be rid of her/him.

[Shannon18]

Yes OK. So I should not ask who he wants. Is it clear he wants her?

[hunterfan]

leave their relationship alone, as said many relationships crash and burn

[Shannon18]

Yes OK I won't tell him how I feel. Its his life. Its just hard to accept.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

F*** him, there's more guys around.

[Shannon18]

Yes I guess you are right. It just got to me as I liked him. So basically he don't give a sh*t? Guys treat me like dirt and I'm a nice person.

[PANDAmonium]

Smack a bitch

[Shannon18]

I want to lol. Does it mean he won't leave her for me.