Found out my crush has a girlfriend? Please help!?

[Daretodream13]

So there is this guy at my school who I really like and we're good friends and everything. Anyways I was pretty confident he's shown some interest in me (flirting on fb chat, sitting next to me in class, joking around with me and talking all the time, as well as just taking a general interest in my likes and stuff) well anyways I also thought that he liked my friend (though she doesn't like him). Anyways today I joked around with her and said "You and ___ seemed pretty cosy today." And she responded with: "What? No! We've known each other for ages its more a brother-sister type of thing. Besides, he has a girlfriend." Of course my heart dropped at that and I didn't know what to say. Also of course I wanted to immediately fb stalk this girl but I can't find any girl on any of his stuff on fb... Likewise none of my other friends who know him knows about any girlfriend. And recently in bio my teacher asked how many of us had boyfriends/girlfriends (it was for a class discussion) and only one person raised their hand and it wasn't him. Was my friend making that up as an excuse or was she just randomly saying that? Or is it actually true and he just hides it for some reason? And either way, what should I do? I really like him!

[Paris13]

You need to do your Own Research and homework now, Daretodream13, and that is to go to the Source who Told You------Besides, he has a girlfriend. And being she is even saying and swaying with the lingo that he and her go back a ways and have this repore like "Brother-sister type," then this is Where you Begin with your Beguine, Private Eye.
Find out the cold hard facts further here. And from what I am seeing you Have been listening and observing Inside the classroom and even on fb. Until now, like I always say: This is how rumors get started.
It seems you have him currently as "Good friends" which is always a good start in any new or old friendship. And with nursing and nurturing what you both have, with a bit more sex appeal and flirting and flaunting, Find out where you Might stand with him and if there is even a Chance in Romance.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

Thank you for allowing me a day in class to lend an ear, dear... xxoo

[Daretodream13]

No problem! If you would be willing could you check out my other question? There's one no one has answered but I really need help with.

[Paris13]

Sure, sweetie, throw it at me in a message to me and I will look at it a soon as I can... xx

[Anonymous]

The reality of it is, one's dating status may change depending on the person who asks. If a guy is smitten with someone, he may be available to that person, in particular. If not, however, then he may say he is taken.

Therefor, until his dating status is conclusively confirmed, I suggest you take your friends word about it with a grain of salt. For she could be simply be misinformed and thus misinforming you.

[rocksongwriter]

He may not have had a girlfriend at the time of the bio class discussion and picked up a girlfriend since then. And likewise, he may have already broken up with her. Best course of action? The next time you're talking with him, ask "so... are you seeing anyone?"

[Daretodream13]

The bio discussion was like a week ago?

[PiuBelloAmante]

Come on to him let him know how you feel subtly. Also if he is afraid to say he is in a relationship he may not be the right man to pursue.

[Daretodream13]

How can I subtly let him know?

[PiuBelloAmante]

Smile at him when you see and say hello. Ask for his number or just give him yours. If you go out and have mutual friends ask if she can invite him. That way you can build a relationship. Confidence is attractive too, so don't be shy but don't be overly assertive either.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you know everything you listed there I do with normal girls I consider friends. he already has a gf, he most likely is just comfortable being like that with you because he has a gf.

[ThisAndThat]

Straight up ask him if he has a girlfriend. All he can do is say yes or no and that will open the door of curiosity for him leaving him wondering why you asked. You don't have to tell him why you asked if you don't want him to know.

[ArabianPwincess197]

He's taken - end of. Just move on

[BertMacklinFBI]

oh hello