Will men judge me for having a breast augmentation?

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Hi everyone! I am getting a boob job on December 16th. I suffered from anorexia from 15-21 years old and have not relapsed in 5 years. I am so incredibly proud of my recovery it took me a while but with an incredible team of therapists, doctors and my family I got to where I am today. Anyways, during puberty, I never developed breasts due to anorexia (I don’t even have the fold of a natural breast). I’m pretty comfortable with my body but, I choose to do a boob job to actually have breasts/be more feminine. I choose silicone and a 240cc implant (so pretty small) with a moderate to low projection. Implants will weigh in total 1 lb (so.5 in one breast and.5 in other breast). I want my implants to look as natural as possible. Like in other words someone would have no idea I had a boob job.

Now that surgery is coming up, I’m worried about how men will be. Will men not want to date me due to this? My choice is not for a man of course but, I’m a young single woman so I obviously want to date. Will a man be turned off? Let me know your thoughts below. Thank you!

ohshee · Accepted Answer

Okay so first of all you I'll tell you what I think that you have to understand this is something that you want for you so no matter what a guy tells you with this question it doesn't really matter this is all about you and I don't like boob jobs but I think you want to go for it okay so 2 answer your question

For some reason I don't like girls that have boob jobs and that's just because I can see that it's fake and that just makes me think about a lot of things but in your case I honestly think there's something special about it and since there's going to be so small I think that's even better. But it doesn't really matter what I think or what anybody else thinks this is for you and I think you ought to make the best out of it I think that you should own them I think it's going to is it Hanson make you glow because I can feel it in your words that this is something that you feel you really need it I I believe in you I believe in you every word that I just read
I've had my friends try to give me to say that because they wanted to jobs and I didn't think in a million years I would never say this but yes I think you you're doing the right thing for the right reasons and I really don't think that is going to look fake I think it's going to look real and like I said I think you're just going to radiate you're going to Glow you're going to shine beautiful I would love to see you before and after pictures okay I do have one question did you ask the doctor if you're going to have sensation after he's finished with them

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

The usual stereotypical ‘boob jobs’ are where a woman gets very large implants and they just look so unnatural.

They will have most likely spoiled boobs you would have loved the chance to have.

The social view of them tends to be Insta models, porn stars and desperate middle aged women.

Your side of things is totally different, you needed the for fairly serious mental health issues and as part of your overall mental recovery, image and self worth. Also from what you said, you went sensible and kept things more natural.

I hold my hand up, I don’t like fake boobs and I’m against women who do not need implants getting them. I don’t really view boobs as sexual as such and making them huge, just makes them sexual things.

Again, you don’t fall in to that category, best of luck with your ‘new’ self.

yes some will judge, however the majority will understand and if not too large and more natural looking won’t even notice.

All the best, the main thing is, you are far more than your boobs.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Although guys prefer larger sweater meat, most guys that would/should actually matter to you wouldn't care at all about how big they are but, are not exactly fans of plastic tits.
Another thing you should know is that, they generally only last about 10 years before they either burst or have to be replaced or removed and, when they ARE removed, you lose some of what you've already got naturally, in the process!! So, if you're a B now, if/when you have to have them taken out, you might end up being an A!
Lastly, there ARE ways to grow them!! Check out BreastNexus. com to find out some of the ways they use! There's even guys there that have grown their own and most of the results look pretty damn nice! At least one got as far as an H cup!! If GUYS can do it, girls should have next to no problem, at all!!

spartan55 · Answer

I think your circumstances and reasons for getting a breast augmentation are different than the typical vanity project. Tbh honest I really don't care for fake ones, however in your case I wouldn't think anything of it. Glad to hear your recovery is going well!

Miristheiss · Answer

Some will... some won't.

I would have. I wouldn't have dated anyone long term who had fake boobs because she didn't think they were big enough. That mindset sickens me and I don't like fake boobs.
I only had long term relationships with natural girls.

That is just me though. Others like them.

AviatorTom · Answer

It's your decision, and your reasoning for getting a boob job is good. You shouldn't worry. You don't need to tell men you're augmented, and men shouldn't really notice.

I once dated a woman who had breast cancer and had one of her breasts removed and then surgically implanted to look like a normal breast. All was normal between us.

DrHonesty · Answer

Cancel the appointment. At least if you want a man who loves you for who you are, not because of your boobs. Women always making their lips bigger, boobs bigger, butts bigger and wonder why they can't find a good man. Your man will come along, and genuinely love you unconditionally. Anything you do to yourself is purely selfish and will not provide the results you expect.

Anonymous · Answer

Most important thing is that you are feeling better about yourself now.

Im glad you have been able to make the progress you have.

You are also a very beautiful young lady and Im sure there will be no shortage of men who will want to be with you.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally it's a turn off for me, and as much as they say it'll look "natural", it doesn't lol. I can totally tell. And the feel as well. In my opinion it's like this, would you want a guy with a fake penis? But you are doing it for yourself, and there will be some guys that don't care.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

My thoughts huh? Life is full of people who judge you. Know what I say to all of 'em?  "What the fook's it got to do with you?" It's got me this far in life and I'm happy being me!

mark000h · Answer

I think it's great if it makes you feel better about your body. It sounds like you're doing the right thing by going for normal. Most guys like lower sizes even if they say no, they find them cute.

horatiohornblower · Answer

I think the Internet is an echo chamber for guys against implants. I can’t think of any guys I know in real life who are really against them.

RicFlair312 · Answer

Since you say you're going 4 the close to natural look, you shouldn't have many negative issues from the male population... especially if they fit your body type... the female population could be where you get majority of the negativity from.

Mangospacho · Answer

It’s perfectly fine. It’s only annoying when people won’t stop talking about their boob jobs. If you get it to look normal, like all plastic surgery, that’s what it’s meant for.

HighValue · Answer

You have a cute face so as long as you are a good person you should be able to find someone.

rebeliouse · Answer

@maddie_95 dont think guys would mind  sounds like u are doing it for right reason to make you happy not others. make sure u have plenty of before and after pictures to remind you :D

dudeinohio · Answer

A lot of guys consider fake boobs to be a turn off.

legalboxers · Answer

I bet you still are beautiful and no need for augumentation

andy530 · Answer

No any real mature man won’t have an issue with it and won’t judge you

Anonymous · Answer

There are always risks to surgery. You can still find a good man the way you are. Imagine having an implant pop or need replacing, fuck it could be awful

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t want to date. I empathise with your story and wish you the best. I just want to touch real boobies

007kingifrit · Answer

no. they won't even know probably

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