Can you be in love with two people at the same time?

[Anonymous]

I am with my boyfriend of 4 years but what really matter is now i have a strong feeling toward his best friend too.

I dont know why? It’s getting more and more each days , his friends and i have a lot of things in common, we love the same music and love the same things.

I felt like i have found my soulmate but what should i do? I am still with my boyfriend, he’s great and all.

[ohshee]

The thing about love is there's over five hundred seven hundred different types of loves it's so easy to fall in love with somebody.

You going to find out in life that it happens quite often but you have to make choices.
I mean I'm single and there are girls on here that I could absolutely fall in love with there's something about them that either turns me on they're so very smart they seem like they're happy but yes and I don't even know them LOL so that's what I mean Falling in Love is Easy but creating love and building on love that's the hard part it's the most beautiful part so yeah you can fall in love with 20 guys if you absolutely wanted to

[hahahmm]

No but what your situation means is that you don't really view your relationship with your boyfriend as serious so you are entertaining all these thoughts and spending a lot of energy on it. Meanwhile you're happy to let your boyfriend think it's serious so he keeps giving you stuff like emotional support, his loyalty and respect.

You need to decide RIGHT NOW if you want to be a slut or a woman of value. If you want to have any value you either need to forget about the other guy or end the current relationship.

[ally018]

I think this friend might not be willing to date because he might be loyal to your boyfriend. If you break up with your boyfriend and try to talk to him you have to be prepared for him not to be into it because his friendship with your boyfriend could be more important to him than a potential relationship with you. Also, the grass is not always greener on the other side.

[FlutteringFeelings]

If you’re focused on two people at the same time then that means you weren’t in love to begin with. Love isn’t something that’s a fairytale or a fleeting feeling. If the love shown isn’t reciprocated then eventually who withdrawal and want to end the relationship. You have feelings for two people at the same time but it’s not love. Trust me.

[Vikkrram]

See as psychology says that we are attracted towards that person whom we find closer to us like their appearences, behaviour , hobbies. So we are attracted towards them.

But i wanna know one thing that his friend has any idea that you have feelings for him?

[Daniela1982]

Did you run out of original questions? This was asked twice recently, one for men and one for women who loved more than one. Do you ever read questions and give opinions or just ask them?

[RobT312]

I know I can only be in love with one person and give it my all.
i love other people and have lust for others however. There’s a difference.

If I were you, I’d ask yourself if you are in love with your boyfriend. If not,
go with your gut. If you think He’s just “a great guy” and don’t want to hurt his feelings then that’s a mistake. No one wants to be just “a great guy” to a girl. Also, do you even know if the friend has same feelings for you?

[HidingMyHeart]

I believe that it is possible to have feeling for two guys at once but I am not sure about being “in love” with more than one person at a time. At least in my opinion.


My advice though is do not cheat. It may be an impulse but you will feel rotten about it later.


It is not worth it.

[TeddyE]

The answer to your question is no.

My advice: You're barely literate. You ought to be grateful to even have a guy at all. Don't take your chances on jumping to someone new. They probably wouldn't tolerate you for four weeks let alone four years.

[sensible27]

if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.

[Vikkrram]

Psychology hacks... hmm

[Anonymous]

I'm gonna tell you right here, right now, to just stick with the boyfriend. Do whatever you can to stop being around his friend. Don't spend time alone with him, don't call, don't nothing. Cut all contact you may have formed with him and focus on fixing the problems you may be having with your boyfriend. If you pursue the other guy, things will get messy and you may lose your boyfriend forever. Speaking from experience, please cut the other guy off and stay with your boyfriend. 💀 💀 💀

[melanieeeB]

No I don't think so.
Sit down with your boyfriend and try finding solutions for the problems you both have or leave it all.

[Ginchygoo]

So maybe you don't know what love is. If you think you're in love with your boyfriend I would have to think not. I don't believe that people find what they want in someone new unless you're looking for something that you are missing.

[Laciandmaci]

No if you truly loved your boyfriend you wouldn't love his friend or even have a crush on him. It shows it is not true love either way.

[dustybiker]

Follow your gut. It is often more reasonable than heart and head combined.

[Anonymous]

I don't believe so. When you really love someone, you're all in. You can't even think about being with someone else. If whatever you feel isn't all-encompassing, it's not love.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Sure you can, just stay loyal. As there is different kinds of love too.

[Vikkrram]

Different kinda loves? I didn't get it? Like one whom you you love and be wid them and other whom you love but u can't be wid them... like this or something else?

[Aerissa_Jade]

@Vikkrram It is why someone can still be in love with an ex, and a current partner. As time goes on the love for the ex fades, while hopefully the new love grows stronger.

[Vikkrram]

Yeah... but that time gap really sucks... I have experienced that even i was not in the relationship wid that person... it really sucks... It tooked me around 1 year to fade that feelings...

[BeenThereLovedIt]

become a femdom cuckoldress and have both, or just break it off already, the damage is done.

[MissNikkiD]

I would say if you can fall for someone else then it probably wasn't love to begin with.

Being in love and caring about someone deeply are such different emotions, They are easily mislead.

Always follow your heart.

[Seangreen]

No you cannot because if you really loved the first person you wouldn't have fell in love with the second person

[Twalli]

So basically the problem is that even if you are more similar to his friend, breaking up with your boyfriend is more likely to make you lose both. Generally you don't date your friend's ex.

[Twalli]

@xzzzzzz what do you want me to do with this information?

[Dear_Panda]

It is possible you have feelings for both of them, but you need to choose one. Such things destroy relationships and stop being greedy 😂

[es20490446e]

Do you have romantic feelings towards your boyfriend?

[Subarugirl]

Yes you can, but loving someone is a choice, it doesn't just happen, you chose who to love.

[pup4life]

Yes, but that doesn’t mean you should try to date both of them

[WonderMan35]

I don't think so. One is like a habbit other one is love.

[oobidee]

Are you sure the friend has feelings for you back?

[Wester1967]

No. You're in love with yourself. Not 2 people.

[CalogeroValledolmo]

Absolutely, that's why there's polyamory.

[Wise4myage]

I don't see how that is possible.

[Rupani]

Difficult, but not impossible

[PeterSmith1983]

Ofcourse it's different if you act on it ofcourse

[LegendaryIcon]

No. it's not love then, at all, for both

[OddBeMe]

I’d say one would be loved more. Can’t be even.

[Prenses]

Olabilirim ve oldum da ama bana faydaları yok 🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

wow you're a damn jerk

[Anonymous]

Yes..

[Anonymous]

Ummm yeah it's highly possible.

[Anonymous]

It called slutty feelings

[boobliker]

I do believe we Can

[jahaims]

Nope

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.

[emperor90]

Not possible at all

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[TrillXHippy]

No, no you can not