Because some girls just want a compliment that’s more geared towards their true beauty of their face… Like “Gorgeous” or “Beautiful”.
“Hot” or “Sexy” is more geared towards their body. It has more of a sexual connotation to it.
It feels “objectifying” kinda to always be complimented on our bodies.
I don't know I think the you're sexy works after you know the person a bit or if that's the vibe you already have - a vibe is something you can't replicate online, texting or otherwise - I remember randomly telling a girl I thought friendzoned me that she's sexy (a man who has nothing to lose is pretty dangerous right?) - Let's just say the dynamic of that relationship clearly changed.. But I wouldn't recommend it right from the start
Probably depends on what else is in her. profile, if it’s mostly pictures and not much text then that’s probably how she wants to be judged, but if there are lots of other things there she probably wants those to serve as conversation starters. Just saying you’re hot comes across as very shallow, at least that’s how I would see it.
Beautiful, gorgeous = I will give you my children right now. Should be used rarely though.
Pretty = Really endearing, I think this is the best compliment for a woman.
Cute, adorable = Can be a turn off for some women, and this should be used to an extent. But it is still endearing.
Sexy, hot = Unless I'm in a relationship with you, ew.
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it's only offensive when they don't like the man in question. If they do like him he can say and do whatever he wants. Women are the epitome of double standards.
It's a common symptom of what phycologists refer to as Female Entitlement Syndrome (FES), a mental disorder that sadly has become very common among modern western females.
They already know they are, so it doesn’t make them feel good. It also shows a lack of creativity.
If you want to compliment a woman on her looks, make it one who doesn’t get complimented on her looks.
I don't know if they are offended, so much as that they are annoyed by it. Of course you think they're hot or sexy. If you didn't, you probably wouldn't message them.
Too much grammar. They'll think you are sophisticated and of poor taste and civility, not a wild beast. What you do is go all the way. "U HOT! ME WANT U!"
Because women are children and although they expose as much as possible to get sexual attention, they want guys to be interested in their bullshit “personality” because they all think they are deep and special.
Because it leads to a person using you for their own sexual gratification or its simply unwanted attention.
it could be the lack
of originality that they find crude
a refined man would perhaps
compliment them in a way
that showed thoughtfulness
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