Guys, what is a way a girl has ruined/sabotaged a relationship before it even starts?

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Answer 1

DaveJord | 324 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Putting their terms and condition on me, as if their feelings, needs, and wants are more important than mine. If you are considering a relationship with someone, its cool to have your own idea, and beliefs on how a relationship should develop... but you have to do that in consideration of the other person.

So when women start putting terms on conditions on a relationship before we even get started I bail fast.

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Asker

1 mo
What do you mean by this? Asking for exclusivity too soon? Expressing what she wants out of the relationship too soon?
DaveJord

1 mo
Saying things that like I only date guys that are this or that. Or that guy must set Jesús as a priority in their life. That they must have the same political views, even if I agree with her views I don't like it being a condition.

Or that they won't consider sex until the 5th date, or unless she it 100% certain. When they say I am only interest in long term relations. When you know every new relationship starts on a short term and build into a long term Hell I have had women say they will not date guys that wear hats.

So yes I guess your right, demanding something or expecting some thing too soon out of guy. Its a total turn off. Relationships are a two way street, so you have to give before you take. And it goes both ways, you can't come into a healthy relationship with expectation unless your willing to compromise.

Answer 2

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What do you mean by this? Asking for exclusivity too soon? Expressing what she wants out of the relationship too soon?

Answer 3

DaveJord

Saying things that like I only date guys that are this or that. Or that guy must set Jesús as a priority in their life. That they must have the same political views, even if I agree with her views I don't like it being a condition.

Or that they won't consider sex until the 5th date, or unless she it 100% certain. When they say I am only interest in long term relations. When you know every new relationship starts on a short term and build into a long term Hell I have had women say they will not date guys that wear hats.

So yes I guess your right, demanding something or expecting some thing too soon out of guy. Its a total turn off. Relationships are a two way street, so you have to give before you take. And it goes both ways, you can't come into a healthy relationship with expectation unless your willing to compromise.

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DamnSam | 418 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Constantly made jokes in public about our sexlife...

Then later when she told me that she wants to get back together bc of our daughter, she turned into a Karen and made my life hell... still hell, but no chance for her to get anything back we had

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kyliesz | 96 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Being too clingy is definitely a big one for me for guys and girls

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What would you describe as too clingy?
kyliesz

1 mo
Wanting attention 24/7 , not giiving space, nit leaving in the morning, always wanting more affection then what im already giving and getting upset if you dont get more… etc

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What would you describe as too clingy?

Answer 7

kyliesz

Wanting attention 24/7 , not giiving space, nit leaving in the morning, always wanting more affection then what im already giving and getting upset if you dont get more… etc

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slatyb | 7.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

She invited me to her place and it was a mess. No furniture, belongings in plastic trash bags, At that moment I realized that she had nothing because she spent everything she earned in bars.

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Answer 9

MossyMan

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"I've had guy friends say they are into me but I've been clear with them that I'm not interested and they respect it so we are cool now."

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priyakigaandme

Xper 5

Most likely its Now OVER but You can give it a Try to Revive it !!!

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1 mo
What? This doesn’t answer the question at all

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Asker

What? This doesn’t answer the question at all

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jahaims | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Not knowing what her goals, values, and morals are will set her up for failure.

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Answer 13

Anonymous

She liked me but she thought she could get me by flirting with another guy in front of me. Instead I walked away. Now she don't have me or him.

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LegendaryIcon | 532 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

lying

it would take a lot for me to get over a lie

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clampfan101 | 3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Theoretically, being anti-Christian when we met.

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