Guys, what is a way a girl has ruined/sabotaged a relationship before it even starts?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

Putting their terms and condition on me, as if their feelings, needs, and wants are more important than mine. If you are considering a relationship with someone, its cool to have your own idea, and beliefs on how a relationship should develop... but you have to do that in consideration of the other person.

So when women start putting terms on conditions on a relationship before we even get started I bail fast.

[Asker]

What do you mean by this? Asking for exclusivity too soon? Expressing what she wants out of the relationship too soon?

[DaveJord]

Saying things that like I only date guys that are this or that. Or that guy must set Jesús as a priority in their life. That they must have the same political views, even if I agree with her views I don't like it being a condition.

Or that they won't consider sex until the 5th date, or unless she it 100% certain. When they say I am only interest in long term relations. When you know every new relationship starts on a short term and build into a long term Hell I have had women say they will not date guys that wear hats.

So yes I guess your right, demanding something or expecting some thing too soon out of guy. Its a total turn off. Relationships are a two way street, so you have to give before you take. And it goes both ways, you can't come into a healthy relationship with expectation unless your willing to compromise.

[DamnSam]

Constantly made jokes in public about our sexlife...

Then later when she told me that she wants to get back together bc of our daughter, she turned into a Karen and made my life hell... still hell, but no chance for her to get anything back we had

[kyliesz]

Being too clingy is definitely a big one for me for guys and girls

[Asker]

What would you describe as too clingy?

[kyliesz]

Wanting attention 24/7 , not giiving space, nit leaving in the morning, always wanting more affection then what im already giving and getting upset if you dont get more… etc

[slatyb]

She invited me to her place and it was a mess. No furniture, belongings in plastic trash bags, At that moment I realized that she had nothing because she spent everything she earned in bars.

[MossyMan]

"I've had guy friends say they are into me but I've been clear with them that I'm not interested and they respect it so we are cool now."

[priyakigaandme]

Most likely its Now OVER but You can give it a Try to Revive it !!!

[Asker]

What? This doesn’t answer the question at all

[jahaims]

Not knowing what her goals, values, and morals are will set her up for failure.

[Anonymous]

She liked me but she thought she could get me by flirting with another guy in front of me. Instead I walked away. Now she don't have me or him.

[LegendaryIcon]

lying

it would take a lot for me to get over a lie

[clampfan101]

Theoretically, being anti-Christian when we met.