Why isn't he deleting me?

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A guy at my uni ghosted me after 2 dates (2nd date was just a meeting) but he still has my number saved as I can see his last seen on WhatsApp (his last seen is open to his contacts only). Why isn't he deleting it when he doesn't want to talk?

Answer 1

diamonddreams

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Maybe he has forgotten to delete it. Or he's playing games or doesn't want to burn bridges with you and wants to have lots of options

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Asker

30 d
I want to block him tbh. I don't know what game je plays. Ever since I sent him a message the first time, he plays the last seen game on whatsapp. He didn't add me in his contacts first so he made his last seen public for everyone. And on some days he would last appear at 19.20 pm and be gone the whole evening+night.
Then he added me in his contacts and closed his last seen for everybody except his contacts.
He stopped disappearing for long hours for 1 week but now has again started doing it.

I dont know what he does but I think he goes to get laid with that "female friend with a boyfriend" he was talking about.
diamonddreams

29 d
Not good at all. I would say to directly confront him about that. Give him a time limit and if he doesn't answer back either block him or 👻 him

Answer 2

Asker

I want to block him tbh. I don't know what game je plays. Ever since I sent him a message the first time, he plays the last seen game on whatsapp. He didn't add me in his contacts first so he made his last seen public for everyone. And on some days he would last appear at 19.20 pm and be gone the whole evening+night.
Then he added me in his contacts and closed his last seen for everybody except his contacts.
He stopped disappearing for long hours for 1 week but now has again started doing it.

I dont know what he does but I think he goes to get laid with that "female friend with a boyfriend" he was talking about.

Answer 3

diamonddreams

Not good at all. I would say to directly confront him about that. Give him a time limit and if he doesn't answer back either block him or 👻 him

Answer 4

es20490446e | 4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

his actions, his problem.

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Answer 5

Wise4myage | 4.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Why be concerned? He's a clown, so move on.

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Asker

30 d
I want to block him tbh. I don't know what game je plays. Ever since I sent him a message, he plays the last seen game on whatsapp. He didn't add me in his contacts first so he made his last seen public for everyone. And on some days he would last appear at 19.20 pm and be gone the whole evening+night.
Then he added me in his contacts and closed his last seen for everybody except his contacts.
He stopped disappearing for long hours for 1 week but now has again started doing it.

I dont know what he does but I think he goes to get laid with that "female friend with a boyfriend" he was talking about.
Wise4myage

30 d
Then block him right now.
Asker

30 d
What do you think of him based off what I wrote above?
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Wise4myage

30 d
He's a waste of your time.

Answer 6

Asker

I want to block him tbh. I don't know what game je plays. Ever since I sent him a message, he plays the last seen game on whatsapp. He didn't add me in his contacts first so he made his last seen public for everyone. And on some days he would last appear at 19.20 pm and be gone the whole evening+night.
Then he added me in his contacts and closed his last seen for everybody except his contacts.
He stopped disappearing for long hours for 1 week but now has again started doing it.

I dont know what he does but I think he goes to get laid with that "female friend with a boyfriend" he was talking about.

Answer 7

Wise4myage

Then block him right now.

Answer 8

Asker

What do you think of him based off what I wrote above?

Answer 9

Wise4myage

He's a waste of your time.

Answer 10

Anonymous

Maybe just hasn't thought to do it?

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Asker

30 d
He ghosted me and said he will reply but didn't. She clearly knows it. When he doesn't want to talk then why keep it?

Answer 11

Asker

He ghosted me and said he will reply but didn't. She clearly knows it. When he doesn't want to talk then why keep it?

Why isn't he deleting me?

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