Why hasn't he deleted me?

[Anonymous]

Hi, haven't been here in like 3 years lol.

Anyway, me and him got into an argument two weeks ago and haven't spoken again. But we still have each other on facebook, why hasn't be deleted me then? The other day he was complimenting another woman's picture. What causes this behavior in you guys?

[dangerDoge]

If he is anything like me, he doesn't really care about who's a "facebook friend" or not. I am Facebook friends with old middle school classmates I hated, high school school mates I barely knew, and people from other states who have complete different political/religious views that often post stuff that annoys me.

Point being, don't take being Facebook friend necessarily as a 'sign' or whatever. It could mean that he hasn't given up on you or still likes you (if you were bf/gf), or it could mean he just hasn't found the motivation to defriend you yet.

In in case, I suggest initiating contact since it seems like this is just going to get worse if you wait longer... That is, if you want to get him back to wherever you to were (boyfriend, friend, whatever).

[Klaatu51]

maybe he considers it unimportant wether he should delete u or not... if u had an argument it doesn't mean he should delete u anyway

[simplegurl123]

Don't overthink... and jump to conclusions... he didn't contact after argument... he really cared would have made an effort to talk.,. according to me... he isn't bothered anymore.., so let it be if he deleted you or not... livd your life..., if you want you delete him or something

[fauchelevent]

Well, you could turn that around and ask why haven't you deleted him? It might be the same reason he hasn't deleted you.

[Anonymous]

Hasn't deleted because he doesn't care.