Trust your feelings deep down. No matter how perfect they are, flirty, or how much you think they like you, just trust yourself over them and you’ll be happier in the end. Believe in yourself even if you’re kind or selfless, or people will take advantage of you.
I've learned that people typically want their ideal significant other to be someone and do things that they themselves wouldn't do in return. I've learned that people always make time for what's important to them and excuses for the things that aren't.
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Well I have some take aways..
1. Do not rush.
2. Take time to understand what you desire, require and want. Ask and clarify what are his/her desires, requirements and wants.
3. We all have some or the other insecurities about ourselves and see if the other person is really understanding or not and accordingly take things ahead.
4. Do not, doooo noooot think that if you had/have sex with the other person you will gain trust. No never ever think this. With the pandemic the era has lost genuineness and the crowd just wants to have fun and no commitments.
5. Share your emotional/relationship/sexual desires with your partner.
6. Spread love and kindness.
I hope some of them will help you.
Hope you find a good date and it be full of fun if you already are dating. Stay safe and have lots of fun. Afterall we have limited time to enjoy this life. Cheers.
I learned that 20 years ago, beauty changes based on how a person behaves and acts.
I've dated beautiful women who after a few months, I thought was unattractive because they had terrible personalities. Also had casual friends that I was not attracted to, but after hanging out for many months started to see her as pretty good looking and made for a great relationship.
There is no such thing as perfect, if you find the perfect person. You will not be the perfect person for them. We must learn to accept others as they are.
You can’t help who you fall for & feelings that may return, but you can control your decision making and loving yourself to not do yourself wrong.
Take time to really know someone & have them really know you.
It’s good to be considerate of another person, but don’t put them above you and your standards.
Be strong of establishing who you are and be who you are, and make sure to find someone who likes you for you.
We all have flaws and toxic traits, the most important thing is being aware and working on it.
It’s not always just about chemistry and connection if the person you care about isn’t willingly to commit… don’t wait and just live your best life.. and who knows maybe the right person will come around.
Tbh, nothing i stopped dating like 5yrs ago.
Focused on getting to college, now focused on Graduating after that getting my career off and running.
Once i do that maybe I will consider dating.
I learned 5 years ago dating can distract you from your goals
It's important to get to know the person you're going to date. Make sure your future goals (financial, house, kids) are in line. As well as get to know their values and what they stand for, politics, religion etc.
Don't rush into anything without trying to discuss those things and making sure you're both compatible for a relationship 🙂
1. You can be confident in yourself & what you can do all that you wish. If there's something about your personality &/or you and her have very little to nothing in common,... clearly there's no chance in hell & either the next guy, some other guy that you know or a buddy of yours will be next in line to get this girl.
2. Or maybe (This is also coming from my experience) if the next guy, some other guy that you know or a buddy of yours looks more like a male Instagram model & you don't,... again guess who has more of a better chance in getting the girl.
That there are still good men out there that won't push for sex on the first date, that are willing to court me and take their sweet time getting to know me while not rushing. Who won't hold my past against me and who love me for who I am.
And that is hard to wait to make love with such a man, but I'm waiting for several more months at least. 💖💖💖
The guy I told him I like him 2 weeks ago we were talking for 2 years.. slowly stopped messaging me recently and didn’t even reply to my happy new year wish it wish me a happy new year
So what I have learned even though we weren’t dating we were “dating” talking every day etc
is to for sure follow your goals and career never belong to a guy or hope they are with you all the time.
That life can often throw surprises your way.
That emotional connection requirements are a pain lol.
Don’t try and break your wrist when starting a new relationship, it buggers up the sex part lol.
Had a woman rewrite my app bios. She wrote nothing but lies in an attempt to improve my prospects. It's been a month and not a single match.
I learned 2 things.
Women want men to lie to them. Or women have no clue what they want on men.
That my gut feeling is in good tune. Wish I could always trust the words of the men I date but that is really not always the case. At least I can sense it better and better if people are not being honest.
Do not ignore past issues of someone (including yourself) hoping you'll learn how to "make things work" with them.
I’ve noticed after trying to date that woman don’t really want anyone even when on dating sites because they don’t seem to trust people and after being single so long they get used to being alone and don’t seem to want to go out and take it so slow I lose interest and pursue someone else instead and I never hear back from them anyway once I stop calling or texting
It seems pretty basic, but I finally learned that the best path to romance is the result of lots of small steps. Like people first.
really i should know what i'm looking for before hand
@jennifer_bloom I learned that shared hobbies are one of the conditions required for a successful relationship.
What I learned is that if you are an average guy your chances at finding love are very minimal so it's best to just stay single at that point.
No idea. I haven't been dating at all. Still don't want to. Haven't been on a date in 6 years now. Here's to another full year of not dating
There is nothing wrong with giving a second chance if you see it fit. There is nothing wrong with letting them know that you want effort to be put in it as well just to keep it from being one sided.
Efforts... be with someone who make efforts equal to efforts you make for them
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