How to make a move/kiss a girl that I’ve been talking to for a while?

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So I’ve been talking to this girl for a while now around 3 months or so. For the last month we were on winter break so I haven’t seen her in person in over a month. We still talked pretty frequently and played games together over break though. We’re seeing each other in a couple days and I feel like I really need to make a move or she’s gonna give up on me and move on. I’m pretty much positive that she’s into me and won’t deny me but I still don’t want to fuck up and make things awkward or weird. We’ve hung out one on one 10+ times and the most I’ve done is held her hand and had my arm around her. I’m just really nervous because I don’t have any experience with this kind of stuff. I’ve never been as close with a girl as I am with her and I’ve only had one kiss before and I’m 20. And this kiss was really low stakes since it was just some tinder girl I’d been talking to for a few days. What’s the best way to go about making a move? Should I just explain to her my situation? Should I say something that initiates a kiss? Or should I just look at her and try and go for it when the time is right. For some context we’ll probably be watching tv sitting next to each other on my bed. I usually put my arm around her and she leans into me and rests her head against mine. It’s kinda awkward turning my head to look at her from that position which makes it hard too but I don't know. If you could, explain it detail like you’re teaching someone who has zero experience. Thanks!

Answer 1

RearEntryGuy

Xper 6

To begin, learn to touch her "non sensually".

The objective: to get her to feel comfortable with you and form a basis to move to the next base.

To do: touch, hold, hug for 3 to 5 seconds each time you do so.

Steps:
1) meet her: shake hands as friends. Five seconds.

2) whenever you try to stress a point, put your hand on hers, or hold her arm for 5 seconds. Then let go.

3) whenever you make eye contact, hold her arm for 5 seconds, then let go.

4) when you walk, hold hands as couple do.

5) when crossing the road, move your hand to the small of her back (not butt, yet).

Got the idea? Keep in mind the objective.

From the next date onward, let "non sensual touch" be a part of it.

After about two weeks, progress to "seductive touch". We'll talk about it then.

PS: don't rush, especially if she shows sign of awkwardness.

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Answer 2

Avicenna | 10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Don’t talk or delay, just do it when you feel the time is right

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Answer 3

whirled_up_girl | 85 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

When you get close again you could ask "what would you think if I kissed you right now?"

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Notable423

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Ok that sounds good. I think saying something would be a lot easier for me. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of “you know what’s kind of funny” and when she’s asks what I would respond with “ the fact that we’ve been talking for so long and still haven’t kissed or done anything yet”. I like what you said too tho. But I’m not sure everybody always says not to say anything just to go for it which makes me feel conflicted.

Answer 4

Notable423

Ok that sounds good. I think saying something would be a lot easier for me. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of “you know what’s kind of funny” and when she’s asks what I would respond with “ the fact that we’ve been talking for so long and still haven’t kissed or done anything yet”. I like what you said too tho. But I’m not sure everybody always says not to say anything just to go for it which makes me feel conflicted.

Answer 5

boobliker | 249 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

just kiss her if walking turn and kiss her

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Notable423

8 d
Did u mean talking?
boobliker

8 d
walk in the park or from the car to the lift just stop and kiss her

Answer 6

Notable423

Did u mean talking?

Answer 7

boobliker

walk in the park or from the car to the lift just stop and kiss her

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emperor90 | 585 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Make sure u set the scene make it romantic

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Answer 9

888theGreat

Guru

hug first then kiss

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