I was at a library minding my business looking at books and this guy came up to me and asked me out. I told him, I was flattered, but I was in a relationship, which I was. The guy looked at me dead in my eyes, and called me a f*cking b*tch and a liar and then walked off.
@ninaneedshelp no kidding! Plus literally what else do you say...I'm flattered, I'm dating someone, that's the truth. I would hope when or if this guy got a girlfriend, he would want her to respect their relationship!!!
Oh goodness. I am reading the other comments and gosh I feel fortunate that I did not have an experience like these other fine ladies. I can honestly say that nothing "bad" really happened to me.
There was disappointment for sure, but no one every threatened me harm in any way. I feel just terrible what some of these girls have been through. 😞
Well, I got rejected by a girl. She said it calmly. I thanked her for her honesty and left. We encountered each other many times, but I did not even look at her after that. We were in the same class.
There were instances where I was just looking outside the windows in the classes and then would notice something moving and then it would be her turning her head towards the board. It confused me, but I never gave any thought to it. Still don't give it.
We were both at different high schools and when I rejected him, he went around his high school and told everyone that I had r*ped him. His friends stalked me and called me horrible names in public, videod me, and slandered my name on social media. It took 2 years for it to die down.
1. I turned down a guy in college and he then then accused me of being a “tranny”, because no straight woman would ever turn him down. He accused me of having a penis...
2. An obese nerd at my college came into me, and when I turned him down, he accused me of being a, “boring, basic bitch anyone”.
3. I turned down another guy who told me someone would still “pay for my crotch”, and that I should just become an escort... thanks?
Haven't asked many girls out, but one stands out in my memory, not as like a bad reaction but just an unusual one. Asked a girl out in 8th grade, she asked me a bunch of questions to test if I was seriously interested (Apparently I passed). Said she'd think about it, literally forgot I asked for 2 years. By the time she remembered I was already with my now ex. Wasn't even mad cause I was happy in that relationship.
I actually had a girl tell me I was really cute and I was her boyfriend now and she better not catch me with no other girls. I had just met her barely said five words to her. I just laughed and left she was crazy but I didn’t have any problems with her and only seen her one more time after that and she said something along the same shit but she kinda laughed and I just left really if she wasn’t crazy I might of hooked up with her cause she was pretty hot just too crazy
Went to my chain of command and lied saying I sent harassing texts. She had a friend send her threatening texts while having that friend under my name. My chain of command asked me and I submitted my phone for investigation. She was barred from the base, which means her dependa tactics were pretty much done for.
He thankfully only knew were I used to work but he would stand outside on the other side of the street and watch me or like after my worktime he did follow me a few times and I would always take the longer road, to make sure that he doesn't figure out what way I take to get home. Sometimes when I worked late I would make the guy, I was seeing at that time, pick me up or ask a male friend.
Well I did go to the police twice bevor that, cause of another case and they send me away saying that they can't do something, unless something real happens and so in this case/situation I didn't call the police, I knew they wouldn't help
Once I didn’t meet up with a 36 year old guy when I was 23 for a drink. He told me “bring your curves over here tonight” and I refused to. He then went off on me and told I have a “sad little job” and that I’m “23, fat, and stupid” and called me a “tier 3” whatever that even means. I hope he caught covid.
This girl I matched with one time got upset because I made a sarcastic remark about how dry the conversation was going and started going off saying she was too pretty for me, that she only matches when fucked up, has tons of other men in her dms even though she wouldn't leave me alone when I asked lol, it was unreal
one guy canled the date and dediced to friendzone me. another guy refuse to make plan or cofirm anything. another guy called me ugly. My ex boyfriend were toxic. another cheater ex boyfriend tried to ask me out and i rejected him.
Had a woman throw a Brick through my car window. Had a girl freak out and tell me she's never been told no b4 which I thought was weird. I had a girl drop out of school and a woman threaten to commit suicide.
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I was at a library minding my business looking at books and this guy came up to me and asked me out. I told him, I was flattered, but I was in a relationship, which I was. The guy looked at me dead in my eyes, and called me a f*cking b*tch and a liar and then walked off.
He wasn't the one for you
@ninaneedshelp no kidding! Plus literally what else do you say...I'm flattered, I'm dating someone, that's the truth. I would hope when or if this guy got a girlfriend, he would want her to respect their relationship!!!
Exactly
Oh goodness. I am reading the other comments and gosh I feel fortunate that I did not have an experience like these other fine ladies. I can honestly say that nothing "bad" really happened to me.
There was disappointment for sure, but no one every threatened me harm in any way. I feel just terrible what some of these girls have been through. 😞
Yeah he told people he hoped I die.
he also said he hopes I get burnt from head to toe in a fire.
He also wanted me to be raped.
Later he, began tellin everyone how ugly and flat chested I was.
I just ignored him
geez. all these dudes giving out death threats smh
It is what it is,
Not the first time someone been rude about me not liking them.
Well, I got rejected by a girl.
She said it calmly.
I thanked her for her honesty and left.
We encountered each other many times, but I did not even look at her after that. We were in the same class.
There were instances where I was just looking outside the windows in the classes and then would notice something moving and then it would be her turning her head towards the board. It confused me, but I never gave any thought to it. Still don't give it.
We were both at different high schools and when I rejected him, he went around his high school and told everyone that I had r*ped him. His friends stalked me and called me horrible names in public, videod me, and slandered my name on social media. It took 2 years for it to die down.
Oh, I have a few:
1. I turned down a guy in college and he then then accused me of being a “tranny”, because no straight woman would ever turn him down. He accused me of having a penis...
2. An obese nerd at my college came into me, and when I turned him down, he accused me of being a, “boring, basic bitch anyone”.
3. I turned down another guy who told me someone would still “pay for my crotch”, and that I should just become an escort... thanks?
Sorry for laughing, but that "penis" part really cracked me up! What a punk! :-D
@DryGermanGuy I’m glad I made you laugh!
The last one was just a job offer, with extra steps😅
Haven't asked many girls out, but one stands out in my memory, not as like a bad reaction but just an unusual one. Asked a girl out in 8th grade, she asked me a bunch of questions to test if I was seriously interested (Apparently I passed). Said she'd think about it, literally forgot I asked for 2 years. By the time she remembered I was already with my now ex. Wasn't even mad cause I was happy in that relationship.
I actually had a girl tell me I was really cute and I was her boyfriend now and she better not catch me with no other girls. I had just met her barely said five words to her. I just laughed and left she was crazy but I didn’t have any problems with her and only seen her one more time after that and she said something along the same shit but she kinda laughed and I just left really if she wasn’t crazy I might of hooked up with her cause she was pretty hot just too crazy
Went to my chain of command and lied saying I sent harassing texts. She had a friend send her threatening texts while having that friend under my name. My chain of command asked me and I submitted my phone for investigation. She was barred from the base, which means her dependa tactics were pretty much done for.
Besides being called a slut or delusional cause "I made up, that he approached me" , worst would have been stalking
how did they stalk you?
He thankfully only knew were I used to work but he would stand outside on the other side of the street and watch me or like after my worktime he did follow me a few times and I would always take the longer road, to make sure that he doesn't figure out what way I take to get home. Sometimes when I worked late I would make the guy, I was seeing at that time, pick me up or ask a male friend.
wow scary. did you call the cops or something?
Well I did go to the police twice bevor that, cause of another case and they send me away saying that they can't do something, unless something real happens and so in this case/situation I didn't call the police, I knew they wouldn't help
that sucks.
Girl at the sandwich shop at my grocery store. 1st time I ever asked a girl out was almost shaking I was so nervous.
I wanted to go see a movie.
I was just a mere bagger but I went for it.
,, Hey wanna see this movie Friday?,,
,, NO!!,,
Welp that was that
Being told that I will accept him and he'll do whatever it takes, such as becoming a stalker and I've had this happen more than once.
Basically, rejection means he's going to try harder in a potentially illegal way.
Got all up in my face and called me an ugly fat bitch lmao.
Dodged that bullet then wow
Lmao sure did. He was embarrassed and got even more embarrassed after that because I made him look stupid in front of his friends.
Once I didn’t meet up with a 36 year old guy when I was 23 for a drink. He told me “bring your curves over here tonight” and I refused to. He then went off on me and told I have a “sad little job” and that I’m “23, fat, and stupid” and called me a “tier 3” whatever that even means.
I hope he caught covid.
This girl I matched with one time got upset because I made a sarcastic remark about how dry the conversation was going and started going off saying she was too pretty for me, that she only matches when fucked up, has tons of other men in her dms even though she wouldn't leave me alone when I asked lol, it was unreal
one guy canled the date and dediced to friendzone me. another guy refuse to make plan or cofirm anything. another guy called me ugly. My ex boyfriend were toxic. another cheater ex boyfriend tried to ask me out and i rejected him.
Had a woman throw a Brick through my car window. Had a girl freak out and tell me she's never been told no b4 which I thought was weird. I had a girl drop out of school and a woman threaten to commit suicide.
She started avoiding me like some plague. If she wasn't interested, she could just tell me straight up. I found that act really childish.
Rejected him so he sent some random girls nudes in his friend group chat (had a significant amount of guys) saying they were mine
he harassed me on instagram dms with insults with broken spelling cause he’s dyslexic until i blocked him