Guys who have rejected girls, have you ever done it in a rude, mean or disrespectful way?

[Anonymous]

If so, how did it play out?

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[ohsheeT]

No I would never do that I have asked girls to go out before especially in high school and it didn't turn out the way that I planned and I was embarrassed about it with the red face cussing is unlocking away under my breath

But I realize it's just a moment in time and that it's just not meant to be that's all there is to it so I would never ever be rude to somebody because I've been through that feeling before

Now I have had girls that I did not really care for try to pick up on me and I would say no thank you blah blah blah and they would just keep trying and then they would start touching me and it was just rude and wrong and I would say please stop

Because I knew in that moment what a girl would feel like if a guy was doing that to her because it's crazy but I've asked a girl to leave my house before because she did not stop touching me

But I mean I wasn't rude about it and there's no reason to be rude I mean it's a moment that girls are vulnerable the same with guys so you kind of just got to be nice about it say no thank you and explain why if there's a reason

[Asker]

Yeah, I've had a handful of girls touch or grope me after rejection, and I just respond by exiting the situation. A little more difficult when they're in your house, obviously.

But I'm with you on not having a reason to be rude, typically. No need to wreck someone's self esteem.

[jahaims]

I'm only rude if they don't take no for an answer. One girl in high school really liked me and she was pretty persistent. That was the only time I wasn't rude when someone was being too much. I could tell she was nervous af so I felt bad. Her persistence was out of bravery not ego so it wasn't as annoying.

[malarkey]

Yep. They've done everything from just kind of pitifully lingering around in disbelief asking if they can at least just leave their number with me to going to the police because I hurt their feelings and they wanted something to be done about it

[Anonymous]

Only 2. But both deserved it.

One was trying to set me up as a joke and I got tipped off by another girl. So when that girl came on to me I shot her down and made her the joke.

The other time a girl asked me out and insulted while doing so by saying when she first met me she didn't find me attractive but then she got to know me. So I said, " I didn't used to find you attractive when I first met you either, and I still don't".👋😆

[Asker]

Yeah man, I think these are valid reasons to be a dick to someone.

[BarryLiverstone]

I was out with friends drunk once and a girl asked for my number and I said no cuz I’m not into you.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No that's unnecessary

[Anonymous]

LMAO

[Asker]

I'm sorry guys were so mean to you. It's not common though. Just bad luck, I guess.