Girls, is it common for guys to behave rude and violent with a girl after she rejected him? Did any guy treated you the same way?

[Anonymous]

Like blocking/ stopped talking with you/ ignoring you when you reject them. Does they do this crappy shit to make you feel bad for rejecting them?

[inhua]

no it's not common

the energy you put out there is the energy you receive in return

a lot of girls will say that a guy was rude to them after rejection. what they fail to mention or rather they choose to exclude the details of the encounter is that they themselves were rude to the guy first hence he was rude back

it's basically a lie of omission

[Asker]

If a girl doesn't wanna accept a guy, is it justifiable for him to behave rude and violent with her?

[inhua]

no unless she's rude and violent towards him then it's fair game

treat others how you would like to be treated is something that's often taught to us at a young age

not all rejection is the same. there's a vast difference between "sorry I'm not interested" and "fuck off you creep! go kill yourself" the former should be understandable but the latter will invoke a hostile response

[Asker]

When she says it in the form of sorry, I'm not interested instead of the other way you mentioned, still if they behave rude and violent with her, is it justifiable?

[inhua]

depends on how thick/thin skin you are what you classify as "rude"
being violent is not justifiable.

[Anonymous]

a lot of hurtful things were said by her family that's why i stopped talking to her. i bent over backwards helping her and her family for 5 years only to be backstabbed by them

[Tyrael]

Not many people handle rejection well. It's not exclusively guys who react badly to it, it's just that guys have to make the first move most of the time so it's a lot more noticeable.