There are quite a few but I’d just list some of the extreme ones. One guy invited me for a dinner date few years back. I agreed, but for some reasons a night before that I didn’t feel good about this dude. I texted him saying I couldn’t make it, and he insisted to know why. I just said I have something urgent to do. He was fine that night till the next morning he spammed me with explicit picture messages, like now we can call it meme. Those pictures were like women getting raped and abused. I didn’t respond because he didn’t say a word, then he just kept sending them and one time he called me by 3 am in the morning. I immediately blocked him everywhere including his social media. Another dude was a guy friend of mine. We went out for a casual coffee outing then we decided to have dinner together. I told him I was not expecting him to pay so it is okay for us to split since the dinner was unplanned and I don’t want to owe him anything. He said he wanted to treat me so I couldn’t say much to decline. After a few days, he started to get clingy. I told him that I am in a relationship and there is nothing going to happen between us. He pretended like he was okay with it but actually he already resented me. He finally showed his true color when I stopped talking to him. He said I am not as pretty as I thought, and I should be grateful that he wanted to date me. He also proceeded by saying I am in the same league as him, repeatedly. You won’t believe how he looks like lol. I am the one who is supposed to talk about the league thing but I guess that was his way of coping the rejection. A few months after that, I get to know this guy who told me that he knows that asshole and he has been approaching/harassing women like local models and celebrities, also a few gym instructors. When they rejected him, he did exactly the same thing.
yikes that first one was nuts lol wow.
i used to be quite clingy but i've learned to respect their space
Thats good. You definitely don’t need that in your life
The price of being good looking/famous. Run into all kinds of strange.
At least you can write a book about it when you get older "thousand ways how not to approach a lady" 😅
too many
When I was like year 9 (age 13) this year 12 dude (16/17 yo) added me on Facebook then proceeded to message me asking to hook up, I said no and he kept basically begging me. I screenshotted it and showed my friends, played along with it, he gave me his address said I'd be there in 20 min. I never showed up and about an hour later he messaged me going off about how he was going to tell everyone at school I was a slut and that I sucked him off. Told him I have screenshots to prove I didn't and I'd be happy to print them off and carry them with me. He blocked me (pretty sure I'm still blocked) and he avoided me like a plague at school.
yikes.
Oh he was also one of the popular kids, not that my school had cliques but like everyone knew him type guy
did everyone know after that what he tried to do?
Only me and my friends. Kept his dirty little secret
well you had leverage over him heh
Lucky him I can't even remember his name now
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One girl I used to work with, who was too young for me, tried to start avoiding me and not even really wanting to speak to me.
Another was an old friend who was married and confessed her feelings for me but I told her I didn't like her like that. She got angry and claimed I did but I honestly did not, I always liked her as a friend.
He tried to turn all my friends against me because I turned him down
How did he do that?
He made up lies about me to them and if they had a social event he would tell them not to invite me
Threatened to kill me. Made other people send me death threats lol.
was this your ex or totally other guy? lol
Ex lol. Although I had another kid threaten to kill me too
geez whats with all these boys (yes boys) threatening to kill you? damn lol
If only I knew😂 I think I attract a lot of crazies. “Boys” indeed.
He tried to kill himself. The worst part is to be blamed for the poor choices of an idiot.
I worked with this one girl In my youth who had one of her friends tell me she liked me and wanted me to ask her out. Unbeknownst to them a third girl who I also worked with tipped me off that she heard them plotting to get me to ask that girl out just so she could reject me and they both could laugh at my expense.
Obviously it hurt my feelings. But I sacked up and approached those two and looked the girl right in the eye and said. " You're a really nice girl. And I'm very sorry but I'm just not interested". She went from a satisfied grin to a look of outrage in nothing flat. She told me "It was a joke you moron". Not breaking character, I said "I get it, you're feeling hurt right now. But you're not entirely unattractive. You're going to find another guy eventually". She snorted in anger and shouted "I didn't want to go out with you anyways"! Then she turned and stormed away. Then I turned to her friend who just stood there mouth open and I said "Do me a favor and console her it was never my intent to break her heart". And you could see she wasn't sure whether or not to laugh at what just happened or try to continue their ruse. Of course this is a job with young people who gossip all the time. So for the next couple weeks it was the buzz that I rejected her which she had to keep defending the fact that she never wanted to go out with me. And I just played up what a good girl she was and how she was going to eventually find somebody. And the girl that tipped me off never said a word. Just grinned everytime it came up.
I mean this wasn't from the girl herself. But I liked a girl and told her about it. She said she didn't share the feelings and was sorry if she led me on.
Her best friend then had a rather stern chat with me making sure to note how protective she is of her friend, mentioning a double black belt and such. My guess is that she was a closet lesbian who also had a crush on this girl.
But then I later found out that she and her friends started spreading rumors around campus that I was a sexual predator, had assaulted several women, and one girl apparently claimed that I "broke into her apartment and sucked on her toes".
This later escalated to a guy trying to assault me, and receiving several in-person death threats if I was on the wrong side of campus.
I took it up with security, and they looked into it and found out it was indeed rumors, but then just advised that I stay away from that side of campus. I could have taken legal action against the guy who tried to assault me, but I know he wasn't involved in spreading the rumors and was just acting against someone he believed to be a sexual predator.
That happened back in 2011. But like the issue of sexual assault and predation is an issue I take very seriously, and I'm cautious with women's boundaries to certainly a self-detrimental level. So like, a decade later I've been seeing a therapist about it.
This guy who i wasn't even close to (classmate & friend of a friend) messaged me telling me about how he got charged with sexual harassment from his ex girlfriend. Said he just wanted to be honest with me. I was confused as hell as to why he told me and was just like "oh, okay".
Then he asks me out when i see him at the mall. I told him i wasn't interested, let him down gently and thought that was that.
This guy was disgusting and kept touching me and grabbing me. I'd literally say the words "I'm not joking, you need to stop touching me" and he'd laugh and say "okay". Next day, do the same shit.
I literally wanted to vomit. He'd fucking harass me in classes too until my teacher saw him. Called him out, yelled at him, and made it so he wasn't allowed to sit anywhere near me.
He tried to hang out with a bunch of my guys friends and they were nice because he told them we were close. Once i told them, they pretty much took care of it and he never bothered me again 🤷♂️
It just annoyed the shit out of me that me telling him "no" "stop" "im not interested" wasn't fucking enough. He had to hear it from guys?
That one was the worst. It only lasted for like a week? Week and a half? But it was enough to nauseate me.
His girlfriend message me later on too, lol.
I can't answer with any personal experiences. This is because after being cheated on years ago I stopped asking girls out and kept them all in the friend zone. I stay casual with the ladies and am happy. But, this question jogged a memory from about 5 years ago. I was sitting at a table in an Outback Steakhouse listening to a couple talk. I was not eavesdropping because they were speaking in a volume I really had no other choice. The man told her he was not interested in being in an exclusive relationship and if that was what she wanted well, BYE! Then he walked out. I was sitting with two friends both women and I watched that girl's face. One of the ladies at my table got up and walked over to the table and spoke to her in a really quiet tone. Then several minutes later both got up and came over to my table and we all sit there. The girl was 20 something and cried for several minutes. I took her check and paid for everybody's meals that day. I did not ask for her information. I simply took my business card out. Gave it to her and said call me or shoot me an email if you ever want to talk to me. The last words I heard that girl say was F**k him and the horse he rode in on, smiled, and walked to her car. I never heard from her after that!
All I did was say no thanks, and I was hit with an avalanche of racial slurs and being told I deserve to be raped and beaten and all sorts of good stuff.
This was some 27 year old on the internet and I was 15. My age was clearly displayed, as he cold messaged me on Facebook from a group I was in. Super not creepy.
Oh, and he cold opens with that ultracringe shy roleplay shit too.
"H-hi, I just... *plays with his hair* I thought you were pretty and I wanted to know if you wanted to chat *blushes*"
My body physically rejects reading shit like that.
yeah thats cringe wow.
some dudes just take it way too far
Not me but a friend of mine.
she was supposed to come to restaurant with me and then girlfriend if I remember right,
we got to restaurant and waited and waited, was texting her, calling her names as you do lol.
Someone in the restaurant was talking to waitress that there was an incident going on at xyz street, the name rung a bell, so we asked for more.
we find out that it’s a hostage situation, this girl (who we are waiting for) had rejected her date for the night and he had returned with a shotgun and was holding her hostage.
Bloody hard decision, have meal or head over and see what’s happening with our friend, we decided on going with the meal lol.
Apparently the guy had a track record for being rejected, the usual reason was he was nice then came over mega weird.
i think he had the wrong idea on body counts.
Wow scary
I didn't have any bad experiences irl. But I did have a not so great experience (not very horrible fortunately) on here. There was a guy on here from a foreign country who wanted me to be his girlfriend. I felt like he was trying to force a relationship with me. We spoke about this in DMs. I started to feel uncomfortable with his advances (when he kept telling me he likes me) and he didn't take it so well when I told him I feel uncomfortable. He said we shouldn't speak any more so I stopped messaging him and I unfollowed him.
yeah he sounds too immature. disrespectful
When I was 16 I was into this girl for like 2 months and finally worked up the courage to ask her out. I approached her and politely and kindly told her that I liked her and wanted to go out. She rejected me harshly by making a huge scene in front of hundreds of peers on the lunchroom. "Go out with you? Omg! Why would I ever go out with someone as fat and ugly as you?" Imagine 200-300 pairs of eyes staring right at you... Yeah I didn't bother asking another girl out till about 22. No homecoming or prom for me.
He started stalking me and spreading weird and horrible rumors about me (no one believed him though because he was not mentally stable). He sent me horrifying messages and threats and then the next day he professed his love to me. Eventually he got suspended, but it didn’t end there. He showed up at school (which was not allowed) and gave me gifts and presents. He even called my mom at some point. It has been over 3 years and he still keeps on making new Facebook and instagram accounts so send me strange messages. In a way, I do feel bad for him. I know he needs help, but he refuses to get any and I can’t get involved because he’s dangerous.
I haven’t rejected anyone since. I act nice and try to avoid them and ghost them. I’m kind of scared to reject people after that.
After i turned him down, a guy started to stalk me, and looked like he was going to weep every time he saw me up close. (I was forced to see him, as we had a class together.) Scared the shit of out of me. I started carrying weapons, and had my phone ready to call 911 with my finger near the call button while I walked home from campus.
I ended up visiting campus police, told them when and where our class was, and they gave him a visit. I didn't want to waste more time because of him, so I didn't push further with the faculty, but he stopped after that.
I was clubbing with my girlfriends and some guy approached me while I was having fun with them enjoying drinks and talking. I only told him it was girl's night and we weren't about the fellas that night. The guy had a flat-out meltdown right there in the club yelling obscenities and sexist nonsense. The bouncers had to remove him.
Did the bouncers really have to wail on him to get him out?
Nah, he really wasn't in their weight class. They just dragged him out.
bad behavior on his part damn
Not particularly. Well after me and my last ex broke up and after I had gotten with my current partner he kind of freaked out on me and called me a bitch because I didn't want to hook up with him since getting into a new relationship. You should check out r/niceguys and r/nicegirls. 😂 Some crazy, crazy fuckers out there.
Oh yeah its nuts!
I know this question was meant for girls. But I'll share my story when I rejected an girl.
Back in second grade (15 yr old) an girl apparently had a crush on me. She tried asking me out when i was eating with some friends at lunch. But the thing was, I tried to reject her politely but she went quite psycho afterwards. Made up false stories about how "rude" I was and made her cry on the toilet for hours. Plus trying to turn all my friends against me with the same bullshit stories. So I blocked her on all socials I have. About a year ago she tried contacting me again by using an new number. Probably with the same bullshit since I blocked her again after she tried to sent me an text on whatsapp.
Yes once a 33 yr old trolled proposed me here lol. I said that I'm not ready for a relationship now just to be polite. He said that if you say no then I know very well how to make you say yes. He said that he has been stalking me since I joined this platform. I was very scared from him. I didn't blocked him as he said he knew my IP address so I didn't want that he will do something if I block him. Next day I blocked him because of his behavior I knew he was making things up.
geez. sounds crazy. sorry you had to deal with that
I've never had anyone to reject. I've been rejected a few times every time I've always been polite abkut it. Granted j was disappointed but I normally said something like thank you for being honest or something like that and I'll give them some space was what I said to one as we were friends it kinda ended that for a few reasons one was it just kinda hurt to still talk to them.
Another kn a dating site said they wanted to look for someone closer to home. I know for a fact that I just said thank you for telling me I hope you find who your looking for and that I enjoyed talking to them.
Seeing that despite its hurt being rejected some more then others it sickens me to have read what others have experienced. Some of these are absolutely disgusting and horrific what people think is okay to do after rejection. It also saddens me to know that this is as common as it is.
Nothing too bad, once got called gay and then a rapist. Police came, got handcuffed, taken to the station. Was cleared there by the security cam footage. Was a fun evening.
One time it was just funny. I was in a gas station, a woman approaches and starts chatting me up. She was this party type, not my style. I politely turn her down and walk over to stand in the line for the toilets.
Then her friend comes, chatting me up. I'm like jesus, i gotta do it again. While she (the first girl in this gas station) is also few steps away.
After the toilet brake i was escorted outside of by my biker female friend, she laughed and said "she came to my rescue, she saw the whole thing and heard them planning a third attack"😅
Oh, I have a few:
1. I turned down a guy in college and he then then accused me of being a “tranny”, because no straight woman would ever turn him down. He accused me of having a penis...
2. An obese nerd at my college came into me, and when I turned him down, he accused me of being a, “boring, basic bitch anyone”.
3. I turned down another guy who told me someone would still “pay for my crotch”, and that I should just become an escort... thanks?
Sorry for laughing, but that "penis" part really cracked me up! What a punk! :-D
@DryGermanGuy I’m glad I made you laugh!
The last one was just a job offer, with extra steps😅
I was at a library minding my business looking at books and this guy came up to me and asked me out. I told him, I was flattered, but I was in a relationship, which I was. The guy looked at me dead in my eyes, and called me a f*cking b*tch and a liar and then walked off.
He wasn't the one for you
@ninaneedshelp no kidding! Plus literally what else do you say...I'm flattered, I'm dating someone, that's the truth. I would hope when or if this guy got a girlfriend, he would want her to respect their relationship!!!
Exactly
Oh goodness. I am reading the other comments and gosh I feel fortunate that I did not have an experience like these other fine ladies. I can honestly say that nothing "bad" really happened to me.
There was disappointment for sure, but no one every threatened me harm in any way. I feel just terrible what some of these girls have been through. 😞
Yeah he told people he hoped I die.
he also said he hopes I get burnt from head to toe in a fire.
He also wanted me to be raped.
Later he, began tellin everyone how ugly and flat chested I was.
I just ignored him
geez. all these dudes giving out death threats smh
Well, I got rejected by a girl.
She said it calmly.
I thanked her for her honesty and left.
We encountered each other many times, but I did not even look at her after that. We were in the same class.
There were instances where I was just looking outside the windows in the classes and then would notice something moving and then it would be her turning her head towards the board. It confused me, but I never gave any thought to it. Still don't give it.
u We were both at different high schools and when I rejected him, he went around his high school and told everyone that I had r*ped him. His friends stalked me and called me horrible names in public, videod me, and slandered my name on social media. It took 2 years for it to die down.
Haven't asked many girls out, but one stands out in my memory, not as like a bad reaction but just an unusual one. Asked a girl out in 8th grade, she asked me a bunch of questions to test if I was seriously interested (Apparently I passed). Said she'd think about it, literally forgot I asked for 2 years. By the time she remembered I was already with my now ex. Wasn't even mad cause I was happy in that relationship.
I actually had a girl tell me I was really cute and I was her boyfriend now and she better not catch me with no other girls. I had just met her barely said five words to her. I just laughed and left she was crazy but I didn’t have any problems with her and only seen her one more time after that and she said something along the same shit but she kinda laughed and I just left really if she wasn’t crazy I might of hooked up with her cause she was pretty hot just too crazy
Went to my chain of command and lied saying I sent harassing texts. She had a friend send her threatening texts while having that friend under my name. My chain of command asked me and I submitted my phone for investigation. She was barred from the base, which means her dependa tactics were pretty much done for.
Besides being called a slut or delusional cause "I made up, that he approached me" , worst would have been stalking
how did they stalk you?
He thankfully only knew were I used to work but he would stand outside on the other side of the street and watch me or like after my worktime he did follow me a few times and I would always take the longer road, to make sure that he doesn't figure out what way I take to get home. Sometimes when I worked late I would make the guy, I was seeing at that time, pick me up or ask a male friend.
wow scary. did you call the cops or something?
Well I did go to the police twice bevor that, cause of another case and they send me away saying that they can't do something, unless something real happens and so in this case/situation I didn't call the police, I knew they wouldn't help
that sucks.
Girl at the sandwich shop at my grocery store. 1st time I ever asked a girl out was almost shaking I was so nervous.
I wanted to go see a movie.
I was just a mere bagger but I went for it.
,, Hey wanna see this movie Friday?,,
,, NO!!,,
Welp that was that
Being told that I will accept him and he'll do whatever it takes, such as becoming a stalker and I've had this happen more than once.
Basically, rejection means he's going to try harder in a potentially illegal way.
Got all up in my face and called me an ugly fat bitch lmao.
Dodged that bullet then wow
Lmao sure did. He was embarrassed and got even more embarrassed after that because I made him look stupid in front of his friends.
Once I didn’t meet up with a 36 year old guy when I was 23 for a drink. He told me “bring your curves over here tonight” and I refused to. He then went off on me and told I have a “sad little job” and that I’m “23, fat, and stupid” and called me a “tier 3” whatever that even means.
I hope he caught covid.
This girl I matched with one time got upset because I made a sarcastic remark about how dry the conversation was going and started going off saying she was too pretty for me, that she only matches when fucked up, has tons of other men in her dms even though she wouldn't leave me alone when I asked lol, it was unreal
one guy canled the date and dediced to friendzone me. another guy refuse to make plan or cofirm anything. another guy called me ugly. My ex boyfriend were toxic. another cheater ex boyfriend tried to ask me out and i rejected him.
I was called names or they suddenly turn from friendly to creepy
Like how? What did they do?
She started avoiding me like some plague. If she wasn't interested, she could just tell me straight up. I found that act really childish.
Rejected him so he sent some random girls nudes in his friend group chat (had a significant amount of guys) saying they were mine
he harassed me on instagram dms with insults with broken spelling cause he’s dyslexic until i blocked him
Oh yeah, I had a girl threaten me with her going to the police and tell them I raped he of I didn't go out with her. That was actually very scary.
I was called a bitch for turning down a registered child molester. I thought I was kind. I could have said what I was really thinking.
Had a woman throw a Brick through my car window. Had a girl freak out and tell me she's never been told no b4 which I thought was weird. I had a girl drop out of school and a woman threaten to commit suicide.
Tried to blackmail me and get my friends to leave me
He said that I wasn't that pretty and he just wanted to date me because another girl rejected him.
I haven't really ever got rejected before I told one guy I liked him and I kind of already knew he liked me so yeah
You never rejected a guy before either?
m she almost tried to kidnap me, for a night... kind of, sort of...
Some girl was acting like she was into me but she was really playing me for money and stuff then when I caught on I kept saying no the last time she asked me for money after that she said fuck it
He said me never to speak with him again and blocked me everywhere
He made a big scene in public and started swearing at me calling me a bitch and all sorts of things.
Sounds like a total A-hole!
When you reject them but they won't stop texting you even though you ignore them. That's just sad.
So. e people cannot handle rejection of any type. My ex could not handle being told NO. Everything had to be her way and about her. "NARCISSISTIC" as hell.
That I can remember he texted me and told me I had a big nose
Thank god I've never been asked out by a guy, so never had to deal with rejection.
a guy who did his best to make me break up with my boyfriend because i rejected him
by crying
it made me feel special and terrible and confused all at the same time :(
tried to run me over with his car
Oh shit wow
yeah it was very scary
He threatened to kill himself.
Geez this seems to be common
Still, kind of a self solving problem🙃
@Still-alive @cookiecrusher I knew hw would never follow through.
He called me a hoe. And I laughed lmao.
Hovered over me while I slept with my new partner.
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