What would you say? You're better off alone/single or would like someone?

[Anonymous]

Nah, I'm better off alone. I'm ridin' solo! 😎

Yes, just waiting my soulmate but they never come 🥲

I'm cool, if happens it happened. If not that's fine too ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I'm currently dating/married 😉😊

OTHER (write your opinion) 🥳

[ohshee]

It kind of sounds like you probably been hurt before it's not always going to be like that but you'll probably go through five or six more guys you just have to pay attention to who they are and what they really want and I will tell you the truth in the same sentence that he lies to you in if the guy's not going to make it all about you don't even get hooked up with him you need to look into his eyes and pay attention to what he says otherwise you're going to get hurt again I can tell you a lot more things but just be careful 95 out of 100 guys your age are going to use you so they can tell all their buddies but instead they are fuck them stay away from those guys you can tell those guys just by the way they talk to you the way they look at you when they talk to you look deep into their eyes if they cannot hold their eyes to your eyes you're bullshittin you turn lying to you they want one thing from you and that's it don't be that girl that falls for that shit your question is a very good question because all the above is something that you're going to have to experience for you to understand it and I hate that I even have to say that to me because it's wrong but just pay attention to every word that a guy says to you he will tell you the truth the same time he's lying to you and he doesn't even know it

[Asker]

Well, I still didn't get hurt as I never dated yet but your advice is really good.
It's great, now I can apply what u mentioned in the future!
Yeah, I've heard that some guys just use girls to then brag to their buddies...
Till now didn't experience nothing of this fortunately, but is good to know.
Thank very much! ^^

[ohshee]

Your very welcome at your age everything is brand new for you and boys the boys think they are so smart and all they have to do is be nice to the girl and she's going to give in and that's where you have to be smart because if you pay attention to people you look into their eyes listen to their voice the tone of their voice to body language and if they're lying to you they're going to tell you they're lying to you just by the way they act and not look into your eyes but 99% of the boys are going to try to date you and I hate saying this but 99% of the boys are going to try to get into your pants and I'll just walk away don't get me wrong just a lot of nice guys out there probably it will treat you right and make it all about you and not about themselves and that's what you want

[Avcfhcic]

Unfortunately I was not blessed with looks which led to confidence being low so I've never had anything with a girl ever (21).
I want to get a girl obviously just for that someone to care for and love.
Maybe one day 🙃

[Asker]

And I'm sure you'll get one ^^
I'll be rooting for ya!!

[Avcfhcic]

I appreciate it 😊
What about you?

[Asker]

Just chilling Lol

[Avcfhcic]

Ever had a man? Or want one in the future?

[Asker]

No, I didn't have yet. Lol
Future?

[Avcfhcic]

Are you wanting a man in the future? Since you're chilling now

[sensible27]

Confidence is a function of certainty or redundancy..

[Asker]

Lol, I mean I'm not planning nothing.
It's like that option:
" I'm cool, if happens it happened. If not that's fine too ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ "

[Avcfhcic]

Well I wish you luck with whatever makes you happy ☺️

[Asker]

Thank you!
Wish u the same 😊

[MCheetah]

I would more so love to be with someone and share my life with them, but women aren't attracted to men like me. Even if they were, women often do a lot of selfish things and if I weren't with the right one, it'd be a nightmare. I want someone who can make my life feel more enjoyable, not more stressful or another burden to bear. So maybe I'm better off without a woman, then.

I guess that means I'm simultaneously option A, B, and C at the same time. Emotionally, option B. Realistically, option A. And pragmatically, option C. (But let's be real; women aren't into guys who look like me.) So I voted Option E.

[Asker]

I'm sorry you went through these bad experiences.
But I'll be rooting for ya to find the right woman for u!!

[MCheetah]

Thank you.

[Daniela1982]

Sometimes you settle when you shouldn't have and pay the price

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right.
We always need to be careful too ^^
Good advice!

[Realbanger87]

I want to marry one of these gorgeous women I have started meeting. Sadly I have to choose 1, while they are all just amazing to be with. I used to be good being single, but now I would really love to be in a marriage with one of these lovely women

[Asker]

Yay, wish u good luck!

[Novacane]

I mean anybody would like to have someone there for them that gets them but being a man and in today's dating market I can say that you are better off alone.

[Asker]

Lol, for both (women and men) isn't that easy. But I guess it never was actually ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.
I, myself used to be a "Han Solo" Lol
Now I'm just neutral, but dating isn't easy

[Novacane]

Oh yeah, of course, I acknowledge that both men and women have their own individual struggles, as someone mentioned to me once the best things in life don't come easy. But if we compare and contrast, men do tend to have it harder.

[Asker]

Yeah, nothing comes easy...
Men have it harder? Didn't know

[TheUniqueOne96]

I'm cool, if happens it happened. If not that's fine too ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I've never been with anyone nor tried to pursue, so I'm not too bothered and just ultimately want to be happy.

[Asker]

Me neither fellow Lol

[JSmuve]

Used to be B, now I'm somewhere between A and C. After maturing, I've realized that the right woman isn't gonna come along.

[Asker]

I'll be rooting for ya to find the right woman!!

[ChrisMaster69]

I suck being alone, I had all of 2020 pretty much on my own.

[Asker]

Yeah, definitely not for everyone Lol

[ChrisMaster69]

Also I think those that have it harder are those that make it so.

Both have it hard if they have that ‘life’s unfair on me attitude’

[Asker]

Yeah, you're right.
We actually just need to do the first move. The first action to change everything.
Sometimes we're just too insecure but it's good go out our comfort zones!

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah I am very much into pushing people out of their comfort zones, we learn by failing and moving outside that comfort blanket.

Life is for living n loving

[Asker]

That's awesome, I'll need to take the advice and put into action Lol

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol do it.

Don’t just sit back and let the calendar flick through the days and months.

Do something, seize the day.

People get complacent being single

[Asker]

Haha Lol 😅 Got it, will do!

[Iron_Man]

I would like to have a girlfriend but I can’t stand jealous Argumentative control freaks I have to have my freedom

[Asker]

Yeah, I can understand u.
But hey, there are women that think like u too. U just didn't meet she yet lol
I'll be rooting for ya!

[Iron_Man]

I met a girl on here that is absolutely crazy and very possessive very jealous. This has been going on since June anyway thanks for rooting for me

[clampfan101]

Waiting for my soulmate for as long as it takes to find her.

[Asker]

Yay!! I'll be rooting for ya!!

[InferiorElegy]

I used to want someone but I gave up on that, girls don't want monsters.

[Asker]

Ahhh, don't underestimate yourself!
I'm sure you'll find a girl that'll love u for who u are!

[Anonymous]

inb4 "I don't *need* a man, I would only *want* one".
:eyeroll:

[Asker]

As long as you're happy that's what really matters! ^^

[Opinion Owner]

That’s another typical line, yes.

Obviously the words of naive people or people who are lost and need excuses.

[Citizenkirk]

It takes 2 too tango, so hooking up with someone isn't all that easy sometimes.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I feel as though I’d rather be with somebody but the time just isn’t right

[Asker]

At the right time I'm sure you'll find someone ^^

[WhiteBoyChill]

I do hope so. Some guys wait a very long time but I am slowly getting better

[Asker]

You will find eventually, but if the waiting gets too long don't hesitate but make the first move.

Who knows? Maybe someone you're interested in could feel the same as well but be insecure about initiating! ^^

[pollnokohj]

Better alone than a relationship that makes me lonelier. But if makes me happy, why not date?

[Asker]

Totally agree! ^^

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

In theory I'm better off single but not in reality I can only go so long going without sex.

[baarrryyy030]

well im kinda waiting but i guess i made my choice already

[Likes2drive]

Just waiting for the right one to come again

[Asker]

You'll find the one ^^
I'll be rooting for ya!!

[Likes2drive]

Thanks, I’m not getting any younger though

[Asker]

You're welcome!
There's no such a thing as right age to find your soulmate ^^
I believe you'll find the one!

[Likes2drive]

At least you’re optimistic 😊

[Jasmine-Darkfire]

C either or, good either way.

[Marianna34n]

I am single as a pringle!!!

[sensible27]

*looks at pringles* *confused*

[Marianna34n]

@sensible27 Lol

[Anonymous]

I am married so I am too busy for a relationship.

[Asker]

Yay!!

[sensible27]

I don't know..

[Asker]

Well, I'm sure you'll know once the time comes ^^

[sensible27]

♪save your tears♪

[Asker]

🎶... I run away🎶

[sensible27]

(hope you find something better than you know to look for)

[Asker]

?
Thank you?
Well, wish u the best

[ладуна]

Really I don't know

[Asker]

I'm sure you'll know once the time comes ^^

[ладуна]

💋😇

[devoygf]

I'm currently dating

[Asker]

Yay!!! Good for ya!