Would you rather be single or settle for someone that's "ordinary"?

[musicloverr8]

I am getting to the age where I am looking for a relationship but it's hard to find someone I am interested in settling down with. I feel like sometime I will have to settle for someone who's "ordinary".

I'd rather be single (comment)

I'd rather settle with someone that's ordinary because I dont want to be alone

Other - explain

[MCheetah]

It depends on what you mean by "ordinary." If you mean average/mediocre/nothing special, then I'd much rather be single. But if by "ordinary" you mean boring (but has a really good heart and treats you well), then I'd rather take a boring good-girl.

So in the end, it comes down to how they make you feel. I've met girls who I thought were a 5 in looks, with personalities that were an 8 or 9. I've met girls who were an 8 or 9 in looks, but also a little boring and stupid and didn't have much to converse about. Out of those two options, I'd choose the "ordinary looking" 9 any day over someone who is just straight 5's across the board. or only had looks going for them

[TheorionMage]

You're realizing 'exceptional' companions are increasingly ALREADY committed...
this leaves YOU but one of two choices...
You DON'T get to land that exceptional companion, that brings YOU to 'adventures'
so find yourself some dolt 'pretty boy' who's good in bed
and CHALLENGE HIM to follow YOU and keep up!

BECOME that fantasy 'cougar'...
"When you have 'em by their balls, ... their hearts & minds will follow"
~Unofficial Marine Corps motto

[Anonymous]

a great relationship with an "ordinary" person can be amazing. A strained relationship with an amazing attractive person isn't very satisfying.

look for someone who wants what you want with you and wants to put in the work alongside you to have the sort of relationship that brings you both joy and satisfaction.

[slatyb]

What do you mean by "ordinary?" You aren't likely to attract someone extraordinary unless you are also extraordinary. Most people seek their equal in intellect, maturity, physical fitness, and ambition. Where are you on those scales?

[Anonymous]

Hey sis... The day will come. Wait for it.
90 days back I thought I found my soulmate...
Not it turned out to be a break up as soon as possible coz she's not giving attention to me as when she chased me for my love... I don't know why...

[zagor]

What is so special about you that you deserve someone extraordinary?

[tallcuck]

To deserve extraordinary you habe to be it yourself. Not just think you are. People like people like themselves. Is this why so many people are single? Do they all want extraordinary while being ordinary?

[exitseven]

I would rather be single. Relationships are hard enough as it is. Having somebody you are not excited to be with will make for a very long life.

[Honesttguy]

Grab the best one from your pool thats all u can really do.

[Nik1hil]

Yeah.. An ordinary girl..
But a horny one..
Not beautiful..
Just physically fit and horny..

[Guanfei]

I'll settle for someone I like, and if she's "ordinary", then I'm fine with it.

[Hawkiii]

Some the most exceptional partners are rather ordinary people.

[neeeeeeeko]

What's wrong with ordinary?

[Gatorademebiatch]

Never settle!!

[tallcuck]

Yea keep running from the waste you make...

[Dchrls78104]

I'd rather be alone than settle!

[Anonymous]

I prefer boring.