Why is it shallow if a woman wants to date fit guys? (Page 3)

[Mehzmeh]

Don’t you love double standards? I don’t see what’s wrong with a female only liking what she likes. Like I only date a certain type of female. And I am not mad at a female only dating a certain type at all.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Because some women who have this standard are fat themselves.

Have whatever standards you want, just don't complain when others have different ones.

[Anonymous]

It's not shallow at all, you can date your preference freely. However, women publicly say they want a tall, handsome guy, but if a man says he will not date fat girls, everyone shames him as a pig.
I stay fit and rejected a fat girl once, she started name-calling.

[slatyb]

Who says it's shallow? People tend to seek their equals in intelligence, emotional maturity, ambition, and fitness.

[AimeeKyle]

Looking for someone fit isn’t shallow, it is just one of many trait of the individual. It could actually be looked at as being a way of life. Everyone has their own preferences. Go for what you want and don’t worry about what others think.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

It's ok for you to have a preference for fit men. It's not any more shallow than anyone else's body preferences. Haters gonna hate

[Anonymous]

I find it weird that men call it shallow whilst in the same breath describing their ideal girlfriend based off of the same exact preferences. Like if you don't fit the bill just say that but to act as if you're so high and mighty and women shouldn't want what they want because YOU don't look like that... it's hypocritical and embarrassing.

[molonski2]

As long as she's in decent nik herself its fine , no fit person is going to go out with a Pom Poy doughnut eater.

[SaraSmithishere]

I mean, are you fit as well?
I go to the gym a few times a week and I’ve ever worked with a personal trainer, and yes, I DO want a fit man because we’d live a solid ale lifestyle.

[SaraSmithishere]

*live a similar lifestyle

[genericname85]

It's both shallow. Just with girls we point it out more, cause they tend to claim they aren't shallow, while men are usually honest.

[SupremeWarlord]

It's not, because that's what turns you on apparently, and it's not shallow to be physically attracted to your partner, we use our bodies to do things after all.

[Curmudgeon]

It isn't at all. BUT - men *are demonized* for having their preferences in mass media and "popular" (sic) culture today.

[Juxtapose]

Yes it is shallow, because I don't have those ridiculous standards and no guy I know has ridiculous standards like that.

I just want a woman who can get my dick hard and doesn't make me want to shoot myself.

[YesICan]

"But its ok for a man to date hot blonde women with big breasts?"

Says who? That's just a straw-man argument, It's shallow both ways. We are all (Vast majority) inherently shallow creatures.

[Lookingforthetruth]

It is not shallow. In fact men have no problem if a woman only wants to date fit guys.

The problem is that women often get pump and dump and then go on a bitch fest that they can't find a decent guy to date them.

[loveslongnails]

Who said it's shallow to want that - anyone who matters or has a functional brain? What I've found to be shallow, and hypocritical, are girls/guys who are unfit that want to date ONLY girls/guys who ARE fit !! Huh?

[Gingerguy33]

You do you if you like skinny guys date skinny guys it don’t matter to me live your life the way you want

[ananias55]

I couldn't care less what you like.
Just don't judge me over what I like.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Who said it was shallow? Just like guys, women also have preferences and we need to respect them.

[VikingWarLord]

It's shallow if she's not fit herself, and overweight land-whale.