1. Fuck material
2. Date material (+ sex)
3. Long-term material (when she's very good looking)
Why date someone if you know from the get-go that you don't find them attractive enough for something long term?
I think from a guy's pov, "cute" means she's hot but not high maintenance. A different kind of hot woman who is high maintenance might only look hot when she's using lots of fakery. That's actually lower value to (most) men than a woman who needs less/no fakery. Anyhow, a guy with experience/maturity is not going to give a woman a serious relationship based on her looks! It's all about her personality. So to use an analogy, imagine you see a bunch of cars driving down the road... the person's looks are like the body of the car. The personality is the engine. Yeah, guys like the nice looking cars but he ain't going to buy the car with a little lawn mower for an engine no matter how hot that car looks.
For me there are no categories. If I am attracted to them and their personality is something am also attracted to, then the length and depth of the relationship boils down to what happens as we encounter and find the balance as we combine two individual lives. The co-independence factor.
Any woman can look hot. Any woman can be cute. But no woman is unattractive. Granted everyone has their preference.
Now, are guys these days creating categories? Yes, and I may never understand why. Just as I do not understand the hook up/casual thing.
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In the short version, a lot of guys doubt they're going to get the whole package. They don't expect to get a girl that will be fuckable, datable, and long-term especially without some issues attached. To be honest chances are nobody ever gets 100% of what they want in a partner and guys know this.
I only have one category is she is beautiful on the inside she has very beautiful heart she's confident she is happy she is smart intelligent and I want to date her the outside was just an extra bonus don't worry your time is coming you will find somebody or they will find you that you have to radiate who you are on the inside to the outside if you are all the above you will have no problem
Men like me who are not good looking or below average looks didn't have the rights to pick from any categories...😅.
But seriously i never had a girlfriend in my life till now so i don't know anything about this.
The kind of people that do casual sex are not the kind of people a good person should be with. A person's past matters because it shows their values.
And in my opinion, the "cute" look is the best look.
Firstly, "cute" is the long term adjective.
Secondly, it's because it's better than nothing and things might change who knows.
But consider the alternative, what's the point in not dating them? Being alone?
Why wouldn't I date them is the real question.
Assuming that's true which i pressume is not. People don't really know what they want, or maybe they're intentionally leading you on
I don't think that would but I'm not good looking at all so I'm not going to be so picky in the looks Department on who I date
The main reasons why I rejected a girl for long term had little to do with her looks, and a lot with her attitude.
Cute or pretty doesn't have anything to do with long term, it's her personality that matters but there has to be some physical attraction to begin with.
I never did any thing like that, at a dance I would just ask do we leave together tonight? some times I got a slaped face others were good.
Because almost everyone does that. Not just men. Have you noticed that too?
That’s a confusing question. If she is attractive then why not ask her out?
Because in many instances, guys don't know how things are going to turn out.
Interesting theory I would say men would prefer pretty as well for dating
I onlyy date someone with personality
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